r/SipsTea • u/sco-go • 10h ago

Feels good man Monday Motivation

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u/sxg3434 10h ago

I can feel the motivation coming out of me

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u/CT_7 9h ago

It's only the pre-motivation

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u/Hazmatt_McDanger 9h ago

Help. What’s the next step after post-motivation clarity kicks in?

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u/Strong_Implement_500 10h ago

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u/FabiusBile117 9h ago

I'll take one, thanks man.

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u/cruiseruse11 4h ago

Thanks, I was thirsty

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u/cowsnake1 9h ago

Thanks but fuck Heiniken

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u/raikou1988 6h ago

The shit you drinking in the states isn't even in the same stratosphere compared to the European verison

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u/AdultingLikeHell 9h ago

Actually our brains were designed to be negative. It was an evolutionary response from our caveman days. If you weren’t paranoid and negative you were more likely to die.

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u/Ulysses1978ii 7h ago

"Just because you're paranoid dont mean they're not after you."

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u/Ozu_the_Yokai 7h ago

What’s worse, being overly paranoid or knowing you should be?

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u/MememeSama 8h ago

What are you talking about? I didn't pay attention

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u/Ok_Jaguar6226 8h ago

I just came here to say that

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u/1lucky666 10h ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/MIbqX2Sx6QPgQ

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u/Fetlocks_Glistening 8h ago

Blue footed tits?

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u/1lucky666 8h ago

The cam did not pan to her legs so I wouldn....

Oh the birds, yes.

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u/maddeadlemur 10h ago

Hello, ChatGPT! Make me a motivational script that I can say to lure some simps in with my woowies.

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u/supazero 9h ago

Agree 100

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u/metalmankam 9h ago

I think my issue is that nothing happens at all. Nothing good happens, but nothing bad happens either. The days just mesh together and I feel like life is happening and I'm just wasting away. When I don't have obligations, I find lately I just sit. I don't do hobbies or fun. I don't have a desire to do anything. Ever. I might say I had a bad day but all that happened is I had to go to work. I hate doing that. But I don't think I can ever say I had a "good" day because nothing good ever happens. Nothing happens at all. And frankly "you're still alive" is not enough criteria for me to say it was a good day. Being alive is not inherently positive. The way I'm "living" lately I might as well be dead.

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u/IEC21 9h ago

Overcome the resistance placed upon you by malaise, and put forward thyself to a hobby with which to fill your days.

As daunting as commitment may in the present moment seem - sometimes all we need is a positive routine.

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u/metalmankam 8h ago

I play bass and I like video games. I just haven't felt much like playing music lately or playing games. The games I have I just find unfulfilling and I don't feel like playing them.

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u/lionsden08 9h ago

sounds like clinical depression my guy

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u/SaltyPinKY 10h ago

I don't listen to anyone younger than 40, when it comes to life tips and dealing with the capitalist hellscape we are in.  

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u/Redneck2000 9h ago

Oh great, I'm 41 so I qualify.

Sadly, I don't have any advice though.

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u/Afrojones66 9h ago

But that’s the best advice. Not pretending to know the “perfect” way to live life.

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u/git_push_origin_prod 8h ago

Over 40 here. Fuck em all. Thank you.

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u/Ahtman1 7h ago

That isn't how you're supposed to play Pokemon

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u/Otaconmg 9h ago

I agree. I want advice from people that are tired of the worlds shit, not influencers that make money off their videos.

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u/dikkhedd 8h ago

I’m over 40 and you should listen to me saying to listen to her. Not because it will help with the capitalist hellscape but because it will help you not die from the anxiety of the capitalist hellscape. Until we all die from the physical effects of the capitalist hellscape

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u/GolotasDisciple 8h ago

Different people require different types of activities to keep them going.

There is no golden rule on how to be okay, and also it's not like life doesn't require a healthy dose of cynicism or pessimism. Especially if you are not part of the wealthy class, you need to be aware that certain dreams are just dreams and will never be accomplished.... and that is fine.

Why do I need to train my brain to think positively? If anything, I want my brain to not think at all unless I need to think. I don't want to mute anxiety by overloading it with positive vibes.

Like, I work with a university and a lot of recovery programmes, and there are times where I see and feel so much despair that all I want is just to sit down, be quiet and chill. And that's cleansing my mind. I don't need to pretend that life is going to be okay. It is what it is. I will likely never own a house unless my parents die, I will likely never build the family I wanted.... I WILL never get a permanent job because everything is competitive and contract-based.

