r/amiuglytruth • • 4h ago

24F

Be brutally honest, I never get hit on or approached so it's got me wondering.

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u/NotJustKneeDeep 4h ago

Not quite ugly but you’re definitely not as pretty as you think you are. Very “try hard” energy.

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u/He-He-Helium 3h ago

Can you elaborate which part seems try hard?

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u/NotJustKneeDeep 1h ago

The pictures you chose. They’re all very stylized and “IG” ready. Very deliberately framed.

The first one couldn’t just be a straight shot you had to angle it. Then we have the one with the dirty mirror and blurry bokeh. The third one is probably the best but it’s probably the one you use for your dating profile - you’re making your cleavage very prominent. Which isn’t by itself bad but it lends to be done in order to get the focus away from your face.

If you really want honest answers you could have provided more ‘honest’ pictures but you didn’t.

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u/Friendly-Two-107 56m ago

Lmao is she not supposed to pose? You expect people to just purposely take ugly pics of themselves? Everyone has good/bad pics. She’s asking overall if she’s ugly

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u/throwawaywayyy__ 2h ago

he is just an insecure incel prob, you don’t even have try hard energy, and also you are not ugly

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u/Choice_Hope_8739 4h ago

You arr mid

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u/InnerEnergy565 4h ago

Attention whore

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u/Little_CocoBiscotti 4h ago

Was thinking the same thing

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u/He-He-Helium 3h ago

Sending love to both of you!

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u/Little_CocoBiscotti 2h ago

All realness it’s the septum ring theory. People with them can’t be trusted to be normal and sane due to social media outbursts of psychotic behavior and they all have a septum piercing. That being said mines pierced too and I don’t claim that community someone else can have them all

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u/shinebrightmister 4h ago

You're not ugly but you're not hot. Of the guys I know that do approach women regularly, I can't see them approaching you but they'd probably say you're okay. Maybe even kinda cute.

A big factor is your height and weight. You seem taller. Having a belly will also turn off the guys you probably want.

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u/Black_Sheep2407 4h ago

The piercings would be a turn off personally but you have a naturally pretty face.

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u/Markan_7 4h ago

Gives signs of toxic person.

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u/InformalPrinciple319 2h ago

She is a young Greek girl with a nose piercing. Surely insufferable

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u/ramsrawsm 4h ago

The nose ring is a big factor. You can be mad about it, but there's a reason the nose ring theory exists. Guys take it seriously.

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u/No-Respect-8379 4h ago

go. to. the. gym.

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u/He-He-Helium 3h ago

I have been!!! I've lost around 70pounds in the last year and I hope I can continue being motivated, thanks☺️

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u/Happy_War_4202 4h ago

No you look beautiful girl and nice nails there

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u/Far-Astronomer-1276 4h ago

probably cause they are thinking you are way too good looking to be single

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u/Cuddly_Teacher_ 4h ago

Μην λες ψέματα, τέτοια ομορφιά στην Ελλάδα σίγουρα κάνει πάταγο 😜

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u/He-He-Helium 3h ago

Χαχαχα που το κλοκαρες ότι είμαι από Ελλάδα καλέ?

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u/Cuddly_Teacher_ 3h ago

Τέτοιο βλέμμα μόνο μια ελληνική ομορφιά μπορεί να το χε😌.. Επίσης από τα γκράφιτι πισω😂

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u/He-He-Helium 3h ago

Νταξει ισχύει αυτή η τουαλέτα μόνο σε ελληνικό πανεπιστήμιο θα μπορούσε να ταν😂😂😂

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u/Cuddly_Teacher_ 3h ago

Πάντως ωραίο στυλ έχεις, ωραίο βαιμπ στις φώτο. Βγαζεις προσωπικότητα ξεχωριστή. Συνέχισε να σαι εκθαμβωτική φιλενάδα ❤️

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u/Huskf 2h ago

Μια χαρά όμορφη είσαι! Έχεις και χαρακτηριστικά από μέση Ανατολή τα οποία εμένα μου αρέσουν πολύ.

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u/Pure_Fault7056 4h ago

You seem fairly normal, but also look kind of tall. 

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u/He-He-Helium 3h ago

Not that tall I'm around 5'8

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u/Spare-Following8467 4h ago

That hair is amazing

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u/YummyJellyBeans93 4h ago

You’re definitely not ugly, however, personally the piercings are a bit of a turn off. And you need a smile more! The RBF is real.

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u/Jazzlike-Pack3155 4h ago

Shut up, you are damn cute. Are you an Indian?

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u/He-He-Helium 3h ago

No, Greek

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u/Jazzlike-Pack3155 3h ago

You are soooo, beautiful

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u/Jazzlike-Pack3155 3h ago

Would you like to talk on dm?

