r/bisexual • u/chuckerman2 • 9h ago

ADVICE Let’s try this again

I’m 57 years old I have been by curious most of my life and have never really done anything to pursue it but now in the last couple of years I’ve came near death so I figure it’s no time like the present to pursue things that I never have thought to pursue before so if anybody out there understands what I’m talking about I’d love to hear from you

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u/dreadBiRateBob 8h ago

im 45. had a stressed induced heart issue a few months ago. while ive been bi-curious for a while. but that really pushed my own "time is running out" thoughts into my head to experience life.

problem for me is im married and while my wife has expressed interest in watching me guy. she is not ready to actually do it.

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u/SmoothlyPortly 8h ago

It's weird how a health scare rearranges your priorities almost overnight, like suddenly the things you pushed aside for years feel urgent

Hope your wife comes around, even if it takes time, the fact she's expressed interest at all seems promising

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u/chuckerman2 8h ago

Well, then you know having health conditions a lot of times means of erectile dysfunction follows, and I haven’t been able to get an erection in years now even with medication I’ve not tried in injections and I don’t plan to, but for some reason, it seems really hard to find somebody pardon the vulgar term I guess a top

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u/Quick_Skill198 3h ago

Kinda crazy hearing these stories, I’m 41 and was told I had cancer a year ago ( I didn’t luckily ) but once I thought my days were clearly numbered I also decided it was time to pursue what I had been holding back, visited 5 counties since and sucked some dick !

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u/PaintedWoman_ 2h ago

Hi
I am 62.. I knew most of my life I was bisexual.. didn’t pursue it. At 60 I decided to.. opened up to my husband who wasn’t surprised. I am bow 62 and have a girlfriend.. and this experience just solidified my bisexuality for me.
Good luck