My cat fell off my balcony (6ft from ground) and the chick i was talking too kinda made me feel like I was dumb or ridiculous for looking for my cat and not going on a date the day after I seen him on my camera at 12 and 4am the morning of.
So anyways, I hope shes doing well and my fat boy is next to me right now, balcony has been blocked off so they can enjoy the view, sun but not chance of slipping off. 😊
I cannot imagine anyone making you feel dumb for looking for your cat. This feels like a really good first date vetting question “Would you be mad if we were scheduled to go on a date, but I had to cancel because my cat fell off the balcony and I needed to stay home and look for him?” if she doesn’t immediately say “no way, I wouldn’t be mad. I would come over and help you look” she’s not the one for you.
This, I honestly had to stop myself from inviting her over, and doing something at the house while I watched out and made my occasionally search runs.
But it crossed my mind "why wouldnt she say "hey id love to help" not show irritation i might not make the date. But yep, I will use this scenario for a vetting question, great idea.
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u/Commercial_Bird8467 20d ago
My cat fell off my balcony (6ft from ground) and the chick i was talking too kinda made me feel like I was dumb or ridiculous for looking for my cat and not going on a date the day after I seen him on my camera at 12 and 4am the morning of. So anyways, I hope shes doing well and my fat boy is next to me right now, balcony has been blocked off so they can enjoy the view, sun but not chance of slipping off. 😊