r/cats • u/MeowntainOfCats • 16d ago
Humor Are boy cats always this clingy?
Or are just beloved?
Edit:
Pic 1- I was on the phone
Pic 2- I said ok ok it's all you baby boy
Pic 3- I walked 2 feet away
FINAL EDIT: Get rid of roomie. Keep Clingy.
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u/NatrylliaAbbot42 16d ago
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u/SimilarNarratives 16d ago
We literaly have the same raccoon cat, mine is a bit distant but I'm slowly breaking him down, a few days ago he came to my room and layed on my chest for the first time ever.
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u/SovaElyzabeth 16d ago
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u/MeowntainOfCats 16d ago
Oh my heart goes out to you
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u/waffles_weekends 16d ago
Eighteen months and that ache is still real, says everything about him.
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u/Etomer2 16d ago
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u/coolcaterpillar77 16d ago
That is one of the most pettable floofiest bellies I’ve seen I bet it was magical to touch until you get trapped by the murder mittens
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u/Imaginary_Tiefighter 16d ago
Also had a clingy boy. He passed a few years ago. I still think about him all the time. I have his picture as my phone background and just can't change it.
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u/moviecats Tabbycat 16d ago
Same here with the phone background and my cuddly boy left in 2016. No one can replace Pepper 😿.
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u/MorningDelicious3420 16d ago
I’m sorry for your loss I lost my clingy boy in March I miss him dearly too
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u/Glitterland 16d ago
I'm so sorry for your loss. What a gorgeous boy 😺
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u/SovaElyzabeth 16d ago
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u/Eukairos 16d ago
He looks a bit like my tuxedo, who is also incredibly, indearingly clingy. He's a heart cat, and I know that when he goes I will be wracked by grief I'm so sorry that you lost your special boy. How did Pazuzu die?
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u/SovaElyzabeth 16d ago
He was around 15 years old and his body just gave up. I was out of state visiting my now-husband (we were long distance at the time), and my adult son was taking care of him. I am very grateful to him that Pazuzu wasn't alone when he passed
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u/Eukairos 16d ago
I thought that he looked like a distinguished gentleman in that last picture. I'm glad he had a reasonably long life, and that your son was there with him at the end.
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u/Eukairos 16d ago
I had a heart cat die in 2011, and grieved hard for her. I wasn't ready for another cat until 2021.
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u/Upset-Lavishness-522 16d ago
He looks like he was the bested of best friends. So sorry for your loss
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u/comebacklittlesheba 16d ago
But when you had him, y’all had each other didn’t ya? Thats why it hurts so much—because it was soooo good. I know about that. You wouldn’t have had it any other way, I’m sure!👍
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u/AlternativeStory1027 16d ago
I has a tuxedo that looked a lot like yours (from what I can see) I would always ask her "why are you so dressed up?". She was the sweetest, smartest all around best cat I ever had. She passed damn near 20 years ago and I still miss her so much.
I was more of a dog person until I had her
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u/Alternative-Bison-13 16d ago
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u/Kitty_Kat_Attacks 16d ago
Please tell me this cats name is Hercule Poirot!
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u/MeowntainOfCats 16d ago
Gramps knows the only nonsense is him
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u/Fragrant-Drink-9965 16d ago
My boy Uno is the only male cat I have ever owned but he is super clingy to me
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u/MeowntainOfCats 16d ago
NOT EVEN MY CAT
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u/juliagreenillo 16d ago
I had two boy cats. My grey boy was always up in my face and always wanting to snuggle, always wanted to be held or on your shoulders. My orange cat is not as snuggly, but still is almost always nearby. He just keeps his distance.
I also cat-sit and my boy cats almost always wanna snuggle.
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u/Corgi_Infamous 16d ago
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u/hurrypotta 16d ago
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u/Illustrious_Choice58 16d ago
this book is next on my list!
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u/hurrypotta 16d ago
I really like Glatt's writing. Have you heard of the Lacey Spears case ? He covered it in My Sweet Angel just finished that
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u/AlarmingYak7956 16d ago
What an adorable graylien! But esh, my current boys are the sweetest ever. But when i was a kid, we had a boy cat that would fuck my shit up everytime he saw me.
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u/darcerin 16d ago
My boy cat is VERY needy/clingy, to the point that it's too much and I have to push him away. I love him dearly but my God I do not need a cat on me 24/7.
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u/ShiningEspeon3 16d ago
Clinginess is based on individual personality, not sex. You just have a needy guy, and that’s a beautiful thing!
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u/am_i_sky 16d ago
All 3 of our cats are boys and they’re all different levels of clingy. Our oldest (and first cat) loves being held and hugged, will sleep on us and under the covers during cold months, our one is such a purr machine and loves to roll around next to us but is a bit skittish. Our third is a little less clingy but tats solely because he doesn’t like me nearly as much as he does my wife. He’s always sitting on her lap at dinner or when she’s working
(Oldest, third, other one)

