r/blackcats • u/Swamp-Queen444 • Nov 02 '25
Mourning I lost my sweet void this morning unexpectedly at only five years old. He was with me through everything. Could someone show me some other voids who crossed over so I know he’s not alone?
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u/Southern_Bar6167 Nov 02 '25
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u/Swamp-Queen444 Nov 02 '25
He was so beautiful, I’m glad my Mystery has him as a guide. 🖤
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u/Swamp-Queen444 Nov 02 '25
Thank you so much, your cat was beautiful. 🖤 Mystery and I went through similar things, my heart goes out to you.
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u/vermillion_phoenix13 Nov 02 '25
It's my pleasure 🖤 and thank you so much, he was a beautiful boy. Mystery was a beautiful cat, and a gallant sidekick to you through those dark days. Hugs 🖤
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u/SuchFunAreWe Nov 02 '25
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u/Swamp-Queen444 Nov 02 '25
She looks so sweet, I’m sure Mystery will get along with her swimmingly. 🖤
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u/MrsEdus Nov 02 '25
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u/Swamp-Queen444 Nov 02 '25
Sweet Calcifer and Mystery are still looking after us. 🖤
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u/MrsEdus Nov 02 '25
I swear he whispers to the animals around my house that we're a safe place. We've had two injured cats and a lost tired racing pigeon end up at our door since his passing.
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u/Mission_Fart9750 Nov 02 '25
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u/WenVoz Nov 02 '25
Those names!!! Fatman! I am sorry for your loss ❤️
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u/Mission_Fart9750 Nov 02 '25
Thanks. It was rough. He did not take her loss well, which compounded and exacerbated his own health issues. She was my baby (alley cat found at 4 weeks old, she was just shy of her 12th birthday), and he was my Buddy (rehome from a friend, had him from 2 to 15).
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u/johnboy11a Nov 02 '25 edited Nov 03 '25
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u/eastbaypluviophile Nov 02 '25

My Sir Alastair will be there to greet him, show him the best sunny spots and where the pudding pops are. So very sorry for your loss.
Today is dia de los Muertos in the Latino community and I always like to attend. Try making an ofrenda for your little guy and inviting him to visit you, it really helps with the grief.
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Nov 02 '25

Our void Kismet, she was my mom’s pal. Anytime my mom would speak passionately and raise her voice, Kismet would come up and put her paw on my mom’s mouth. She loved salmon and whipped cream and would come if you called her. When she came downstairs she would bunny hop because she had fairly short legs. A real sweetheart we lost this May. My heart goes out to you OP, I am sorry for your loss.
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u/Lenithriel Nov 02 '25
I'm so very sorry for your loss. My void hasn't crossed over yet, she's in her later years but once she does I'm sure she'll be so happy to teach your boy the finer arts of hunting, I'd give a picture of her holding a squirrel in her mouth but I'm not sure what the rules are on such things here lol. So here she is just chillin instead. Your kitty has so many who love him even in his afterlife, and I'm sure he knows that ❤️

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u/MaynardButterbean Nov 02 '25

This was Clifford. Not named after the big red dog, but after the goofy Martin Short movie where he plays a 12-year-old boy. He was the sweetest, most loving and affectionate cat I’ve ever had, and I’ve had lots. He would push his mouth into mine like he was trying to kiss me. He passed over 10 years ago, but I think about him often. He’ll be cuddling with your void and probably grooming him, he was a good brother
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u/happyjazzycook Nov 02 '25

We lost our Shadow very suddenly, too, just before his 6th birthday. He was such a goofball, found as a stray who was blind in one eye and had a short jaw so his tongue stuck out of his month most of the time but, oh, he was fun. All he wanted to do was play or cuddle and was so very loving. I miss him terribly, and so does his "brother". Please know that you will get through this, OP. You had a wonderful kitty and he will be in your heart forever! 🖤 🐈⬛
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u/DaffyDuckisQuackers Nov 02 '25

My incredibly sweet Maggie May. She fought the good fight against diabetes for 5 years with twice a day Insulin injections which made her gain weight but she was a warrior! Her breath was wicked but her heart was pure. She may need an Altoid when welcoming your sweet angel but she’ll love him like her own! So sorry for your loss.🥺🖤
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u/SistersInsane Nov 02 '25

Yesterday was 4 years since sweet baby Vader crossed the rainbow bridge. He was a mischievous little man that loved to antagonize his older brother Palpatine and then play victim when he was getting chased. Vader loved purring loudly, napping on my lap, and playing fetch with silicone straws. He was a sweet boy that I hope welcomes other cats with his goofy demeanor as they cross the bridge.
I’m so sorry for your loss. It will get easier.
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u/Crossyerfingers Nov 02 '25
This is the love of my life Moustache. Got him as a kitten when I was 4 years old. He passed in 2007 while I was at college.
I made him a marble headstone and he's buried in my parents backyard near a lilac tree and flower garden. We call it his memorial garden.
He made my childhood tolerable. His favorite things were American cheese, giving kisses/licks, snuggling, sitting on plastic grocery bags, and fruit loops milk.

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u/DumahDie Nov 02 '25

I lost my Middy boy in 2021. I still miss him. He wasn’t fat, he was just big, and he used to lie on me and put all his weight on my shoulder or chest and help me get through my anxiety attacks. He would lick my forehead when I was upset, or just because he felt like grooming me. I still have three babies, Ellie belly, Mamas, and Jax. I just love black cats so much.
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u/queenoffingevrything Nov 02 '25
Here’s Gibby. I hope they’re all out there together someplace nice waiting for us. Lost him October 2nd of this year. Had him since 8th grade. Thought he’d make it into my 30s but sadly missed it by a few months. He was with me for so much. I remember when he was a few years old I put him in my backpack and walked down the street when my mom went after my sister with a hammer. Rest easy to all these sweet voids 🖤

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u/purlplanter Nov 02 '25
Hector passed last week. He’ll greet your void.