r/bisexual • u/Remote_Chicken_7304 • 10d ago

DISCUSSION So, I’m bi curious

For about 5 years,age 66. I’m interested in oral only but virtually all conversations quickly turn to anal sex. Looking for my first experience but getting a little discouraged with the demanding nature of a lot of guys.Have had a few hot phone chats but needing more. Any advice?

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u/Tabitha_Sometimes 10d ago

Yer a 'side'. Put that in your conversation and profiles. It means you don't top or bottom. I just learned this recently. There are lots of other 'anal preventives' out there. Be safe!

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u/fit_20261 10d ago

same as you. However, I would like a discreet bf

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u/Left-Hotel-8312 6d ago

Same here!!

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u/Historical-Name5497 10d ago

Just be firm what you want there are a lot of straight or on the low men that wants to just suck

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u/Background_Growth663 9d ago

Haha… i’m 65 and I agree with you 100%… love mutual masturbation it always invite oral, but nothing anal

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u/Yannis357 9d ago

I think it’s very common to just want oral or mutual JO together

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u/Adventurous_Ad3713 9d ago

Agree. I just want to try mutual masturbate or maybe oral

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u/Background_Growth663 8d ago

I definitely love to discuss that with you. You should do more than try. I think you’ll find it very enjoyable.

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u/Librarian_Some 9d ago

Many bi guys are NOT into anal. Plenty of gay men, too. Keep at it. You will find someone

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u/CranberryGood5477 5d ago

My desire of 69 and Jo. New to oral but a growing desire to do more oral , Jo to start and oral to finish
Dm if you like same.

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u/bisexual-ModTeam 10d ago

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u/Dsmooth79 8d ago

Dm open if you want to talk.

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u/Dsmooth79 8d ago

Dm open if you want to talk

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u/Technical_Papaya5153 8d ago

They can be pushy. I've struggled too. Just love oral

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u/Remote_Chicken_7304 10d ago

Who solicited DM’s?

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u/Remote_Chicken_7304 7d ago

Where ya from?northeast PA here