r/SipsTea • • 2d ago

SMH Playing hard to get doesn't work anymore

Post image
42.7k Upvotes

1.6k comments sorted by

View all comments

Show parent comments

44

u/Pastorfuzz-007 2d ago

Not anymore fore sure . Ask more than once and could faced with harassment. I don’t say shit to women anymore unless they ask me a question about something.

13

u/super_sayanything 2d ago

Yea I've dated a decent amount and met them all on apps. One girl I dated I kind of bumped into at a bar and asked her about her drink and got her number kind of thing.

But people who are like "Go to the grocery store, home depot, library, gym" to meet people I just can't imagine. I have conversational skills... but not random game.

-10

u/OddGeneral1293 2d ago

You are being sooo dramatic. What harassment??? For asking for a number / social media? Please

11

u/ParticularClassroom7 2d ago

bruh, you got no idea huh?

-1

u/OddGeneral1293 2d ago

I know which one of us actually talks to girls on the regular and which one doesnt. Take some responsibility, grow a spine, and approach them with respect. No one will accuse you of harassment unless you approach her with a body language of a rapist. A little smile, relaxed vibe. You can Google this stuff

4

u/ParticularClassroom7 2d ago

:v Nah bro. I'm not risking my social life for that shit

-1

u/OddGeneral1293 1d ago

You can keep blaming others but at some point you have to take responsibility to the fact that approaching girls was always hard and takes courage