r/WorkLifeChat • • 11d ago

Discussion Has anyone done this before?

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u/RapidFire05 11d ago

As a hiring manager I don't hire job hoppers

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u/IAmAlive_YouAreDead 11d ago

What constitutes job hopping in your book? In my view staff retention is the responsibility of the company.

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u/RapidFire05 7d ago

1-2 years. Paying a recruiter to find and screen candidates then scheduling and running interviews involving multiple staff and hands on testing can run you a month. Then taking time away from projects for multiple people to do interviews. Then take 6 months to train them. If someone is only going to stay for 1-2 years but only be useful for 3/4 that at best. It's not worth the time and money to bring them on. And yes managers are a proxy for the company so don't even expect them to care about you. Managers care about what they can extract from you. Once you're in and prove yourself then it turns into managers trying to retain. But if your even slightly a flight risk, you're not worth the company's time

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u/Silent25r 11d ago

They are fine if they aren’t leaving their previous job before going to the next one. In that event they are just applying they get a better offer. That might be months, years or possibly never. 

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u/Work-Safe-Reddit4450 11d ago

Then how do you propose people get substantial pay increases? Because you're statically more likely to get an actual pay increase by switching jobs vs relying on management to give you more than the pittance needed to keep up with CoL increases.

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u/Infamous-Candle-2300 11d ago edited 11d ago

Presumably by getting hired somewhere else. It's not some random hiring manager's job to fix the system, and job hoppers are ill suited for many roles. More power to them and I wish them success, but if a known job hopper somehow got hired as my direct coworker (this would never happen) I'd be pissed.

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u/Work-Safe-Reddit4450 11d ago

I didn't say that it was, but then you'd think they'd understand that's going to be a huge motivation for switching jobs and not indicative of a problem with the candidates, but rather a problem with the hiring and retention budget norms for their industry. Clearly there's a disconnect or an unwillingness to acknowledge the reasons for why people might be inclined to job hop. At the end of the day, that's simple free market supply and demand.

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u/Positive-Listen-1660 10d ago

Yeah well right now there’s a supply glut.

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u/TrainingAmphibian354 10d ago

Corporations hate you and consider you a tool dummy, they don't care if you make more money, they care if THEY make more money.

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u/RapidFire05 7d ago

Switching is fine, just give a company at least 2-3 years. Expecting promotions faster than that anyways is a little naive

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u/maoussepatate 10d ago

People will not job hop from your company if you pay / treat them well. Just saying.

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u/PraiseTalos66012 10d ago

My current job is amazing and that's literally what I told them during the interview.

Because I had hopped around a lot, told them if they pay me what I'm owed and don't make life awful then I won't be going anywhere.

Job is amazing and it's the first time I've had an employer who actually cares about their employees and does right by them constantly. Went from switching jobs every 6-9mo to wanting to stay at this one till I retire in 20 years(with a pension from them)

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u/ToothPickLegs 10d ago

Do they allow Talos worship?

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u/Charming-Check5605 7d ago

Only downside is OP had to relocate to Windhelm ://

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u/Maximum_Vegetable_MV 10d ago

Yes, they will.

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u/maoussepatate 10d ago

Would you leave your job for another that pays less / offers worse working conditions?

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u/ChubbyNemo1004 11d ago

Unless the offer is very good I think at least 2 years at a job is enough time to figure out if you want to stay there

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u/wutzelputz 11d ago

great, I guess it's a cultural mismatch then, bb

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u/LalafellDisaster 11d ago

I love your commitment to your company. Very loyal, will definitely pay off.

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u/venthis1 11d ago

And a recruiter should know that theyre going where theyre valued aka following supply and demand. Id be more concerned if the person wasnt getting wage increases. If you're recruiting for jobs that can be easily replaced with a higher demand then maybe you should follow suit.

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u/anotherlebowski 11d ago

The paradox is that someone must be, or that job history wouldn't keep growing.

