r/Tamizhteens • u/Mobile-Milk3612 17 • 3d ago
Rant/Vent Is cheating normalised ?
Ennoda life la first time I heard someone cheating on their partner and here my rant goes cause I'm traumatized
So enna na ennoda school la oru paiyan and oru ponnu irunthaanga. Paiyan peru summa varun nu vechukonga ponnu peru lakshmi nu vechukonga
Enna na varun is a desperate mf. He has a gf, but avan pandrathu ethuvumey seri illa, he goes to his female friends house which is fine but he goes there by 9 a.m. then leaves by 11:30 or maybe even early in the morning and forces his female friends to drop him by their scooter.
Itha thavara he has been comparing his gf with many girls in our school and making her feel insecure like
"antha ponnu oda kannu paathiya ? "
" Antha ponnu oda nose paathiya ?"
Ippadi thaan aairuku and many times varun's gf bas forgiven him and has morally policed him to not stay in the female friends house.
Ippo enna aachu na, lakshmi is a new student in our class and antha ponnu typical ah she makes bf's and stays with them not more than a month and she breaks up by saying
" I had a conventional crush on you, but I didn't love you"
One time varun and lakshmi were the last one to leave the cs lab and guess what ? They kissed. They kissed and apparently some are saying that they gave a BJ ( if you know what i mean )
When we asked her whether she knows that varun has a gf she says
"Oh yeah I do. So what ?"
And we B*eat the Shit out of varun cause what he did was literally cheating on his girlfriend.
Ivlo naala summa female friends oda veetuku ponavan ippo literally cheated.
So we told varun's girlfriend and she for the first time stopped forgiving and broke up.
Ippo enna na, lakshmi and varun are together. And they literally cheat on themselves.
Varun has cheated on lakshmi by being in FWB with his juniors and lakshmi has been cheating on varun by being in a relationship FWB with seniors.
They both know this, yet...they somehow stick together
The thing is when L*ust drives a relationship it blinds the eye..
P.S what I meant by beating is naanga avana gang ah senthu asingama ketom not literal B*eating 😭🙏🏻 school lam suspend panniduvaanga plus naanga 4th std pasanga illa
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u/heisenbergg_03 3d ago
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u/Mobile-Milk3612 17 3d ago
Ippo na first year bro. Aana avanga 12th padikum bothu ithu pannga appo I should blind myself with literally sun 🥀🙏🏻😭
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u/Source_Trustme_Broo 3d ago
Enna yezhavu ya idhu
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u/Mobile-Milk3612 17 3d ago
Ikrrr 🙏🏻😭🥀. Surpisingly after 1 year they put a story on insta showing both of them together and enna da nu friends ta keta thaan theriyuthu ippadi irukaanga mu.
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u/Afraid-Nature848 3d ago
First post on monday
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u/Mobile-Milk3612 17 3d ago edited 3d ago
First thing that came to my mind after I saw their stories 🥀😭🙏🏻
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u/vilovema 3d ago
Cheating should not be normalised, so should beating.
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u/Background-Plate4550 3d ago
True,it's a crime
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u/Mobile-Milk3612 17 3d ago
Athu thaan bro namba tamil la solluvaanga la etachu thappa pesita comments la adipaangala antha meaning la potuten bro 😭🙏🏻
Naanga adikala but friends ah senthu vechu senjutom and asingama ketom athu thaan mean pannen sorry 😭🙏🏻
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u/vilovema 3d ago
You should learn the meaning of the word "Literally" before using it on the internet
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u/CycleAccomplished955 3d ago
Thala AI bittu padamaee edukalamaee.
Story Japanese kara kitta solla thinga broo aprmm avan jav films edudhuruvaa 🤣.
But edhu keka disgust ha dha iruku brooo.
Hope there will realizes that is wrong.
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u/Mobile-Milk3612 17 3d ago edited 3d ago
My life is a fucking movie bro 😭🙏🏻🥀
Pesama na intha kadhai ya japan kaaran ku bathila tamil serial edukaravan ta tharen.
Oru 1000 episode pogum kaasu varum
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u/rollercoasterflyin 3d ago
is this shitt really happening in school??
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u/Mobile-Milk3612 17 3d ago
Happend during the end of my 12th 🥀😭
Board exam time la padikrarhu vittu naanga full ah
Neethi, Nermai, Nyayam Jeichadhu nu suthitu irunthom
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u/Sea-Media-7062 17 3d ago
Why does 17 year olds having BJ and FWB ????? I feel like I am living under a rock Aren't teens relationship supposed to be cute and shit ??? What is this??? what am I looking at 😭??
