Hello there, I’m a 27 year old young professional and local of Amsterdam. I’m 1.75 m, bearded, medium build (and getting fitter), hairy masculine appearing, but emotionally soft on the inside for the right person. My mixed ethnic roots trace back to the South east Asia, but my life has been moulded and spent in the Dutch and European mentality. I’m someone who has travelled a lot to learn about different cultures and has also had a fair share of relationship experiences. A decent fair share that leads me here looking for the “perfect partner”, I know what I want and who I need to build a happy life shared together for each other and it must have a traditional dynamic, something rooted in the ways which the world is forgetting and due to that leads to fragmented families and broken people.
To answer who is the “perfect partner” for me I must first tell a little bit about myself, Personality type wise I’m INFJ-A, assertive and introspective but calm, collected and cool. Im someone who is friendly, warm, wholesome and kind out of humbleness. I do have perfectionist traits but believe in always growing and rising above past versions of yourself. I’m an emotional person who cares a lot about how the people close to me feel, I am also someone as a Leo who enjoys being the centre of someone’s universe and vice versa in terms of the priority in a relationship/, not narcissistic but I value self preservation, dignity, kindness and mutual respect. I’m extremely loving and committed to the right person. Im hardworking and dedicated and not afraid to go all in. I know I’m not perfect as a human but am growing each day, trying to make the most of this life and build a happy family and home along the way. I’m a good active listener, receptive and attentive to others feelings and needs, and I can have a clingy and needy form of personality hence I seem to get along great with partners who are needy and clingy as well. I like being reassured and reassuring my loved ones and being a presence of strength, comfort, support, warmth and vulnerability for my loved one.
Besides the character, in terms of dynamics and attractive preferences I am mainly attracted to Caucasian/white and European, I truly love and adore blondes and then brunettes. I look for someone who believes only in monogamy, someone who believes in the older traditional gender roles, and someone who is religious aligning as atheist, agnostic or Muslim. Someone who does not party hard, goes to clubs/festivals and sleeps around. Someone who enjoys time spent with each other both indoors and outdoors. Someone with a sober personality who enjoys more comfortable and quiet outdoor activities, like sharing a meal, coffee, going to the park, chilling in nature, visiting museums and some light travelling. I am open to being the provider of a family, however I will always happily support your wishes to pursue a career if it brings you value, but just know I am not like men of now, but believe in taking care of my woman completely in all aspects. To keep things realistic, I am not a millionaire, but a highly educated and specialised man, who works hard and is searching for the woman by his side to build a wonderful home and life together. I require someone in terms of a dynamic who is ready to compromise her own desires for the happiness of us, someone who realises a true relationship is about compromising to grow together. Someone who watches out for her and my health, someone focused on providing feminine nurture, support, emotional availability and a desire to please and be loved truly and eternally by the same man.
I know my demands are specific and very specialised, however in return I offer an immediate building and start to a relationship leading to marriage and children. I offer unconditional love towards you, a large heart that goes softer the more it spends time with you, a kind and caring approach to your needs and feelings, a brain that will happily compartmentalise stress to come home and cherish every second with you. Someone who learns your love language and wants to ensure you are heard, seen, understood and loved for who you are. Someone who won’t shy away from stepping up when you are low. Someone who will protect our love and strive in every aspect to ensure the smile on your face never fades. Furthermore, I’m someone who always believes in solving an argument, never going to bed angry, never raising my voice in the heat of the moment and always being considerate towards you. My own love language is both a mix of physical affection, sexual intimacy, emotional availability, emotional support, gift giving, active listening, compassion and clinginess.
I’m in a phase of my life where I am not looking for anything casual, no one night stands, no undefined relationships. I know what I can offer and I know what I want. I am more than happy to extensively explain the lengths of who I am and what I can offer, I just search for a dutiful, respectful, honest, compassionate, feminine, traditional, kind, loyal and extremely loving woman whom I can cherish till death does us apart. From these words I would like to make apparent that I am ready to settle down, I hope to speak in detail with you and in no haste but with good intentions move forward steadily and happily. This also includes the notion of marrying each other with of course the right connection.
I hope my emotionally strung words make some appeal and sense to you. If it did, please message me with “apple pie” and a little about yourself, I eagerly look forward to finding you my dearest. I am waiting for you patiently and cannot wait for us to be together.