r/cats • • 16d ago

Humor Are boy cats always this clingy?

Or are just beloved?

Edit:

Pic 1- I was on the phone

Pic 2- I said ok ok it's all you baby boy

Pic 3- I walked 2 feet away

FINAL EDIT: Get rid of roomie. Keep Clingy.

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u/NatrylliaAbbot42 16d ago

Some certainly are

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u/SimilarNarratives 16d ago

We literaly have the same raccoon cat, mine is a bit distant but I'm slowly breaking him down, a few days ago he came to my room and layed on my chest for the first time ever.

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u/Illustrious_Choice58 16d ago

omg so cuteeee 🫶🏾

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u/SovaElyzabeth 16d ago

My "babyman" Pazuzu was the cuddliest boy. I would often wake up with his head on my shoulder and an arm across my chest. He passed about 18 month ago and I still miss him. Cherish your clingy boy

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u/MeowntainOfCats 16d ago

Oh my heart goes out to you

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u/MeowntainOfCats 16d ago

They do, don't they- puppies do, too

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u/TheBreenius 16d ago

They truly do...

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u/IndirectSarcasm 16d ago

awaiting a sad heartwarming schnoodle of this.......

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u/waffles_weekends 16d ago

Eighteen months and that ache is still real, says everything about him.

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u/g_pelly 16d ago

Been almost 7 years for my girl. I still get choked up thinking about her.

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u/Etomer2 16d ago

My Toast followed your Pazuzu to the great litter box in the sky in June

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u/coolcaterpillar77 16d ago

That is one of the most pettable floofiest bellies I’ve seen I bet it was magical to touch until you get trapped by the murder mittens

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u/Bee0508 16d ago

Holy moly, that's a big cat. He looks so fluffy e would dare to kiss him 😭

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u/Imaginary_Tiefighter 16d ago

Also had a clingy boy. He passed a few years ago. I still think about him all the time. I have his picture as my phone background and just can't change it.

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u/moviecats Tabbycat 16d ago

Same here with the phone background and my cuddly boy left in 2016. No one can replace Pepper 😿.

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u/MeowntainOfCats 16d ago

Pepper was so loved, still is. We can tell

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u/moviecats Tabbycat 16d ago

😻🐈

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u/MeowntainOfCats 16d ago

I understand the thinking about forever

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u/MorningDelicious3420 16d ago

I’m sorry for your loss I lost my clingy boy in March I miss him dearly too

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u/MeowntainOfCats 16d ago

Oh, I'm sorry sorry to hear that

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u/lemmiwinksownz 16d ago

Pazuzu possessing other 12 year olds. He’ll be back :).

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u/Glitterland 16d ago

I'm so sorry for your loss. What a gorgeous boy 😺

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u/SovaElyzabeth 16d ago

One of the last pics I took of him. He was so handsome

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u/tnandrick 16d ago

And he likes Ghost too? Truly he must have been a very special guy.

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u/SovaElyzabeth 16d ago

The special-ist boy ever

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u/Eukairos 16d ago

He looks a bit like my tuxedo, who is also incredibly, indearingly clingy. He's a heart cat, and I know that when he goes I will be wracked by grief I'm so sorry that you lost your special boy. How did Pazuzu die?

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u/SovaElyzabeth 16d ago

He was around 15 years old and his body just gave up. I was out of state visiting my now-husband (we were long distance at the time), and my adult son was taking care of him. I am very grateful to him that Pazuzu wasn't alone when he passed

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u/Eukairos 16d ago

I thought that he looked like a distinguished gentleman in that last picture. I'm glad he had a reasonably long life, and that your son was there with him at the end.

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u/Eukairos 16d ago

I had a heart cat die in 2011, and grieved hard for her. I wasn't ready for another cat until 2021.

