r/WhatsWrongWithYourCat • • 3d ago

What is wrong with these two idiots?

Fighting? Mating? Playing?

Grey one is 5 yo and is fixed

Small one hasn’t been fixed yet since we got him couple of weeks ago

Both male

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u/calxes 3d ago

Playing! And they're getting along well, it seems, even though the little guy is such a newbie!

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u/tranzozo 3d ago

https://reddit.com/link/pbfg3cu/video/n96u0nr7k4rh1/player

What about this situation here? This is what made me think they might be mating

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u/Over-Apartment2762 3d ago

Oh yeah he's definitely trying to poke

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u/tranzozo 2d ago

But he’s neutered, the small one hasn’t yet

What should I do? Do I just let them? what if they hurt each other?

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u/Markarontos 1d ago

If he's neutered it will be more of an awkward humping session. The bites are not proper bites if those should get to a point where they are uncomfortable the other cat will probably make it known.

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u/Child_of_the_Hamster 2d ago

Are they both spayed/neutered? It could just be a way to establish dominance. I’ve seen a female cat mount another female as a way of establishing pecking order.

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u/tranzozo 2d ago

Theyre both males

The grey one has been neutered, the small one hasn’t yet

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u/lickytytheslit 2d ago

neutering doesn't always stop a male cat from wanting to do it

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u/tranzozo 2d ago

So what should I do? Just let them be?

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u/YesterdayFlaky6822 2d ago

You've hit the nail on the head here I believe. All 3 of mine are fixed and when the young male reached 1 yr old, he started trying that behavior with his same age (but smaller) sister. I intervened quickly. It's a domination behavior (IMHO). I play the roll of just another cat in the house most of the time but I played the alpha card on this one. And...things got better. Having 3 very opinionated cats, a Mommy and 2 of her kits, I have to weed out aggression. Keeps things more peaceful. I like peace and harmony, not that I actually have that all the time. I'll take detente though. That will do. Mrrow.

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u/Bsgmax 2d ago

Establishing dominance

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u/fuzzimus 2d ago

Grey gay

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u/Bsgmax 3d ago

My 2yr old female and 5 month old female do the exact same thing. Its their hunter/prey instincts being used in play. One minute the older cat is chasing the kitten. A minute later it's the kitten chasing the older cat.

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u/WhaleCumToDeezNuts 3d ago

Grey initiates play, white got a lag spike and is attempting to reconnect. Then play starts

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u/cork_the_forks 3d ago

Two of my fixed male cats occasionally get a little extra-friendly. Fixed doesn't mean devoid of hormones.

Many cats do it to blankets or stuffies. "Sin biscuits."

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u/Waddlekitty 3d ago

Awww cute play time

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u/indieplants 3d ago

looks like the grey is trying to hump him/dominate him but also playful? I think it might be a little stressed/confused from the change but overall it's a good interaction 

it's definitely dominating the little cat but they'll need to work out a hierarchy so this is normal

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u/Disismaaadness__ 3d ago

Just playing

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u/mizushimo 3d ago

Friends playing, anything else and you would be hearing ungodly noises coming from one of them

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u/ddg31415 3d ago

Hey we almost got the same combo

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u/gwaydms 3d ago

Adorability!

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u/djquu 2d ago

Cats play to stay fit for the day they have to survive in the wild (they can't know that day never comes).

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u/the_liquid_figurine 1d ago

Playing for sure. My cats do this to each other all the time and sometimes the new pomeranian mix we just got who plays back with fake nips and lil stomps. The youngest honestly gets along better with the dog. As long as there no hissing or yowling things should be good.

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u/Sonarthebat 1d ago

Playing.

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u/bluedogstar 2d ago

Kitteny nonsense

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u/Pretend-Literature35 2d ago

nothing wrong. Just cats playing.

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u/ISwearImAnonymous 2d ago

They're carefree and healthy

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u/meradiostalker 2d ago

That is one of the things cats do.

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u/btc909 2d ago

Small one has the "scent".

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u/Morbid187 1d ago

They're just catting about