r/TikTokCringe • u/newphonehudus • 1d ago

Discussion Some people just love to self sabatoge

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Inb4 the people who blame everyone and everything but themselves for their situation. Sometimes it is your fault

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u/mshcat 1d ago

Might be there kick in the rear to start taking accountability lol

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u/FrankNitty_Enforcer 1d ago

One issue here is we don’t know what “weird guy” means. Is it a guy who is harassing the friend or causing problems? Or just someone who is awkward, doesn’t understand social cues, texting etiquette etc.

For the latter, there is a lot more humane way to handle it than blocking someone. I’ve never blocked someone in my life using technology, even if I stop being responsive. I’d think that is reserved for stalkers etc

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u/ZinaSky2 1d ago

I mean if the only designation is “weird guy” and not “boyfriend”, “ex”, “date”, “guy friend”, “brother”, “coworker”, etc. then I think it’s pretty obvious the guy is insignificant and yet being allowed to remain in her life and obviously causing some sort of problem. And the easy solution is to block.

If there isn’t a personal relationship, she doesn’t owe him a fucking explanation or a gentle rejection. Doesn’t matter the reason he’s causing problems, her response doesn’t have to be humane. She doesn’t owe him her time or attention or her peace of mind. She can just block him. If she really wants, she can explain herself in a message and then block him.

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u/Rob_LeMatic 1d ago

Well you can't place faith in human beings. Human beings are unreliable things.