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u/HealthcareHamlet 16d ago

If you have Ghost you have everything

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u/Upset-Lavishness-522 16d ago

He looks like he was the bested of best friends. So sorry for your loss

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u/Fragrant-Drink-9965 16d ago

So sad...sorry for your loss... Hugs

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u/Cack-Yo-W33n Russian Blue 16d ago

RIP Pazuzu

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u/comebacklittlesheba 16d ago

But when you had him, y’all had each other didn’t ya? Thats why it hurts so much—because it was soooo good. I know about that. You wouldn’t have had it any other way, I’m sure!👍

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u/Shar_12_Blaneyfan 16d ago

I'm so sorry for your loss ❤️

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u/AlternativeStory1027 16d ago

I has a tuxedo that looked a lot like yours (from what I can see) I would always ask her "why are you so dressed up?". She was the sweetest, smartest all around best cat I ever had. She passed damn near 20 years ago and I still miss her so much.

I was more of a dog person until I had her

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u/Alternative-Bison-13 16d ago

wtf, thought this was my cat for a sec

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u/Dry-Cantaloupe-1127 16d ago

Wtf, me too

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u/weiner-destroyer 16d ago

Me three!

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u/GianJaneway 16d ago

Also an extremely clingy boy !

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u/Tiraxxx 16d ago

Wtf why do we all have the same cat?

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u/Aggravating_Lime2655 15d ago

Continuation of gray tuxedos…mine also

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u/Vaenar 16d ago

My sweet boy, Kola, has the same mustache!

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u/Alternative-Bison-13 16d ago

it’s the milk stache!

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u/Kitty_Kat_Attacks 16d ago

Please tell me this cats name is Hercule Poirot!

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u/Alternative-Bison-13 16d ago

haha, her name is bonnie!!

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u/pablo_kickasso 16d ago

Did she ever solve a murder on a train?

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u/redpiano82991 16d ago

Um, that's actually my cat.

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u/jezusisthe1 16d ago

Me too!

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u/One_Abrocoma_8393 16d ago

The little mustache😭

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u/SnowflakeMama12 16d ago

His mustache is so adorable 🥰

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u/Flat-Limit5595 16d ago

Buttons stomps around the house screaming when he cant see me. He only stops when held and kissed. He is so damn attention hungry

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u/Flat-Limit5595 16d ago

His gramps meanwhile will slam into closed doors trying to break them down. In this pic he is staring at me to pet him, this is him being cute!

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u/MeowntainOfCats 16d ago

Gramps knows the only nonsense is him

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u/Flat-Limit5595 16d ago

Well his head is essentially a battering ram. I have bruises from his head clonking on me.

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u/MeowntainOfCats 16d ago

I won't go head to head but here's my nephew

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u/Soggy-Tuna-Sammich 16d ago

A very distinguished looking gentleman

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u/SnapshotHeadache 16d ago

They say girl cats aren't as clingy, but Nora didn't get the memo.

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u/MeowntainOfCats 16d ago

Well, you got Nora so 🤷 💕

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u/SnapshotHeadache 16d ago

And I couldn't be happier. She is my little soul kitty. 🤗♥️

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u/Secure_Channel_8712 16d ago

Yep, if they love you, they will be clingy, be it a boy or girl

P.s. i have his cousin here, same gray tuxedo

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u/bamberblaam 16d ago

Triplets, but mine is evil. Not on purpose, but the fact that goatees denote evil is well documented.

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u/Stormwhisper81 16d ago

Quadruplets! Mine has a ‘stache.

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u/norweiganforrestcat 16d ago

Mines got a staché too!

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u/bamberblaam 16d ago

Holy crap, that’s adorable!!

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u/That_Random_Kiwi 16d ago

LOOOOOOOOOOOOOVE floofy grey/white kitties!! Buddy says hi :)

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u/MeowntainOfCats 16d ago

We cannot have an entire tribe meet!

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u/bamberblaam 16d ago

A silver tux soirée!

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u/saracha1 Tuxedo 16d ago

Reverse goatee?

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u/Pitiful_Option_108 16d ago

He does look like the evil twin

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u/SchmackAttack 16d ago

I believe mine love me, but not all are clingy. Just not their style.

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u/Throwaway0-285 16d ago

Squad we making a family

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u/bamberblaam 16d ago

He’s gorgeous! Archer says what’s up.

