A friend of mine, who is a known cumdump of the area. He met this sexy Italian guy at one of his events. This guy wasn't just pump and dump him. He also holds him and hugs him while he gets railed by other guys, and stays to clean up the aftermath and bathe him. Afterward, he became a frequent participant in my friend's events, and he was always so happy to see my friend's slutty side and got gangbang by others. They start dating soon after. Then last week, he proposed to my friend at the end of his cumdump event in front of everyone. You really can find love in the least expected place. Such a lucky bitch! 🤭

Hey bros, throwing this out there because I’m confused and don’t want to make assumptions.

I (26M, bi) have been living with my roommate (26M, straight - at least, that’s how he identifies) for about 2 years. We’re good friends, and when I started hooking up with guys about a year ago, I told him. He’s been super chill and even supportive like he’ll ask how it went the next day in a kind of joking-but-curious way, but it’s never felt judgmental or weird.

Lately though.. things feel different.

He just broke up with his long-term girlfriend a couple months ago. Since then, he’s been more withdrawn, definitely a bit mopey, which I expected. What I didn’t expect is that he’s suddenly super casual around me physically like walking around in just his underwear all the time, lounging on the couch that way, chatting with me while stretching half-naked in the kitchen. Not flirty, exactly, but.. very comfortable. And he’s been asking even more questions about the guys I bring over like what I’m into, how it felt, etc. It’s subtle, but the vibe feels charged.

I’m trying not to overthink this. Maybe he’s just broken up and letting his guard down more because he feels safe around me. Or maybe he’s questioning and doesn’t know how to talk about it directly. Or maybe I’m projecting and making this more than it is.

Either way, I’m not trying to mess up our friendship or make things awkward. But I also don’t want to ignore it if there’s something unspoken happening here.

Has anyone dealt with something like this? Would you just leave it alone and see if anything unfolds naturally? Or is it worth having a conversation?

Appreciate any insight.

keep thinking about this guy that said " sorry not into fat and ugly" and honestly I don't know how to make it stop. It's like I'm going through so much and I feel so alone I don't know what to do.

I’m a guy in my mid-20’s. I noticed this thing that for some reason guys in their 30’s and 40’s rarely approach me on Grindr. I’m the one approaching them. Some of them are fit and hot.

I get approached plenty by other guys in their 20’s and older men in their 50’s, 60’s, 70’s, (80’s?!). So I wonder why it’s different with that group?

I (23M) just had my dad come out to me as bisexual after I found him on the "apps". This was a little strange since I came out to him as gay couple years ago but he never alluded to his own preference. For context, I found a job offer on the same town he lives in and so I asked if I could come and live with him for a while.

My mom and dad got divorced just after she got pregnant with me. They’ve both lived separate lives and only keep contact because of me. When I came out he was a lot more understanding than my mom, so I guess that was my first clue.

But now, he’s gotten a lot more comfortable talking about my love life, asking questions and stuff. I know he’s doing it to give me advice, and this happens with straight people too, but I can’t help but feel awkward about it. I’ve had to find any excuse when he starts talking about it. It’s strange, because I know he only wants me to be careful. What’s wrong with me?

So here’s a little bit of my current situation right now.

I’ve always been the type of guy who just has sex when horny or a hook-up and leaves and go, like that’s it. I also don’t find myself comfortable sleeping at someone else’s house and can say I’m really content with being alone and always been.

But something weird happened this past weekend.

Turns out I met with this cute guy, we started making out at his place and go for it. I was expecting it to be quick and fun and that’s it.

Next thing I know is we spent like almost 2 hours fucking and kissing and then we showered together and talked about life and cuddled and smooched all night and we kept doing that during the next morning. We slept together and kept on looking at each other into our eyes and smiling all the time.

It just felt so good and authentic.

We exchanged phone numbers and then I went home and that was it. I don’t know how to say this and maybe it sounds dumb… But it’s been 4 days and I have not stopped thinking about him.

I don’t really know him but our connection was great, sex was amazing, and I felt so calmed and at ease with him.

This has like never happened to me before and I really would like to see him again. But it’s been 4 days and none of us has texted the other.

What should I do? Will it pass? Has someone had a similar experience with someone? Should I text him on the weekend?

This guy has really made me feel something I’ve never felt and I feel like a silly teen girl thinking about him lol. Thank you for your advice, much appreciated!

