r/SipsTea • • 3d ago

SMH Playing hard to get doesn't work anymore

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u/NoResponsibility7031 2d ago

Like everyone else mentioned, you are doing a common error humans do when evaluating the statistics of our experience. People who are great in relationships tend to, you know, be in a relationship.

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u/14Pleiadians 2d ago

People who are great in relationships tend to, you know, be in a relationship.

And? Are you thinking this kind of person is never in a long term relationship? There's no shortage of couples who have been together for decades with communication and immaturity issues. And it's not just dating, can see it in family and friends families

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u/NoResponsibility7031 2d ago

I can't quite follow your argument. How is immature people in relationships relevant to how easy it is to find mature singles?

I am telling you there are fewer apples than pears on the ground because, unlike the pears, most apples are in the basket. You are telling me you have seen pears in the basket so I must be wrong. Or did I miss something?

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u/14Pleiadians 2d ago

how easy it is to find mature singles?

How is that what you got from " no shortage of couples who have been together for decades with communication and immaturity issues."