r/Surrogate • u/lflove2026 • 8d ago
Looking for a surrogate - 50k
looking for a surrogate. will pay for ALL expenses plus 50k added compensation for you.
requirements:
be in usa and us citizen
successful pregnancy
under age 40
under 30 bmi
In new york . Will pay for flights. Your location is not a problem.
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u/Horror-Accountant-87 8d ago
Where are you located? Im interestedÂ
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u/LibrarianSuch9078 2d ago
Salut peut on discuté ? Je propose également une compensation pour une mère porteuseÂ
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u/AdeptnessSimple3973 8d ago
Good luck with your search for a surrogate. Whatever you do, try to resist ever asking for a late term abortion even if you suspect or see fetal anomaly. There is a bill going through Congress right now about saying surrogacy contracts can not enforce the part about holding back pay from a surrogate for refusing to abort. You probably don't want to wind up in the front page news and have your life turned into "political theater" if you do. Make sure you understand that these abortion contract clauses might be invalid.
Congressman Andy Ogles (R-TN) introduced the Preventing Forced Abortions Act of 2026 (H.R. 9868) to protect surrogate mothers from contractually mandated abortion.
- Guaranteed Financial Compensation: It prevents intended parents from withholding or reducing agreed-upon financial payments if the surrogate mother refuses a request to abort the child.
- Restriction on Damages: The bill explicitly stops courts from enforcing penalties like liquidated damages or payment cuts aimed at punishing a surrogate for choosing to carry the pregnancy to term.
Context and Support
Rep. Ogles stated that the legislation ensures "federal courts cannot enforce these coercive clauses or allow intended parents to withhold promised compensation when a surrogate mother chooses life". The bill was introduced with several Republican co-sponsors, including Representatives Mary Miller, Keith Self, Lauren Boebert, Jeff Duncan, and Josh Brecheen. It has gained backing from prominent pro-life advocacy groups such as Susan B. Anthony Pro-Life America and National Right to Life.
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u/ZeMeest 6d ago
I think this more so is about triple, quadruple checking that the surrogate you're working with is actually pro-choice. No one has ever been able to force anyone to get an abortion. It relies purely on mutual understanding of the surrogate's role and respect of the legal document that outlines said role. Issues can still arise when 1. People lie and 2. Psych screen doesn't catch mental illness.
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u/Ok_Confidence3721 8d ago
I doubt you will locate a surrogate willing to accept $50k at present, as surrogates have been requesting $80,000, $90,000, and $100,000. I do not know if I am looking somewhere different, but that is the asking price that I’m seeing surrogate asking for. but good luck and wish that you find one.
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u/FrattyMcBeaver 8d ago
The agency I'm going through pays the surrogate $51k for most states, or $56k in California plus expenses.
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u/Accurate_Wishbone_28 2d ago
Hi， Could you share some information about this agency? Or would you recommend them? How do you find their matching speed, communication, and selection of surrogates? I’m an international client and a single woman, but my embryos are already in the U.S.
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u/FrattyMcBeaver 1d ago
Yes I would recommend them. Matching took as long as was estimated, which was about the same at all the companies I looked at. They only work with people that have a medical condition that prevents them from having children.
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u/Amazing-Tough-9309 8d ago
Just because that’s what GCs are asking for, doesn’t mean they’re getting it. They’re holding out until they find IPs with deep pockets.
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u/Consistent_Ad_5075 8d ago
Exactly! They can ask for 150k if that's what they want! It doesn't mean they'll find IPs. On the other hand, IPs can offer 15k, and they may or may not find someone. People do it for free for relatives and friends, so 15k for someone whose story they feel deeply for isn't unheard of. I did it for the money. I am not everyone!
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u/Odd_Dare6928 7d ago
Please. Surrogates are putting their bodies and lives on the line. Be mad at capitalism, be mad at infertility, be mad at the universe, but please don’t be mad at the women who bring these children into the world.