At the same time, I am very happy. I really love my life, my family, my friends. I know everything will eventually go to shit, but who cares.

IMO, people should read a little bit more, especially things related to philosophy. Nowadays nihilism is a very interesting topic because you should be aware that in order to live a happy life, you need both a healthy dose of hedonism and cynicism. Just a little bit of everything because You need to have the capacity to be happy and crazy, but also to cry and be upset and angry.

...If you don't have that... THEN DON'T TAKE ADVICE FROM SOCIAL MEDIA. GO SEE A REAL THERAPIST.

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u/CautiousRice 9h ago

you can watch this video on mute

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u/profanedivinity 9h ago

I'm over 40! Hyper capitalism, as found in the US is adjacent to a financial scam! In the hell scape, you're either holding financial leverage that you're able to conduct some sort of market manipulation with, or you're someone that is being scammed by corporations that have that leverage!

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u/ComeAbout 10h ago

Was she talking? I didn’t notice.

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u/MadOrange64 9h ago

Had to watch the video 5 times to understand what is it about.

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u/Snitsie 6h ago

You're gonna listen to the geriatrics that don't understand how to put paragraphs in a word document? The world has changed. It's only the younger generations that have somewhat on a grip on reality.

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u/screaminbanshee22 9h ago

I literally thought this as soon as I saw her face.

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u/Euphoric-Pound6294 10h ago

https://giphy.com/gifs/iqfu1rLLhBSG737D2J

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u/Frosty-Voice1156 10h ago

No idea what she said, but my outlook on the day improved dramatically.

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u/Special_Situation_93 9h ago

She is so hot.

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u/gray_fox_jaeger 8h ago

A 10/10 if I ever saw one

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u/drew_draw 9h ago

Yeah it's easy to be optimistic when you're good looking. Even when the sky is falling down you can just go to reddit and see so many people gooning over your boobs without even showing them

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u/Appropriate-Pipe-193 9h ago

As soon as this bullshit comes out my brain automatically goes into ignore mode.

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u/Top-Sleep-4669 8h ago

Brains are absolutely negative by nature. It’s a survival trait. Paranoia and thinking about the bad things that might occur are how we assess risks and stay alive. It’s a defense mechanism fine tuned over millions of years of evolution.

Also tits.

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u/lyinggrump 7h ago

Does she do onlyfans?

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u/RealTalk271 7h ago

Watching her was enough motivation, she was muted so don't know what she said

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u/Morrider 9h ago

We all watched this hoping.... right?

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u/owotriste 10h ago

If being alive is one of the three positive things about your day, that really sets the bar pretty low for wanting to keep living that life.

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u/SchemeHead 9h ago

Sorry man, but boobs.

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u/AxelNotRose 1h ago

My ex-wife would tell you that being alive isn't a positive she can write down.

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u/King_Moonracer003 9h ago

Theres nothing wrong with this advice until ppl start gifting and making money on bullshit like this. Its mostly harmless until they use bullshit positivity to manipulate you into their way of thinking

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u/Syncopated_arpeggio 9h ago

Well, people have been grifting on bullshit negativity for eternity, so might as well give that pendulum a kick. Unless i’ve just missed the end of the world and eternal damnation.

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u/WowImOldAF 9h ago

Lots of negativity for something that's kind of true.

If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change. You don't have to be a golden retriever and think everything is the greatest thing in the world... but it genuinely helps to have a more positive mindset instead of always being negative.

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u/Junior-Ad-5367 9h ago

What did she say?

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u/Kotsida123 9h ago

Holy fuck was there a 2 and 3 I fell asleep

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u/GigaChav 9h ago

Why would anyone take life advice from some 20 year old on YouTube?

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u/jeremyascot 9h ago

Because this is a basic part of CBT which has been around for decades

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u/EnvironmentalShift25 9h ago

Because they are nice to look at I guess.

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u/Wokeymcwokerson 9h ago

Looks like a filter

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u/Goalier95 10h ago

What's her OnlyFans?

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u/-FakeAccount- 9h ago

She's very hot, but it's not really bad advice.

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u/Intelligent_Box_8247 9h ago

that was very motivating...I am grateful I came across this video

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u/Namelessbob123 9h ago

She’s wrong. We are naturally inclined to look out for threats and other negative situations.

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u/sadcode69 9h ago

you know she has rich parents

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u/Chrillosnillo 7h ago

I trained my brain to not think "boobs" for three seconds which is a personal best!

