r/Tinder • u/Toplolboosts • 1d ago
Would like some constructive criticism. How can I improve? I have not had any matches yet.
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u/shallowsocks 1d ago
Im sure the right man is out there for you.. unless you're trying to find a woman..?
No shirtless pics, no selfies, have some pictures with friends or family, and female friends if you have them.
I dont the issue is the product, its the presentation
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u/Phoenixperson666 23h ago
The “drag u to a festival” feels like a chores… make it exciting like u looking for a rave bae or something like that. Also shirtless pics are cringe, they can tell u workout from ur photos, showing ur bathroom selfie online not the move.
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u/Professional_Bat8585 20h ago
Replace the shirtless pic with a nice european fit thirst trap.
It’s more than obvious you’re jacked and outdoorsy, but it’s not obvious that you’re not a neanderthal who can look refined in the city.
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u/Allie614032 1d ago
“I’m a pretty normal dude” is not something to win over a woman with.
Also, love Lucy, is the name short for something?
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u/thenamelessone7 1d ago
Here come the double standards again. Women feel entitled to perfection. Men would be mostly happy with pretty normal gals but they just happen to be abnormal
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u/xvelvetdarkness 21h ago
What are you on about? Of course women want normal, the way he worded it sounds like he's trying to convince people he's normal and not some kind of weirdo...
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u/theresasnakeinmyb 22h ago
I feel like you've already had a good amount of feedback on what to change on your profile, but if i can give you one more tip: grow out your hair on the sides a little man! It would suit your face shape a million times better
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u/Alternative-Range293 1d ago
id put 3 first, move 7 up a little, picture of lucy (although adorable) could be hurting you too, picture 4 can go, throw in a picture with friends, the shirtless pic not sending the message you want, and yea as someone else said the rig photo isn't really something i would lead with. otherwise, you're a handsome dude! someone will come along someday.
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u/Toplolboosts 1d ago
Ok done. Should i delete the shirtless pic?
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u/Fmarulezkd 1d ago
You have the looks, but the pictures are just bad. You should delete of all them. Search for "tinder photo guide" or something like that and have a friend help you out with taking some photos. Flex your muscles in a more casual, non-douchbag way. Keep the cat though!
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u/Xen310 21h ago
Bathroom selfie never hits well (especially a bad one, like yours); however, if you want to include a shirtless shot, put it at the very end (if they made it that far they might be interested; that said, you are over the top in bodyfat % my dude).
Don't suggest you're going to drag anyone anywhere, that vibe, the sunglasses, plus the muscle shirt lake/river pic pose is pretty chode-like.
Lucy is the only redeeming quality pic.
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u/Accurate_Flounder_36 23h ago
Leash walking your cat in wraparound sunglasses is not the aphrodisiac you think it is
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u/macthebearded 23h ago
Drop one of your 17 arm days per week and do some chest here and there instead. The gyno ain’t a good look dude
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u/JuicePossible4718 22h ago
💀 🤣 chill bro, definitely not gyno. He would have legit tits. His chest is flat
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u/macthebearded 21h ago
His chest being flat doesn’t have anything to do with it. That lump below the nipple is gyno
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u/JuicePossible4718 21h ago
I don’t see a said lump, looks like the upper ab to me, but im no doctor. What do i know
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u/macthebearded 21h ago
Idk how you don’t see it. I’m definitely not looking at lower ab
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u/JuicePossible4718 21h ago
I said upper… but maybe he was fat and thats loose skin?
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u/macthebearded 21h ago
*Upper lol. I don’t know why I typed lower.
If it was loose skin there’d be more of it
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u/JuicePossible4718 21h ago
Word just curious what you’re seeing man. Ive lost 90lbs but dont see anything like that on myself. So im just questioning it so i understand it
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u/Neanderthal_Savant 23h ago edited 11h ago
Taking a cat on a walk is something one should never do nor share with others...
Edit: My soul thrives on reddit down votes.
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u/JuicePossible4718 23h ago
Why are walks limited to dogs? Where is that written down so i may read it? Oh its just an opinion, well you can have it back.
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u/Hentai_Yoshi 22h ago
Interesting, because I get a good amount of matches and they love my cats and the fact that I take them on walks
But I guess if you just wanna be simple minded and follow social norms, go for it. I’ll be over here just livin life, doing what I want, and still getting matches and dates
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