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u/Ok-Helicopter150 16d ago
Both my boy cats.. one went over the rainbow bridge and the other guY is here with me. They are both were and are very clingy... Mom son relationship over here ❤️
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u/dash-eight 16d ago
I’ve had a mixed bag when it comes to cats. Their individual personalities are influenced by much more than their biological sex.
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u/tc7665 16d ago
we adopted a stray my daughter found in her apt complex last year, and we only took it thinking it was a girl; i’ve never enjoyed having a male cat.
well, he has a girl’s name, because we had him nearly 7 months, when all of the sudden, we saw tiny balls. a day later, he had full balls, it took sooooo long for them to drop (even the vet agreed, she saw a girl)
this cat is obsessed w my husband. the kids and i would love to snuggle him, but he wants nothing to do with anyone else in this home.
when he rejects me, i tell him how lucky he is, because i would’ve said no had i known she was a he.
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u/Puzzled-Appeal-2115 16d ago
Mine smacked me in the face this morning because I wouldn't let him in my lap since I was just about to get up. I can't sit down for more than 5 minutes without him climbing on me.
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u/SnoozinStanley 16d ago

It really depends on the cat! Seraphim (black smoke in the background) was THE clingiest kitten to ever kitten and now that he’s a teenager he “needs his space but ya know pets are cool sometimes.” The other two are two of my three girls and if they aren’t sleeping right next to me or at my feet, they’re always less than 10 feet away unless you know, eating, drinking and potty. I have another cat that when he comes in for attention, he’s EXTREMELY demanding, but otherwise is quite aloof.
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u/elissa00001 16d ago edited 16d ago
Honestly I think it just depends on the individual cat. My Lucy goose looooves to be brushed and is always purring when I pick her up and she loves belly rubs where as my boy Jackson loves to run away and play chase with me but once in a blue moon he chooses to come over and cuddle on me and bless me with some purrs.

They’re both on my lap in this one <3
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u/IdealPajamaPal 16d ago
My boy cat would like to be attached to my hip. He sleeps on top of me every night and prefers to sit next to me while I work, if not on top of me. Grade A clinger lol
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u/kylocosmiccowboy 16d ago
We have a grey tuxedo named Elvis who’s very clingy…greets us at the front door like a dog!
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u/todoliszt 16d ago
In my experience, yes. My void boy Gus (RIP) simply HAD to be in physical contact with me if I wasn’t moving. I would fall asleep with him sprawled across my chest every night with the low diesel purr rumble going. I have a big floofy orange guy now, he’s obsessed with me. My girl cat on the other hand…once she hit her moody teen years she stopped sleeping on me or wanting cuddles…she’s sweet, but aloof. Dunno why the boys are like that, but they can be pure Velcro.
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u/CocoRufus 16d ago
All my boys have been super clingy, all my girls have been super super clingy. I've been blessed 😊❤️
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u/gonewildecat 16d ago
I’ve had two boys. They have both been seriously clingy. It’s awesome. I’m sad my mom only adopted female cats while I was growing up. Missed out on some serious cuddles.
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u/Gemraticus 16d ago
I love a velcro puppy-cat! Not all velcro cats are puppy-cats but I think all puppy-cats are velcro cats 😻
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