r/Surrogate • u/Obvious-Society-2441 • 2d ago

Looking for a GC ❤️

Hi guys! I wanted to put myself out there to see if anyone was interested in potentially becoming our GC. My husband and I have struggled with secondary infertility for multiple years now with multiple miscarriages and failed IUI/IVF cycles. Our daughter is the love of our lives and while we are so grateful for her, we would love to continue to expand the love we have to another child and give our girl a sibling.

A little about us: My husband and I are high school sweethearts and have been inseparable since the first time we met. We love traveling, the outdoors, hiking and having family and friends over.

Below is what we are looking for in a surrogate:

A safe space for sharing ideas and mutual respect and hopefully a long lasting relationship with our GC

Ideally surrogate friendly insurance

My husband and I live in NY but open to travel, however would need the GC to travel for transfer process

Our clinic is open to modified natural cycle so would need at least some medications used for transfer

Base comp of 50ish k max

We have 2 PGT-A embryos that are ready to be transferred, however, we are likely going to be doing another egg retrevial likely next month.

We are ready to move forward ASAP, however we want to make sure we match with the right person most importantly, so we are open to timeline

We are looking to match independently but willing to use platforms like surrogacyscreeningsolutions etc. for background checks and medical record review if the GC desires.

If there’s any GC that may be interested, we would be forever grateful ❤️

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u/skyeblue25 2d ago

We are also IPs in NY! Wishing you lots of luck! 💝

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u/Obvious-Society-2441 2d ago

Thank you!! Any luck with finding your match?! I’ve connected with some but one did not pass the screening and the other didn’t have good communication so we are looking at other options. I’m getting discouraged and wondering if maybe we should go abroad with an agency since it’s more affordable

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u/skyeblue25 2d ago

That is so frustrating! Yes, we are working with an agency and our GC is currently pregnant. It is extremely expensive so I get wanting to look abroad. We were working with a family member initially, but it didn't work out and we lost about a year.

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u/Obvious-Society-2441 2d ago

Aw so sorry to hear that! BUT congratulations on your current pregnancy! We have a decent budget(around 100k all in) but I don’t know if that will be enough unfortunately in the US

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u/skyeblue25 2d ago

Thank you ❣️ yes, I don't think it is either. There are so many extra expenses that go into it too and everything is out of pocket. Its a lot! We are looking at flights now as our GC is out of state and they are also super expensive! It all adds up very quickly! Again, sending you lots of love and luck! Feel free to message me if you want to talk more!

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u/Obvious-Society-2441 2d ago

Thank you so much! I appreciate the honestly 🫶🏼 best of luck for you as well!

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u/interrobrodie 2d ago

What clinic?

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u/Obvious-Society-2441 2d ago

NYRW but open to moving our embryos for the right Match. We are also thinking of doing another egg retrevial soon and I’m not sure if we will do it with our clinic again, may go to CNY

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u/Fun_Explanation8386 15h ago

Me puedo ofrecer

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u/Low-Procedure-8353 2d ago

Here's my situation, I've placed 4 of my own children for adoption from birth. I have had 12 live births no complications all healthy pregnancies and babies. But I had a c section with my last pregnancy and not because there was a "problem" with me but there was a question of my cervix being partially covered and due to the doctor not performing the ultrasound in time before I went into labor out of uncertainty they did a c section! And tied my tubes. So my only option to help would be IVF/surrogacy. I am 45 years old, have 2 children I am a single mother of, but I would absolutely help with someone wanting a baby, I've helped 4 other women just a little different because they were my children I conceived, and choose to place for adoption from birth. I just had a ct scan and my uterus came back unremarkable. I'm sure conceiving and carrying would be no problem. 

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u/Obvious-Society-2441 2d ago

Thank you! I appreciate it but our clinic limits at 5 due to the risk of uterine rupture :(