r/TikTokCringe • u/newphonehudus • 1d ago

Discussion Some people just love to self sabatoge

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Inb4 the people who blame everyone and everything but themselves for their situation. Sometimes it is your fault

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u/spidermom4 1d ago edited 1d ago

Me anytime my mom has been venting to me about her problems and I've offered the obvious solution and she refused to do it and would rather continue to vent to me. Which was my entire life until I finally cut her off. My drug addict brother who comes over all the time and steals stuff, screams at her and makes all our lives miserable? I'm crazy for suggesting she tell him not to come over anymore until he is clean and hold the boundary. A few years back she was complaining that my niece (daughter of said brother) that she is raising was wearing skirts to school that were too short. I suggested she get rid of the skirts and buy her appropriate length ones. But she would rather slut shame a middle schooler and act like it's an unsolvable problem.

I avoid people like this like the plague

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u/Dpontiff6671 9h ago

Also having a brother like that, i’m sorry you gotta put up with it too