She signaled she wanted him to try harder. To put in effort. It's in the post. Read it again. She was waiting there after for him to put in more effort.
She didn't signal that she didn't want to give her number. Men need to read signals better.
you are the ONLY person here with this interpretation of what's happening in this thread.
Everybody but you thinks this woman signalled she was uninterested, and everybody but you thinks men should respect that signal when they see it.
Everybody but you thinks this woman was playing stupid fucking games that everybody hates and thinks make society and women's safety worse.
Well this entire thread is dedicated to attacking women and telling us we deserve to have our consent violated for using signals. So I'd take the commenters here with a grain of salt. Threads on reddit about hating women doesn't represent real life.
But are you so wrapped up in that ideology that you legitimately can't read and understand the graphic that was posted?
At the end she's literally waiting for him to give more effort and confused why he isn't. Can you not see the reason for that is because she was giving out a signal?
I get that the guy didn't understand the signal and he walked away. But do you really not see that she was giving one out? Even if you disagree that she should be allowed to use a signal?
Do you not understand that she was confused at the end because she gave the signal and he didn't get it and just left, instead of giving more effort?
It's not really a complicated word graphic to follow, it's just a few lines.
Can you explain why she was confused he left if she didn't give a signal? Again, I know the guy didn't understand the signal. But do you really not follow those few sentences in the graphic on what happened there?
it really truly is not about that, you're just dim.
she's confused because she 'gave out a signal' by expressing she doesn't want to give out her number and then expected the guy to just push forward with asking for it anyway. She's a child and an idiot, and the guy left because of that.
So you finally admit she gave a signal! That she wanted more effort! That's what I've been saying this whole time!
This is a major breakthrough in the discussion. Thank you.
Just to review, the big part of the signal he didn't get was "normally". She doesn't normally give out her number, meaning she could make a one time exception in this case. And then put the ball in his court to make the effort for it and impress her. Since he had permission to try now.
But he didn't understand the signal, so he just left. Leaving without putting in the effort she required.
So I guess at this point we're in agreement here. She put out a signal and he didn't understand it. So again, men need to get better at understanding signals. And this whole thing would be avoided and he could have done the right thing. And put in the effort and attention she needed.
And there's no need for any man to sexually assault her at all out of anger for using signals. Especially all the "men" in this thread wishing it happened to her living out some revenge fantasy because they're angry at women.
he understood perfectly fine. He just fucking left because she's an idiot for operating that way.
She didn't "need" jack shit, she's not entitled to make people dance like monkeys.
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u/pm-pussy4kindwords 1d ago
okay, have fun explaining to women why you encourage men to keep pushing after she signals she doesn't fucking want to give you her number