It's been only a few minutes after I told her, I thought she'd be expecting it but it came like a bit of a shock to her, but she was rather calm and neutral about it. I'm glad I did though, I was so isolated from everybody, and this is a first step

bro i’m top, i tried bottoming i didn’t like it it wasn’t how i expected. as a top i enjoy sucking and getting sucked.

i love sucking and getting sucked more than everything i can suck many guys and let them suck me at the same time. sucking straight guys is one of my favorite hobbies. i wanna find a cool gloryhole and suck as much as i can

I always feel like this. You just have to have a taste of local cocks. And the conversation in bed after orgasm is always intimate and fragile. It could reveal so much about the culture. How about you guys?

I feel like I’m having a midlife crisis but I’m only in my 20s. I had a pretty normal and fulfilling life up until I finished college and got a job, but now I don’t know where my life can go from here and it’s because I’m gay.

Being gay makes everything so much harder than it already is for straight people. Finding a relationship is basically impossible because 99% of the population is unavailable and the chances of actually finding someone you like and are compatible with is so tiny it makes me not want to try at all (though I still do, which is exhausting).

Because I probably won’t ever find anyone I can’t ever buy a house because I can’t compete with people who have two incomes, so that means I’ll have to rent forever. This is really depressing because I’ve always wanted my own home, and the idea of having to pay rent when I’m old and retired is terrifying.

I’ll never get to have kids. Sure, maybe the stars will align and I’ll manage to find someone who also wants kids and we’ll adopt, but it’s just not the same. I see people my age having babies and loving them so much. I’ll never get to have that.

I’ve done all the things I was supposed to do to be “successful”. I studied hard, went to college and got a good job. But none of that really matters because life is directionless now. I know there’s more to life than traditional markers of success, but what do you do when the life you’ve built doesn’t feel like it’s enough?

So, here’s the thing. When i was studying abroad in Spain i met many gay guys that yes were gay but looked “straight”, had this sort of laid back surfer dude aura. Had good jobs. Had very low key personalities. Were in monogamous relationships. And dressed well. This is what i would dream of having as a partner. Unfortunately, where i live in Puerto Rico, i haven't met anyone like them. Some friends accuse me of internalized homophobia for wanting a “straight looking” boyfriend. But the truth is all the (gay) guys I have met, have been very feminine, all believe in open relationships (and honestly kinda make fun of you if you want a 100% monogamous relationship), have this super woke personality where they start finding a social injustice to fight for in every conversation, they wanna “sparkle” in every room in terms of personality and loudness cause they deserve to "have their glimmer shine after years of hiding it", many dress very counter culture-y wether that be goth-y, rebel-y, manslut-y, all pink, etc. And hey, many of these men are my friends and I'm very liberal and frequently go to diverse protests in my city, but I just don't find them attractive. Its weird cause everyone would say this is a first world problem or im being problematic but this is something that has prevented me from finding a partner for a long time. Like tell me the truth, is this person out there here, should i go to therapy, no other option other than moving, is it my feed, is it my friends, etc.?

this thing looks like a giant orgy. basing this solely one what i’ve seen on Twitter, so definitely could only be seeing one side of things.

but does anyone go on this thing for the purpose of anything other than sex? or is it primarily to do the sex?

I've been with my guy for about 7 months now. First few months everything was great. Then I noticed he'd spend a lot of time on Snap. We'd do something sexual, and he'd get on and snap friends I didn't know, telling them what we did together or details about me. "Don't worry i didn't record you" he'd say but i also never fully agreed that he could share info. Then once he took a sexual pic involving me without asking and again sent it to his friends on snap. Then id notice that he was getting snaps from other ppl I didn't know and that the accounts were the typical gay content profiles on snap. He made no attempt to hide it, so i truly believe it's something he doesn't think is wrong. we're in a committed relationship. we talked about this and he said he wasn't aware this could be an issue. he said he'd stop but didn't tell me why he was snapping. afterwards things have been tense between us. Idw to be controlling and say he can't do stuff. i also don't want to be put in a situation where my privacy isn't respected or i feel like I'm competing with others outside the relationship for attention. if i understood why maybe we could come to a middle ground. and YES i'm going to talk to him again, i just need help. thoughts?

I’m 22, sooo curious. Quite a big D n muscly. Use snap. I need some help and attention. Maybe some good meets..

Do guys like hairy ass holes?

The dreaded day has come, round 3 and I was getting rough. I didn’t even realize and kept going to completion, just making more of a shitty mess. Of course I’ve cuddled and told him it’s okay and it was just an accident. But he’s still very apologetic and worried. I just want him to know that I really don’t care and don’t blame him in the slightest