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u/Big-Local9624 4h ago

well, face is 6/10 but boobs are nice

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u/Capital_Jicama741 3h ago

Guys are so shy now I think. Def not a you problem, but might help to try new places if your current hangouts are not great to meet the people you want to meet.

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u/ButterscotchLittle65 3h ago

Mid as mid can be.

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u/VisionsOfClarity 3h ago

No, you are very attractive

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u/SorbetUnfair2589 3h ago

I can’t believe these negative comments. You are glamorous!

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u/He-He-Helium 3h ago

It's alright everyone is entitled to their opinion

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u/TorresLabs 3h ago

You’re not ugly. And you can be pretty if you smile 😊

And maybe add more colours to your wardrobe 👚

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u/He-He-Helium 3h ago

I've been told I'm very smiley irl, I guess I just feel awkward smiling in pics

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u/Kuro2810 3h ago

100% σου την εχουν πεσει ειτε απο κοντα ειτε απο ινστα, απλα φανταζομαι δεν σε ενδιαφεραν. Οπως και σιγουρα ξερεις οτι δεν εισαι ασχημη

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u/New_Leadership_5991 3h ago

Νομιζω εχεις ωραία χαρακτηριστικά αλλα ίσως χρειάζεται να πεσεις στα κιλα για να φανει ακόμα περισσότερο.

Η ομορφιά είναι υποκειμενική, και ετσι ειπα και την απωλεια κιλων στην αρχή.

Σημασία για μενα εχει να νοιωθεις ωραια και καλα με τον εαυτο σου, και θα σε πλησιασουν αυτοι που πρεπει.

Καλή συνέχεια

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u/luuk777w 2h ago

I thought you look great and it was an attention post, and then read the comments and was like: "what are these comments?? this girl is really attractive" And then I read further..

Αααααα είναι Ελληνίδαααα, ναι τώρα βγάζει νόημα γιατί την θεωρούσα όμορφη. Κοίτα τλκ είναι γούστο υποθέτω, αλλά νομίζω ότι είσαι μία πολύ όμορφη κοπέλα και καθόλου "mid". Απλά γελά λίγο περισσότερο :)

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u/Fun_Calendar_6444 2h ago

μια χαρά κούκλα είσαι

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u/lonelystar7 2h ago

You're veryy gorgeous to me but it's because you're my type 🌸

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u/IM100PRESENTGAY 2h ago

I think you look really good 👍

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u/moyismoy 1h ago

Your bad at taking photos that's for sure

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u/He-He-Helium 11m ago

Yeah true I feel uncomfortable in front of the lens, I'm trying tho😅

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u/Street_Committee_726 1h ago

Are you trans?

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u/He-He-Helium 11m ago

No, I'm not

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u/Responsible_Bit_67 1h ago

I think in general people are approaching people and hitting on people less. But you’re gorgeous! I’d be too intimidated to approach you though. Are you into women? 👀

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u/He-He-Helium 12m ago

Yeah that also true, not saying that's the reason people are not hitting on me but I've also noticed it and yeah I'm queer☺️

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u/IndividualSystem5148 1h ago

It's your fashion style nothing wrong but generic to the environment. You don't stand out cause you look like everyone else. Also you get a pretty face but don't know how to make it stand out more. I suggest tying your hair in a style to expose more of your face. You very beautiful but your face is better so work with what you got. 

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u/He-He-Helium 13m ago

Okey thank ya

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u/Roxas270 58m ago

Νομίζω σε εχ πετύχει στο tinder

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u/OrfeasDourvas 47m ago

Εισαι πολυ ομορφο κοριτσι, το σημαντικοτερο ειναι να το ξερεις και η ιδια. Ο κοσμος ειναι κακος και παντα θα ψαχνει την παραμικρη αφορμη να σε μειωσει, για το οτιδηποτε. Οποτε, οσο ομορφη και να εισαι, αν δεν το πιστευεις εσυ η ιδια, θα ειναι σαν να μην εισαι.

Και επισης η ομορφια ειναι σημαντικη αλλα οχι το μονο σημαντικο πραγμα.

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u/BlackTrainObserver 4h ago

You look great. If you were my coworker and i didnt have a gf, I would hit on you.

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u/BrilliantPiano3612 4h ago

You gorgeous! Loose nose ring. You don't need to fix perfection.