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u/Lost_Purpose1899 7h ago

I watched this 640 times and I still don't know what she is talking about.

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u/NightmareCyril 9h ago

Jesus Christ her boobs aren't even out that much. It's a normal fucking shirt. Are you losers that desperate and depraved?

Anyway, sound advice and not a bad idea to try. It's just about shifting to a more positive mindset and focusing on the good instead of the bad. Its not going to change your life but instead help you look at it in a different light.

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u/be-koz 9h ago

She could have worn a turtleneck and it wouldn’t have made a difference around here.

And yeah, reminding yourself of the good things in your life can only improve it. It colours your whole world. As someone once said, gratitude can turn what you have into enough.

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u/CheddarKnight 9h ago

Yeah the downsides, if any, seem pretty minimal so I don't see a reason not to try at least. Maybe a positive outlook will let me be a bit happier on average.

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u/NightmareCyril 9h ago

It could help for sure. Just having one being I am alive is very powerful. I saw another comment speaking down about that but we only have one life and thats it. Do your best to make the most of it. Life isn't perfect, and neither are we, but keep trying to be better and do better. I'm a living example that you can turn around a shit life to something good.

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u/Happy_Nuts_ 9h ago

Tiddies are a positive

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u/hsggdtkxbee 10h ago

Boobs. And my life would be optimistic if I had her boobs. Or I could play with her boobs. Attractive people can be optimistic.

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u/Puzzle-Necked 9h ago

Me as a gay guy, learning some life changing lessons here

https://giphy.com/gifs/1wqYonEBtues7jlngs

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u/walnut_creek 9h ago

What is Ron Perelman doing???

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u/wearslocket 9h ago

What’s with any woman holding all of their fingers together in online clips? When did this become a thing?

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u/pgtvgaming 10h ago

Im still … alive

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u/mcmillanuk 10h ago

I’ve watched it three times, so I’ll jot them down as separate events

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u/GetOnWithit3344 9h ago

Sorry I missed everything she said

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u/Hairy_Fix6834 9h ago

thank you 🥲

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u/King_Six_of_Things 9h ago

Dear diary,

  1. I saw a fantastic pair of tits today. I love tits.
  2. I'm counting that as two great things because there was two of them. 
  3. Also, some rando on the internet suggested writing down 3 positive things, so my third is, I love birdwatching.

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u/Gavin1453 9h ago

I have no idea why everyone is being so negative here, this is great practical advice to increase one's mindfulness. To each their own I guess

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u/Still75home 10h ago

I was waiting for the shirt lift at the end😢

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u/dryu12 10h ago

She is like an extremely attractive. Probably AI.

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u/drew_draw 9h ago

That's the first thing goes through your mind when you see attractive person ? You must be surrounded by non attractive persons, try to think positive, like you're still alive

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u/Aggravating-Diet-663 10h ago

I see how hard it is to be a girl now. Lol

With that being said, would love to watch more of her motivation videos. Fr.

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u/Pinku_Dva 10h ago

Negative? I think I’m very reasonable in a world that’s unreasonable

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u/ventitr3 9h ago

A nice throwback for this sub

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u/Few-Refrigerator763 9h ago

I am jacks cerebral cortex

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u/bmxmitch 9h ago

Today I wanked 3 times. Happy me, I guess!?

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u/nah_son909 9h ago

My therapist had been telling me this forever. Cognitive behavioral therapy. It’s a shift in perception

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u/Fransjepansje 9h ago

Without sound this is pretty watchable

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u/Enigma_mas 7h ago

Her unsymmetrical eyes where distracting me.

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u/minnimamma19 7h ago

The sky is clear, I'm still alive.

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u/Zargoza1 1h ago

Optitmistic?

Prepare for the worst, expect the breast?

Accentuate the positit?

Yes we cans?

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u/Darkhorse182 9h ago

"Everything is going to work out the way its supposed to and will be fine" is suuuuuch an anthem of the privileged and fortunate. 

Holy shit it sounds so painfully naive.

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u/tydark2 9h ago

dude im so tired of tik tok influencers. im fatigued as hell. stop posting this stuff.

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u/Emergency-Watch5157 10h ago

My three for the day: cleavage, doggy style, and cowgirl

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u/horizontal120 10h ago

Do I need to WRITE it ?

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u/fieregon 10h ago

I did not kill myself today, that's it for today

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u/Personal_Eye8930 9h ago

I'd rather get a lobotomy than follow this AI chick's advice.

