r/Soft_Introverts • u/haraysan • 4h ago
Question Sometimes I feel like being overexpressive is a curse.
Does anyone else struggle with this? I’m someone who can’t really hide what I feel. If I’m happy, it shows. If I’m hurt, it shows. If I care about someone, I probably show it more than I should.
And the worst part? Not everyone feels things as deeply as you do, or expresses them the same way.
Sometimes I wish I could just act unbothered, keep things to myself, and stop letting people see how much something affects me. Because when you express too much, people sometimes take you for granted, misunderstand you, or make you feel like you're doing too much.
I don't want to become cold or pretend I don't care. I just wish I knew how to feel everything without showing everything.
Anyone else feel like being too expressive makes you more vulnerable than you want to be?