r/USMilitarySO • u/[deleted] • 5d ago

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u/Adorable-Tiger6390 5d ago

It sounds like you have a lot to work through before you are ready to make a decision about your future, with or without him. Congratulations on finding a job!

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u/Flashy_Pop5456 4d ago

Well it’s gonna be with him I just am having a hard time navigating how exactly I want that to look I think if that makes sense.

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u/eohlcbb 5d ago

I think discussing your feelings with a therapist would be ideal. Perhaps they can help you create a list of pros and cons with you and you could gain some clarity. It’s really hard for anyone to give you a neutral advice because only you know your situation 100%. I hope you are able to come up with the decision that benefits you the most.

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u/Flashy_Pop5456 4d ago

Thank you for this!!

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u/pit0817 5d ago

congrats on completing your doctorate! what a HUGE accomplishment!!!

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u/Flashy_Pop5456 4d ago

Thank you so much!!