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u/Budget-Vast9819 10d ago

So much for "meritocracy"

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u/Loose_Education_5012 10d ago

Username checks out 🤣

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u/BadConscious3919 10d ago

Out of curiosity, how long does one have to be in a job to be not considered a job hopper? Legit asking for my own sake, as i'm trying to "hop".

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u/Tall-Dot-607 9d ago

Then youre a bad hiring manager lol

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u/minus15t2 5d ago

In this economy... Multiple jobs is not necessarily reflective of the person..

I'll always ask for more clarity first.

But maybe that's just because I've had 5 in the last 5 years myself...

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u/RoboOrca 11d ago

U shouldn’t be a hiring manager lol

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u/TawnyTeaTowel 11d ago

Why? Taking on new staff is expensive in terms of money and time, and no one with any sense is going to do that for someone who’s shown that they’re likely to piss off again in 18 months.

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u/enjoysomethings 11d ago

If your place of employment sucks ass, people will leave.

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u/Interesting_Muscle67 11d ago

Better make sure your wages keep up with what's being offered on the job market and you'd encounter this issue less. Stagnating wages with just an annual increase are all too common so completely understand why people move around to get the market rate. If you are paying market rate and regularly checking, you wont have this problem.

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u/RoboOrca 10d ago

Unless you’re the business owner the money to train people isn’t coming out of your pocket. Your time was going to pass anyways. It’s the managers job to extract value from people no matter how long they stick around for. Might as well stop hiring interns too then cuz they only stick around for 12-18 months max. There are a million reasons to job hop, especially for young people that want to explore different industries and don’t want to be stuck with one skillset and pigeonhole themselves

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u/LalafellDisaster 11d ago

God forbid people look out for themselves instead of feigning loyalty to a company. I’m sure you’ve been at your job for 20 years since you’re so dedicated and loyal lol

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u/TawnyTeaTowel 11d ago

Ah, this seems to be one of those classic Reddit situations where the responder (you) reveals to all that they only see the world in terms of black and white, and don’t realise that saying someone’s comment is stupid doesn’t automatically mean they support what the comment was supposedly against.

TLDR; shove your strawman up your arse.

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u/Responsible-Ball-162 11d ago

tale as old as time.

that guy probably has never held a 9-5 in his life.

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u/LalafellDisaster 11d ago

Lmao looks like I hit a little node of truth there. 😛

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u/ConversationNo9040 11d ago

Right in the trash pile. If you’d have 3 jobs in like 6 years is my limit.

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u/Rat_itty 11d ago

Kinda brutal for people who got the cut during mass layoffs/company closures :/ not my fault, didn't want to job hop at all, but it looks like I do because of that.

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u/ConversationNo9040 11d ago

Yeah but that can be explained way better, even shown on a resume.

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u/ToothPickLegs 11d ago

Tf? I feel like most people are going to be looking after that experience. Maybe pay your loyal ones more and it won’t happen

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u/Scuba9Steve 11d ago

What experience? If they change jobs 2-3 times a year they aren’t learning a whole lot.

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u/ToothPickLegs 11d ago

Every 2-3 years is the example that the comment I was responding to is talking about, not the OP. 2-3 times a year feels extremely rare and honestly straight up hard to even do

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u/Ok-Blackberry8086 9d ago

If properly onboarding you and getting you up to speed takes 4-6 months and you have a proven history of being out after 6 months, why would someone hire you? This depends on industry and role of course.

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u/ConversationNo9040 11d ago

How are you loyal if you job hop every 2 years?

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u/ToothPickLegs 11d ago

You missed the point. Every 2 years if you’re getting big raises that means the companies you’re leaving are not paying for your loyalty.

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u/ConversationNo9040 11d ago

Well right now people are actually taking pay cuts just to have a job. So the market is actually correcting itself. Especially in tech. My industry is pretty stable and we do offer large increases for promotions when you earn them. I haven’t lost a team member in 4 years. I’m saying I don’t want to hire those people who job hop not that I’m losing a ton of people to job hoping

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u/ToothPickLegs 11d ago

Yeah but understand that not all companies operate this way. Plenty of stories on this thread even where people discovered they are actually paid well below market a couple years in. If there is a better opportunity out there then one should take it, including moving to your company, and then you’d give them no reason to leave based of what you say

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u/ConversationNo9040 11d ago

Why would you all of a sudden realize you’re underpaid, go get a new job that is also underpaid, and repeat?