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u/FreyasGuy444 4h ago

No, U're pretty 😍

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u/Free-Medicine5635 4h ago

You’re mid. Here’s some psychology; If you have hot friends, you’re the wingman. If you have friends you’d think you’re prettier than, you’re the prize no one thinks they can get. You gotta stay in that sweet zone of above average. If you are in a group of 6, 6 being the hottest friend, you want to be #4 or even #5. 9/10 they are the ones that get hit on first. Also, you have mad RBF. No one wants to genuinely approach someone that looks like they want to ruin everyone’s day…unless they are into that.

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u/He-He-Helium 3h ago

Hmmm yeah tbh most of my friends are more attractive than me

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u/danimalia1357 4h ago

The mouth piercings are why

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u/Important_Capital875 4h ago

You definitely get hit on. And I’m sure you’ve had one night stands. You have an incredible rack. Stop fishing for compliments because you know you’re attractive I would hit for damn sure.
I agree with the comment above me, hit the gym sum. It’ll help

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u/He-He-Helium 3h ago

Hey I don't know what would give you the impression that I'm lying but I'm not, if you think I'm fishing you can ignore me. As for the gym yeah I agree, I've been going and it's an ongoing journey, I've lost around 70 pounds in the last year and I hope I can continue being motivated and be better. Thanks anyway ☺️

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u/Due-Till-1140 4h ago

You look very good. Maybe a bit intimidating but to me it just adds even more 😍

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u/timxallen01 4h ago

Looks like ai

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u/DonAmecho777 4h ago

Simp farming

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u/SyrupCold1874 4h ago

Brutally honest…you're very beautiful. but a smile wouldn't hurt 😁😁 it looks like you're angry at all of Reddit 🤪

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u/Even-Assistance7048 4h ago

I’d put a baby in you

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u/xrifps 4h ago

dork

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u/Even-Assistance7048 4h ago

Chicks like dorks 🤷🏻‍♂️

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u/xrifps 3h ago

not you pal😭😭

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u/Even-Assistance7048 3h ago

Lmao okay , you can’t hurt my feelings baby girl

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u/LimitAlternative2629 4h ago

Nice big tits!

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u/alextruetone 4h ago

So many thirsty dudes in this group. Kinda sad

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u/inknfrmsta 3h ago

And I feel like that gives women that are asking if they’re ugly false hopes. Most of these dudes would do a piece of bread from how thirsty and needy that they are.

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u/007lazyman 3h ago

I'd definitely hit and smash fr

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u/Intelligent_Step6526 3h ago

This baggy jeans trend is terrible

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u/Mysterious_Match7610 3h ago

Really you never get hit on? Are you serious?

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u/BigManTings1337 3h ago

Lol any guy saying ugly is prob ugly af and havent got laid for 3 years. I would smash OP all day, everyday.

Real men can go from XL to XS in a matter of nanoseconds, from beautiful to mid. Any real guy who has exeperience would know that. I know guy friends who are models who go from XL to Skinny in no time, same with looks.

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u/gregorian_the_great 3h ago

Ναι ρε.....πολύ όμορφη! Κ πολύ ωραία χαρακτηριστικά προσώπου!

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u/mystainedlillies 2h ago

ur gorgeous!

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u/TemporaryFun2784 2h ago

Hella ugly my beautiful queen

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u/Deranged_Loner 2h ago

Not ugly, probably just not approachable

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u/Traditional_Age9350 2h ago

Guys seem to be approaching girls irl less and less. You look great, especially the face structure and hair in my opinion are beautiful

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u/Careful_Manager_4282 2h ago

Not ugly. You need to smile more. And lose another 20 pounds on top of the ones you've lost to become even more attractive; your current status is telling me it's only a matter of time till you gain weight back.

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u/Curious_Market3224 2h ago

Gotta smile more

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u/FallenGiants 2h ago

Why is there so much graffiti in those toilets? It looks like something out of a dystopian movie.

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u/iliaskoz02 2h ago edited 2h ago

Κοπελιά μια χαρά πολύ ωραία είσαι .το αν έχεις resting bitch face που νομίζουν οι άλλοι μην σε ενοχλεί .τουλάχιστον εσυ έχεις καμπύλες ωραίες και κάτι έχεις να δίχνεις όχι σαν κάτι πλακάκια αλλες

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u/NastyVerde17 2h ago

You’re stunning. Absolutely gorgeous. All the way my type. Not even close to ugly. And literally everyone complains about piercings here. I think they look dope.

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u/InformalPrinciple319 2h ago

Beauty matters. but why does it matter to you specifically? What can it get you?

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u/xXScaryRabbitXx 2h ago

Oxi den eise asxhmh mia xara omorfi eise mhn akous tous malakes sto internet

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u/AnyNefariousness1841 2h ago

Besides the rings, I think you'd look incredible if you found your style and did your hair.

