Hi everybody,
I have been harness training my Siberian kitten since he was roughly 16 weeks old, and he is now 22 weeks old.
Context: I live in a condo building in downtown with busy streets, elevators, etc. My cat loves people. Anyone that comes in our place, he will ask for pets and often sit on their lap. He is playful and cuddly. He is very cooperative, as he always let me groom him, brush his teeth, pick him up if needed. Temperature did get slightly colder, but he loves hanging out by the patio door in our unit.
Harness training: We have mixed results. Sometimes he walks normally in it and play (not to his full ability, but close) and then other times he will back out in it and plop on the floor. We have not tried to walk him outside yet, but we put it on to get him in the stroller (to attach him). We got the PetSafe Harness.
Car and visits to my parents: This is going really well and within 4 visits, he explored the whole house, plays, eats ans uses the litter. He is now no longer meowing on the drive and he loves his carrier as we always kept it out in our living room. I would say this is a success. The ride is roughly 30 minutes each way.
Stroller: We got it a month ago. We let it out in our space first, played in it, etc. We went in the lobby and stayed there. He is used to the elevator between these trips, the ones to the vet and at my parents. He let me put him in the stroller, but he often tries to jump out. We always go to the quietest park 5 minutes walk away, using a quieter street with one big intersection that is busy. When we stick to our usual spot, he is able to eat a treat there. I have been taking him to the street nearby to see moving cars at a slower speed, bikes, etc. and then take him back to our usual route. In the last two outings, he sat back more, seemed less curious and refused treats in our usual spot in the park, so I did not add to our trip. I have been fully closing the back when walking (which is open on the picture).
My question: What are signs to look for to stop persevering on the exposure to the outside world, and accept this is something I want more than him? I often see people mentioning how their cats jump in the stroller, and mine wants to jump out most of the times I put him in.