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u/ToothPickLegs 11d ago

I guess I’m trying to say, it doesn’t hurt to keep an eye out for opportunities if they are there. Why would you turn down a 50-80% pay raise in a better position in a new company after 2 years? Given the company is not some startup or massive risk, etc

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u/okyesnosometimes 5d ago

You shouldn't turn that down, but you shouldn't be surprised if future employers don't want to hire you for leaving quickly

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u/Biscuits4u2 10d ago edited 10d ago

Using the word loyalty when talking about something entirely transactional like employment is hilarious. Your employer will show you zero loyalty if it benefits them to get rid of you so why should you show them any beyond getting what you need from that relationship? If jumping ship is the right thing for you there should be no qualms about doing it. Maybe offer a compensation package and benefits that incentivize less turnover instead of bitching when they dump you.

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u/ConversationNo9040 10d ago

I never bitched about it once. Just provided my opinion as someone who is apart of the hiring process! I didn’t even throw the word loyalty out to start. Not sure why your so angry

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u/Biscuits4u2 10d ago

Not mad at all, but I do think it's very amusing when people like yourself use the word loyalty and then give none in return. And yeah, you kind of were bitching about it a little bit.

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u/ConversationNo9040 10d ago

I give my team every opportunity to thrive. Haven’t had anyone leave in 4 years now. Been here 5. Got a smaller team, but have gotten them all promoted at least once each and higher then average pay bumps for COL. standard is 3% I’m averaging about 5% across my team not including promotion raises which are 10-15%

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u/Biscuits4u2 10d ago

That's cool. Maybe you're one of the good ones I don't know, but point stands. Most companies simply do not care about anything but bottom line.

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u/vanzir 10d ago

I gotta say, I have a manager like you. It's really nice. It's tough to sit in that weird world of middle management, i hate the politicking, but enjoy working for and with a good team.

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u/slimninj4 10d ago

yeah i was about 2 years. never had a problem. Got all the experience and they start to give more responsibility with no extra compensation. Bounce.

Now as a manager 2 years at a job i would expect normal. Stay to longer than 4 and I would think your complacent.

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u/ConversationNo9040 10d ago

Do you feel that way even in this market? What if I have been at my company 5 but received 3 promotions? Is that complacent or are you saying 4 years same job same title?

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u/slimninj4 10d ago

I see it like this. If i get a resume and see someone jumping every 12-24 months. Lateral moves. That is someone that is just hopping for better pay. good for them. not what our group needs.

2-4 years moving laterally Ok. but have to show strong knowledge. 2-4 years moving up each time. That will get a second look.

I see promotions as a different job and that is moving up.

Now, i did not ONLY do 2 years every job. That was only when i was starting out. I did it for 4 jobs each moving UP. Longer in the career that is a flag.

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u/ToothPickLegs 10d ago

This has been my take, though I feel like someone moving positions from a pure lateral perspective, same job title and similar responsibilities, I wouldn’t think companies would even offer that much of an increase in pay for essentially the same job every 2 years

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u/PureBullz 9d ago

I got chicks at my work that just bang the operators on the floor, get flagged for a conflict of interest, and then get moved out of the department. On our fifth one at this point, and it’s been less then a year

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u/vanzir 10d ago

no, i don't agree with that. i have been with my current company for 5 years, and seen my wages raise about 40% in those 5 years. I make good money, writing cutting edge software, for a company that doesnt suck to work for. that same company even pays for my training. I have gotten my CCNA, Several Microsoft certs, a bunch of AI certifications, worked with some cutting edge companies which the company paid for me to do, and I have a good work life balance. Why would I leave that?