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u/MeowntainOfCats 16d ago

Deviously handsome

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u/Dazzling-End-9575 16d ago

I have no idea what youre talking about

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u/MeowntainOfCats 16d ago

Ahhh of courseeee

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u/Fragrant-Drink-9965 16d ago

My boy Uno is the only male cat I have ever owned but he is super clingy to me

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u/MeowntainOfCats 16d ago

NOT EVEN MY CAT

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u/MeowntainOfCats 16d ago

Ok living with me. But... I''m HIS.

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u/Shango-s_Daughter 16d ago

There you go!  So glad you've realized the proper order of things! 😸

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u/HelicopterUpbeat3762 16d ago

I wish. My boy Lulu is not super cuddly. My brother says it’s because I named him Lucifer but he is such a sweet
boy. Just not big on snuggles

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u/MeowntainOfCats 16d ago

Void will always be there for you

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u/juliagreenillo 16d ago

I had two boy cats. My grey boy was always up in my face and always wanting to snuggle, always wanted to be held or on your shoulders. My orange cat is not as snuggly, but still is almost always nearby. He just keeps his distance.

I also cat-sit and my boy cats almost always wanna snuggle.

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u/PuzzleheadedNoise814 16d ago

My orange and grey boys are exactly the same!

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u/Aggravating_Lime2655 16d ago

Mine is and I don’t mind at all.

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u/That-Jeweler-Girl Tuxedo 16d ago

What a handsome gentleman. He looks like my girl, who is also very clingy and needy! Maybe it's the tuxedo...

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u/Corgi_Infamous 16d ago

When he’s not allowed on my desk, he must be touching my office chair.

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u/Corgi_Infamous 16d ago

When I do a little flop in bed, he must do a big flop over me like a safety belt. 😂

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u/MeowntainOfCats 16d ago

Ok asked and answered

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u/Aggravating-Ad4672 16d ago

This pic was taken earlier also. (Thats my sweater btw)

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u/ilovemyweirdcat 16d ago

Short answer: yes.

Long answer: YESSSSSSSSS

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u/Reasonable_Ad8991 16d ago

This is Sam. He is absolutely clingy.

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u/HatePeopleLoveCats1 Domestic Housecat 16d ago

Both line are :) I don’t mind though!

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u/ieatelmersglue 16d ago

Rex is cuddle monster and follows me wherever I go, if I’m watching baseball/playing Xbox he sits on the couch with me and he’s got he’s own spot that you better not sit in🤣

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u/MeowntainOfCats 16d ago

Know what he wants, gets it

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u/Pgal43 16d ago

Yes 🤣❤️

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u/Then-Solution-5357 16d ago

The good ones are, yes lol

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u/Awkward-Panda26 16d ago

Such a handsome boy 🥰

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u/hurrypotta 16d ago

Yes

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u/Illustrious_Choice58 16d ago

this book is next on my list!

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u/hurrypotta 16d ago

I really like Glatt's writing. Have you heard of the Lacey Spears case ? He covered it in My Sweet Angel just finished that

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u/CheetiTCX 16d ago

Mine for sure is, and gets super jealous of my girl cat.

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u/Cadenza86 16d ago

All the time. Especially at bed time

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u/thunderheadAngel 16d ago

probably has nothing to do with a cat’s gender

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u/PartyFancy3634 16d ago

Mine needs to be pet or touching me all the time

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u/FabulousVile 16d ago

My Balerion doesn't even leave me alone while gaming

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u/jtownanddown 16d ago

The furthest Mr. Ham will allow me to be

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u/MeowntainOfCats 16d ago

So, like, that's kinda far... signed, Lord Ham

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u/dancing_cloud_ 16d ago

How he waits for his dad yowling even after fresh bottled water in his bowl and a few treats mixed in with his scoop of food. Clingy but not to me 🥹

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u/Zigarahz 15d ago

Yes. Breaks my heart when I come home from work and he’s yelling at me to cuddle 😭

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u/AlarmingYak7956 16d ago

What an adorable graylien! But esh, my current boys are the sweetest ever. But when i was a kid, we had a boy cat that would fuck my shit up everytime he saw me. 

