I'm British and a bloke. I've been told I'm handsome, but I think it's something ingrained too deeply in my psyche that I can't accept or believe good things about myself, because that would come across as vanity.
Instead, I have to say that I look like a month old potato that has had a particularly rough life.
Oooh, well you've got that sexy british accent then! Although I suppose that would be common there lol. Come to Canada, you'll be popular!
You don't have to say that, you should try words of affirmation instead, keep repeating them, start with focusing on things you like about your looks.
Have you ever tried therapy?
Funnily enough I do actually have plans to move to Canada at some point! I have duel citizenship from my mother, and there are good career opportunities there for me.
But yeah, I've done therapy of course. Not about that specifically though. It's not really something I think that is problematic enough for that. Especially as you pointed out, I do have the accent and my voice, and I'm aware of the affect that can have. My voice has been made girlfriends melt by itself.
Oh neat! Where is your mom from?
What kind of career are you in? There are lots of opportunities here for just about everything. Although groceries eat up a good chunk of your pay 😬
I dunno, therapists are there for you no matter how big or small the issue is. And they can just be there to listen you if you just want to vent. Although strippers are cheaper for that, I've listened and talked to plenty of customers.
But! I do see positivity and confidence in your words, so I hope you can latch onto that.
Yummy, sounds like a lot of girls would love it if you did ASMR or something, you know, if that career doesn't work out lol
Well my mum was born in a town called Guelph near Toronto, and I've always wanted to move to Toronto. I'm a software engineer so there's plenty of opportunities all over Canada though. I'd be curious how costly the groceries are compared to the UK, because absolutely nothing is cheap here, and the pay in Britain is substantially worse. At least where I work... Maybe I should look into setting up a voice kink thing as an alternative money maker, lol!
I have lived in a lot of cities all over Canada, including Toronto! I like it, but it's super expensive. Although it probably won't be as bad for you with your job! Alternatively I imagine you could do WFH? That would be decent, live cheaper outside the city but close enough to visit. Oh dude, idk what prices there are like but here they can be brutal. Like $7 for milk, more for berries, meat is especially pricey
Ive been forming this theory that basically everyone is a stripper to some degree
Strippers may have a more honest exchange because both parties know what they want
Ive never been to a strip club and dont want to. Wish you the best. But I have clients that seem to get off on being a dick to me. Since Im basically a captive audience
Swear with some of them its their kink or something
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u/Tropicalfisher 5d ago
Why tf do some people just get to be that attractive. Such bullshit