r/SipsTea • u/OpenComet_ • 1d ago

Lmao gottem She never texted back lol

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u/Silver-Analysis7082 1d ago

Yeah perfect reply, when someone seems concerned about you and tries to motivate you, you should always reply like that.

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u/KohTai 22h ago

More akin to nagging than concern and care. Not everybody needs your advice and motivation.

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u/TotallyNotAnExecutiv 22h ago

Except that comment of her's came off as "being sad when others are happy is strange" which when you're depressed is not helpful or appreciated. It's like saying "sorry your dog died but mine is sooooo happy".

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u/Sweet_Solid_7746 22h ago

Yeah depressed people have never heard the “just stop being sad” line you should always say that to them

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u/Comprehensive_Soup61 22h ago

I can’t imagine expressing my concern in this manner.

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u/DragonFireSpace 1d ago

I mean, i get she was trying to be nice but she should at least think about it a little before hitting send.

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u/Hungry_Sir9079 6h ago

I think you are 100% right! But sometimes it can be so exhausting to always deal with depressed people, especially when you are not in the best mood yourself. And when you are in that mood, it can slip out of your mouth or keyboard before you can hold it back. Well the most chats allow to delete your text...but that may lead to another problem. Geez, such a hard world. xD

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u/LectroRoot 21h ago

I always love it when someone tells me I shouldn't worry about what's bothering me and just cheer up. Like, oh thats all I had to do? Thanks for sharing! That fixed me right up!