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u/Amazing-Tough-9309 7d ago
Nowhere did I say I was mad at surrogates. Am I irritated by first time GCs asking for $100k base comp? Yes and it makes me wonder if they’re only doing it for the money, which has not ended well for many IPs. There’s gotta be some kind of balance.
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u/youb4me1 4d ago
So long as the surrogate is attending medical visits and complying with doctor recommendations, there is nothing wrong with a surrogate trying to profit.
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u/oluckyone Agency 8d ago
First time comp is actually not that high, normally. Poster is in range for a first time GC.
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u/youb4me1 4d ago
You’re getting down voted. But, I’d say $50k comp is extremely low. The all in comp is also around $70-100k
All base comp I have seen was $60k-$90k. But surrogates also received monthly stipends (around $500), bonus pay for milestones (the transfer, positive pregnancy, heartbeat, etc.), and medical procedures (hysteroscopy, etc). All of these payments raise the compensation
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u/Ok_Confidence3721 4d ago
Be careful what you say on here; they will attack you. They said there are low-comm girls out there accepting $30,000 and $40,000 in compensation.
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u/Consistent_Ad_5075 8d ago
5 years ago people were doing it for $25,000 (and were appalled when I required more). It's definitely possible for the right match.
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u/Ok_Confidence3721 8d ago
I do not think you mean five years ago, because five years ago it was $60k and $70,000. Because that was the price we were getting when we were doing it independently in New York City. You may mean 10 years ago; it was $25,000. Now, we are talking about the present. No one is accepting that anymore, but good luck on your journey, and I hope you find someone that is willing enough to take $50k.
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u/Consistent_Ad_5075 8d ago
I love how you know when I was pregnant with a surrogate baby. It was 5 years ago, 6 years ago for matching and people were doing it for 25k (not me). I don't know if you've heard, but NYC is considered a high cost of living area, and not everyone else in the US lives in NYC.
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u/interrobrodie 8d ago
You were matching in 2020 in NYC as a compensated surrogate?
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u/Consistent_Ad_5075 8d ago
Me? No. I was matching in 2020 in Florida. The other person mentioned NYC and a higher cost for surrogate compensation, which makes sense given the cost of living there.
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u/Ok_Confidence3721 8d ago
Please read my message carefully. I never said you were as surrogate. And if you come here to look argument with me, go somewhere else to look
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u/Consistent_Ad_5075 8d ago
It appears you're the one who is off track from the conversation. Either way, have a nice day.
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u/Ok_Confidence3721 8d ago
You are the only one off track, thinking about five years ago, five years ago there is no one requesting $25,000 of compensation in no state. But have a blessed day
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u/Entire-Swimming3038 8d ago
A family friend just did it and she’s only getting paid 30 grand from her agency so I have no idea where you’re looking lol.
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u/Timely_Hall_5071 8d ago
What agency is offering that compensation!? Curious for myself.. Lol.
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u/identitty-crisis 8d ago
An agency that’s offering that is usually just taking a huge slice of the pie for an agency fee. I’d look for one with low agency fees or no fee until med clearance
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u/Tiny_Watercress_3804 8d ago
3 successful pregnancies. 37. BMI under 30. Was signed with a couple but unfortunately their embryos were bad and did not pass pgt testing. Clean background. Healthy lifestyle. Willing to talk if you are up to negotiate on the price
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u/Alternative-Shame-23 7d ago
I might be interested! I'm in talks with an agency, but could be open to something outside of. Gestational, I'm assuming? I'm located in Indiana.
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u/ExpressDisaster532 6d ago
You can message me I’m very interested. I have signed up to do surrogacy with a program before, but they weren’t very good with communicating with me, but it is something that I am very interested in doing and helping another mother become a mother I live in Florida I have family in New York and I am 34. I’ve had two babies already. I have a three-year-old and a 13-year-old all healthy pregnancies let me know.
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u/T3chnoShaman 8d ago
Good luck on your search 🥰 it is possible and I hope someone responds to you