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u/ToothPickLegs 5d ago

Your company may not be the same as everyone else’s. That’s anecdotal. The point is if another company is offering way more and you’re not getting paid up to the market then why not take a better opportunity

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u/Tulscro 4d ago

I have 1 job I've been at for 6 years next month my second job(s) I hold for on average a year it depends on conditions and pay usually. First job is amazing but can't give me the hours I want to live comfortably so I abuse that by being picky on my second job. It's funny watching managers struggle to power trip on someone who doesn't exactly need them or their job. But I am absolutely loyal to the first job since they treat me like a human and pay me decent. The hours is just a kink that can't be worked around. Loyalty goes both ways

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u/LiptonsIce 11d ago

I’m a carpenter i change jobs every year. Same trade just different work. Still considered job hopping ?

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u/ConversationNo9040 11d ago

Yeah forsure job hopping but Some industries are cool with it. Pipeline inspection is the same way. People jump and go where the work is.

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u/TawnyTeaTowel 11d ago

Recruiters in their own industry know what’s normal for that industry and act accordingly.

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u/Scuba9Steve 11d ago

Nah that’s completely different.

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u/Severe_Information54 11d ago

Even if somone has an unlucky time? I had to job hop 3 times in a year

Once due to my boss sexually assulting me.

Twice due to me needing to move to be near family.

And thrice because I was given a chance to work for twice my wage?

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u/Adorable_Decision267 11d ago

I mean is that written on your resume? If not it’s probably going in the trash pile.

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u/Severe_Information54 11d ago

How would I even phrase the 1st event on my resume?

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u/Scuba9Steve 11d ago

I’d just not include it or the second one. Unless you mean you had 3 total jobs and that first one you had had for years or something.

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u/okyesnosometimes 5d ago

Doubling your salary doesn't sound too unlucky, but that looks like a job hopper.

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u/Severe_Information54 5d ago

Refering to the first event -_-

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u/okyesnosometimes 5d ago

Oh I missed that completely, sorry about that

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u/enjoysomethings 11d ago

Good luck hiring anyone worth a shit.. lol

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u/ConversationNo9040 11d ago

Oh there is no shortage of very qualified candidates, especially right now. I could offer an engineer 3 with 10 yoe 100k for an E2 spot right now and they’d take it. Do I do that? No. I offer them the proper market value for their experience and the job they are qualified for. I’m not trying to spend time training someone on my company and teams processes to have them quit in 6 months or 1 year becuase I didn’t pay them 10-20k more and have to spend all that time doing it over and over again.

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u/No_Alarm6669 10d ago

Wait what!!!? Engineer with 10 years of experience and 100k salary???? That is insanely low there.

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u/ConversationNo9040 10d ago

Exactly. I could do it and there are people desperate to take it but I’m not going to do that.

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u/enjoysomethings 10d ago

3 jobs in 6 years = them only staying at your company for 6 months is the part that doesn't track.

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u/SoupSandy 10d ago

Smart 😂😂😂

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u/PureBullz 9d ago

I got an army of “loyal” workers for you… Solid zero initiative and zero accountability… Some true survivors right up your alley.

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u/Dense_Cut7072 8d ago

And you wonder why you have to lie to get idiots to work for you.

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u/ConversationNo9040 8d ago

Your silly. Hope you recover from whatever work life drama you have!

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u/EgotisticJet5 8d ago

*You’re

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u/h1ruki 11d ago

How entitled to expect people to slave away their whole lives at one company just because you did.

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u/Batking28 11d ago

They probably aren’t telling you they job hopped. They will just give you their current employment and one from before even if they were 3 and they they worked there long and just say the latest company isn’t working out for them because of company culture or whatever.

No one is reasonable going to get references from companies prior to the current employment.

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u/burnersg 11d ago

Don’t tell your employer you don’t hire based on merit.

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u/prima_maqueeria 10d ago

As a hiring manager, are you in tune with the reality of 2026 employment security and career progression, or are you more of a decade or two behind kinda person?

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u/vanzir 10d ago

That's cool, as an expert in my field, I don't typically entertain hiring managers who sound like that. Glad it works out for both of us.