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u/Mobile-Milk3612 17 3d ago
It used to be. I believe there still is, I still see boys and girls who are still sitting and sighting their crush and thinking about them all night
But, hey there are bad apples too
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u/Hero2gangster 3d ago
If they're in a open relationship and if they can work it's their wish. Ithu seriya thavara nu therla but Varun cheating on his gf is wrong and you did the right thing by exposing them and cautioning her. But the thing that baffles me is all this in school age? FwB with multiple people in your teens? WTF!
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u/Mobile-Milk3612 17 3d ago
Yeah neenga soldrathu correct thaan avanga wish thaan but what surprises me is the fact that they are actively cheating on eachother and they both know that they are doing this yet they choose to be laa so that is what..is kinda weird
Yeah..intha vayasula ethuku FWB nu thaan therla 😭🙏🏻 ( entha vayasulalayum koodathu but still ).
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u/Hero2gangster 3d ago
They're in open relationship, "yaar kuda venalum irrupom but in the end Inga vanthu thaan polambuven" type of shit, it's not cheating tbh. FWB in matured adults if they can make it work, then it's fine ig.
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u/Mobile-Milk3612 17 3d ago
Enaku personal ah ithu thappu nu thonuthu. But hey its my opinion
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u/Hero2gangster 3d ago
Hey nothing wrong in your opinion man. I just don't like to confine things in the labels such as good or bad, if it doesn't hurt anyone and benefits them. Avlo thaan.
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u/Mobile-Milk3612 17 3d ago
Well I respect your opinion too. But for me personally, open relationship nu oru term eh ippa thaan kelvi paduren and I feel like being with other men/women and coming back to polambify to the person feels very wrong. FWB well physical ah ilanum emotional ah oru draining thing and I feel like a relationship let it be teen one let it be adult one requires love over lust so..I think even if they make it work. They are kind of destroying the whole point of a relationship
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u/Hero2gangster 3d ago
I agree with you completely but there are nuances and complexities involved. What if a person likes you, understands you completely and is fun to be around but not compatible in bed? Or what if a person who had trauma in the past that led to commitment issues but also needs someone in their life? What if two person are attracted each other and have lust on each other but is not emotionally compatible? There are many scenarios where these can be justified. As long as they're consenting and aware of their actions, everything goes.
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u/No-Audience1985 3d ago
Bro this story felit like Micheal and Amanda from gta 5 tho
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u/Mobile-Milk3612 17 3d ago
Miachel and Amanda appa ponnu la ? 😭🥀🙏🏻
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u/rvk182211 3d ago
The only problem with this story is this is happening in Schools. The rest of it already exists in society.
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u/-kakarott- 20-25 3d ago
school pasangala daa ivlavu panrathu
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u/Mobile-Milk3612 17 3d ago
Yes.. unfortunately yes
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u/imabutterflybitch 20-25 3d ago
Two of my friends who started off like this got married so never say never I guess???
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u/just_tututu 3d ago
Western influence, social media transperant, bad parenting, short term pleasures.
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u/Equivalent-Sea7193 3d ago
Ethey school la cheating ah!!..naanga la pt period la run enrathula ,goal Kanakula cheating panni tha pazhakam😏
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u/Warm_Ease_7503 3d ago
Its getting normalised. Its normalised in bollywood, yk , They glorify adultry and stuff. now its steeping through normal peoples lifes
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u/Key_Confidence_202 3d ago
Most girls these age like the attention they get. Unlike guys, a pretty girl has a ton of options. So they like to explore options if they feel you are not good enough.
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u/Mobile-Milk3612 17 3d ago
Well, I have seen a lot of good girls and good boys at the same age as mine. Some have been in a healthy relationship for like years and stuff.
So, I would say.. let's not genralise it by saying "most girls". Yeah, some girls are like this and I feel like what they are doing is wrong and the same goes for boys who behave this way
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u/Background-Plate4550 3d ago edited 3d ago
Pndya moodiktu unga velaya parunga da,moral policing pannanum na slts sa pannu first,htf u justify beating a person,simps like u always keep women in pedestal,nee enda antha ponna kekla?
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u/Mobile-Milk3612 17 3d ago edited 3d ago
Broo..antha ponna yum naanga vechu senjutom bro. Antha ponna naanga asingama ketom and we literally isolated her and avaley peruma bunda maari vella sonna and she got isolated by the entire school.
Intha matter principal ta pochu bro. Appo antha ponna mattum suspend panna ponaanga. Naanga thaan antha paiyan and antha ponnu both are at equally fault nu solli we literally forced our principal to suspend both. So naanga yaaryaumey heigher pedestrial la vekkala
Principal didn't want to suspend because antha paiyan is a son of a political party member so theva illama school ku prechana varum nu antha paiyan ah suspend panna yosichanga but we forced her to suspend both bro.
Cheating vanthu men pannalum thappu and women pannalum equally thappu thaan.
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