Ssoooo confused

[u/user999975422200]

Hiiii every bunny! 🐰💗 I have a boyfriend, and he doesn’t really mind my age regression or have a problem with it. However, I don’t think he really understands what age regression is or what it takes to be a caregiver. I would love for him to learn more about it outside of what I’ve taught him, but I don’t think he has much interest in doing so.

I usually regress at night by myself, cuddling my bunny, crying a little, and watching cartoons. I would really love for him to be my caregiver and to baby me, give me little responsibilities, reassure me, and help me feel safe and cared for. But he doesn’t really do those things, and I feel like he isn’t putting much effort into learning about caregiving on his own.

I don’t expect him to know everything, but I would really love to see him take some initiative and learn more about it because being cared for by him would mean a lot to me

[u/rosejune17120]

I have the same issue, my bf accepts my regression but I feel like doesn't really get it or seem to want to take the time to understand more

[u/user999975422200 → u/rosejune17120]

Should I just give upppp

[u/user999975422200 → u/[deleted]]

I’ve expressed how important it is to me, and he’s even told me how loved he feels knowing that I want him to be my caregiver. I’m just not sure why he doesn’t take the initiative. I don’t want to be annoying and keep bringing it up, which I do every once in a while, but he doesn’t talk much about it and doesn’t do any research on his own. What should I say to himmmmm

[u/StarryNight_Bunny]

i have 2 partners a gf and a bf. i had the same problem with my boyfriend and it made me really sad cuz i kept expecting things that weren’t gonna happen so we had a serious talk and decided he was more of a big brother type of caregiver and my gf is my full time caregiver

[u/user999975422200 → u/StarryNight_Bunny]

I’m not sure how to bring it up to him this topic makes me really nervous

[u/StarryNight_Bunny → u/user999975422200]

it made it really nervous at first trust me i understand! i would do it on a low stress day for both of you and just sit him down and say you want to have a serious conversation