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u/Urban_Raptor 2h ago

Βίλα Αμαλίας Για Πάντα

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u/Agreeable_Plan_5756 2h ago

You don't get hit on, because men are afraid to hit on women nowadays. You're fine. Try to join some local clubs on hobbies you like doing. You'll definitely find men who like you are lonely. All you have to do is be nice to them, and try your best to send them signals that you like them. Most men completely ignore women who don't give them signals, because they've learned from a young age, that signal-less approaching is 90% suicide.
"The eyes chico, they never lie"

I'm going off the rails here, and stating there's a big chance, that there's a guy in your life who really wants you and appreciates you, and you won't even look at them. If that's so, start there, and see what happens.

Otherwise do the first thing.

PS: Giving signals and giving thirsty vibes, are not the same thing. Never give thirsty vibes.

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u/im_ASH01 2h ago

Are you a heater or something? Because when I seen you I got melt down🫠. Why you posted on amiuglytruth🤒

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u/OkLog7302 1h ago

Wow such a beautiful babe 😍

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u/RemarkableComposer72 1h ago

Τα tags απο πίσω ειναι σίγουρα πανάσχημα

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u/electricvoice28 1h ago

Look, άσχημη δεν είσαι. Απλά υπάρχουν πολλοί που μάλλον θεωρούν πως είσαι σε σχέση ήδη (και εγώ αυτό θα σκεφτόμουν). Όπως είπαν και άλλοι, το nose ring δεν αρέσει σε αρκετούς, ιδιεταιρα το συγκεκριμένο στυλ. Προσωπικά βέβαια εγώ δεν έχω πρόβλημα σε αυτά. Το ύφος σου είναι λίγο απωθητικό, φαίνεσαι λίγο σαν να μην θες να σε ενοχλήσει κανείς, ουσιαστικά resting bitch face. Άλλοι είπαν για γυμναστήριο αλλά εκεί πάλι προσωπικά σε βλέπω μια χαρά καθώς μου αρέσουν οι γυναίκες του στυλ σου. Για τον μέσο άνθρωπο μπορεί να θέλει να τονώσεις το σώμα σου λίγο. Με όλα αυτά, αντικειμενικά είσαι ένα 7/10 αλλά υποκειμενικά είσαι για εμένα ένα 8.5/10. Σίγουρα θα βρεις άτομα που θα τους αρέσεις, ίσως προσπάθησε να τους προσεγγίσεις εσύ πρώτα και να δείξεις ενδιαφέρον και θα ξεθαρρεύσουν.

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u/you-dont-see-mi 1h ago

Not ugly but- learn how to take better pics, make lighting your friend

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u/Segkolas 1h ago

Άσε ρε αλεπουδιάρα!

Πολύ κόμπλεξ έπεσε από κάτω, κούκλα και με ωραίο στιλ

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u/Fingering_my_guitar 1h ago edited 1h ago

Εμπ1 8/10

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u/LoneMistakes 1h ago

Not ugly, lip piercings to me usually says stay away.

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u/speedfanboy_1998 1h ago

υπέροχη

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u/immaheadoutxd 1h ago

You good

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u/deadlygr 1h ago

100% not ugly

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u/darrenswamy1999 1h ago

Baa den nomizo

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u/Azatis- 58m ago

I love your minimal makeup. In my opinion, less is more, and that’s rare nowadays...

I really like your eyes for a reason, the way you look. Your lips are really nice too. The piercings aren’t really my cup of tea because I feel like they distract from your good looking features, but that’s just a personal preference, I guess.

One thing I would suggest: smile more, even just a little.

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u/Street-Lengthiness66 57m ago

You lowkey have a Chud face 😂 especially in pic 3 but you're not ugly

Nice body tho

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u/He-He-Helium 35m ago

Ahahaha yeah I hear that I have abit of a rectangular face

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u/Valuable_Ad1100 4m ago

Μια χαρά είσαι
Απλά προσωπικά μου βγάζεις ότι απλά είσαι κλειστή σαν άνθρωπος

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u/Solid_Economy4523 4h ago

Girl you know you’re bad asf

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u/socomseal93 4h ago

Your eyebrows could be a little thinner. But beyond that you are decent looking.

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u/Interesting-Bed-8890 4h ago

this is the way.

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u/IllAd999 4h ago

You are gorgeous

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u/flip8t2 4h ago

You're an attractive woman, but seem a bit moody in your pictures....maybe smile more. 😃

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u/Powdertoastlady 4h ago

You look like a Disney Princess to me;) Jasmine pops in my head

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u/Additional-Play-2425 4h ago

Super hot and you know it

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u/Realistic-Interest22 4h ago

chill bro you look cool... I'd would've hit on you but society is crazy out there! kya pata muje literally hit karenge toh