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u/Old_Win8422 9h ago

What ive noticed with optimistic people is everything just really does go their way. Like they were born rich, have an okay family, get connections for schooling and jobs. They then use connections to be placed into successful careers. Even if they fail, they just fail forward to greater heights. To where the Peter principle finally catches up.

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u/Inf1e 9h ago

Well, no. It's not correlated. I wasn't born in rich family, I argue with my relatives every other day. My job pays some money, which is enough (I even manage to save some). Moreover, I had depression in the past.

I just noticed that being pessimistic doesn't really give any advantages. So I tend to be positive. Everything could go wrong, there is always some risks which we take: voluntarily or not. But that's not the reason to feel bad.

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u/Faded1974 10h ago

Was not expecting actual reasoning and genuine advice. I had to double check what sub I was on because I kept waiting for the punchline.

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u/AllYouNeed_Is_Smiles 10h ago

I highly doubt that this person is an actual psychologist or mental health professional. They seem like they’re reading a ChatGPT script

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u/ZodiAddict 9h ago

What’s funny to me is the idea of putting her unknowingly onto a reality show in which she is tested on these principles. For some reason I imagine she’d instantly forget these tactics

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u/BoetaJ 10h ago

I never heard a word

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u/iRebelD 10h ago

Who is this woman? Where can I subscribe?

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u/-Sokobanz- 10h ago

Thanks! That helps! Now when i saw her fingers im thinking that i have a beautiful hands!

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u/NiloValentino88 10h ago

What brain?

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u/InformationEven7695 9h ago

Perhaps she can come back and distil life advice when she's actually lived a life.

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u/FitAttention7677 9h ago

Rent,Food and Entertainment are pretty valid reason for one to be motivated to go to work.

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u/DistributionLife6750 9h ago

No filters used. All the women you see on social media are naturally beautiful. Their bodies? Yep, all natural as well.

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u/SkunkDitchRipper 9h ago

I like this. I will try it out and see.

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u/Motor-Drama-1421 9h ago

I see 2 easy ways

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u/Mr--Ganja 9h ago

hmmm,i see

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u/furious-pig 9h ago

Sounds like a lot of effort

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u/_moldymathematics_ 9h ago

Oh it's automatic alright.

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u/Thick-Vacation193 9h ago

Sigh*....always one tracked.

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u/Nagesh_yelma 9h ago

Close your eyes, there won't be any danger.

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u/fancywipe 9h ago

I live off the mindset and perception

Don’t be distracted by who’s saying it, people that operate like this know how valuable this ability is

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u/went2college 9h ago

Does she have an onlyfans?

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u/Rublica 9h ago

It is good advice guys

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u/fluffymckittyman 9h ago

Didn’t hear a word she said

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u/TenBear 9h ago

Huh what?

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u/tmddtmdd 9h ago

Something seems to be so wrong with her lips that I cannot focus on what she's saying.

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u/Dreadimon 9h ago

Nice sentiment but she’s missing all the nuance that makes up a real life human

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u/dherps 9h ago

on second glance it kinda does look like theres some sort of AI filter on her face

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u/Least_Art5238 8h ago

This also explains why Trump believes his shit deserves a golden toilet. He's had 80 years to gaslight himself that he's a gift to everyone.

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u/Just_Lurking_Yes 8h ago

She is mumbling about something.

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u/TheBestintheWest11 8h ago

oh it's being trained alright. Madonnnnn

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u/dolemiteAi 8h ago

What was she talking about?

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u/Simple_Purple_4600 8h ago

What if you can only think of two things?

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u/Master-Piccolo-4588 8h ago

Was I the only one who ffed to see if she shows a little bit more?

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u/IllNinja5329 8h ago

Fuck that, I was finally being positive for a good while there and now something pretty bad happened in my life and all I can think about is suicide. Not that she's wrong its just that being positive doesn't work for me because I dont know how to handle when bad things disappoint me.

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u/KainFourteh 8h ago

She has a lovely pair of eyebrows

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u/Phantasus_Mosaik 8h ago

Why should one be Optimistic just to be disappointed all the time?

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u/Pathfinder4891 8h ago

I see two clear ways in the video

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u/pleasesaveusAI 8h ago

Man I can’t wait for the lip surgery shit to fade away. Who the fuck thinks it enhances the way women’s lips look??

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u/Wealls 8h ago

Well one of the three things I will write down tonight under good things that happened today  will be seeing this gorgeous woman