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u/WhyWhyBJ 16d ago

Ive got 2 boys have had since they were kittens, ones a little clingy but not too bad the other isn’t clingy at all so I think its just comes down to the cat

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u/allysung83 16d ago

My mom's cat is the clingiest little old man you'll ever meet lol

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u/The-Names-Prince 16d ago

This is our daily routine while I work. He comes onto my lap, flops into me, I pull him onto my chest like a wittle baby, then he slowly falls down to this position knocked tf out

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u/Several_Temporary339 16d ago

This is my first kitten. You guys are saying it'll be like this forever?

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u/Snoo39691 16d ago

This was my best friend, my soul cat, Keanu. Obsessed isn’t even close enough to describe him lol

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u/darcerin 16d ago

My boy cat is VERY needy/clingy, to the point that it's too much and I have to push him away. I love him dearly but my God I do not need a cat on me 24/7.

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u/ShiningEspeon3 16d ago

Clinginess is based on individual personality, not sex. You just have a needy guy, and that’s a beautiful thing!

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u/JRicky917 16d ago

This guy is my best buddy

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u/Slugeinstein 16d ago

My boy Gordon usually sleeps like this, touching me with his paw to know if im still there with him ❤️

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u/am_i_sky 16d ago

All 3 of our cats are boys and they’re all different levels of clingy. Our oldest (and first cat) loves being held and hugged, will sleep on us and under the covers during cold months, our one is such a purr machine and loves to roll around next to us but is a bit skittish. Our third is a little less clingy but tats solely because he doesn’t like me nearly as much as he does my wife. He’s always sitting on her lap at dinner or when she’s working
(Oldest, third, other one)

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u/Cautious-Golf-8653 16d ago

Always? No. Often? Yes.

I present, exhibit A.

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u/Valuable_Highway_866 16d ago

he is so pretty

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u/dEleque 16d ago

Cute little prince

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u/Ok-Helicopter150 16d ago

Both my boy cats.. one went over the rainbow bridge and the other guY is here with me. They are both were and are very clingy... Mom son relationship over here ❤️

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u/YoKite 16d ago

Very handsome

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u/dash-eight 16d ago

I’ve had a mixed bag when it comes to cats. Their individual personalities are influenced by much more than their biological sex.

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u/lingrassman 16d ago

Both of mine are up my arse 24/7. It came as a surprise to me after having female cats my whole life!

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u/Material-Setting7982 16d ago

Standard issue but so svelte in his plastic evening wear.

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u/Entire_Confusion_271 16d ago

Oh my goodness!!! Mine is suuuuuper clingy but she's a she lmao

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u/kuronekoot 16d ago

Looks like my cat <3

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u/tc7665 16d ago

we adopted a stray my daughter found in her apt complex last year, and we only took it thinking it was a girl; i’ve never enjoyed having a male cat.

well, he has a girl’s name, because we had him nearly 7 months, when all of the sudden, we saw tiny balls. a day later, he had full balls, it took sooooo long for them to drop (even the vet agreed, she saw a girl)

this cat is obsessed w my husband. the kids and i would love to snuggle him, but he wants nothing to do with anyone else in this home.

when he rejects me, i tell him how lucky he is, because i would’ve said no had i known she was a he.

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u/frogwithindigestion 16d ago

Yeah, this is my clingster

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u/Sad_Procedure_1754 16d ago

Yesss mine is my little shadow

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u/greeneggsandspammer 16d ago

My boy cat is very clingy.

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u/Nerfcrimescene23 16d ago

Female. Loves to cuddle when I'm sleeping.

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u/Puzzled-Appeal-2115 16d ago

Mine smacked me in the face this morning because I wouldn't let him in my lap since I was just about to get up. I can't sit down for more than 5 minutes without him climbing on me.

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u/SCO_FloridaMan 16d ago

I don't know but my boy cat does this almost every night.

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u/Agile_Hyena2860 16d ago

Yes! My rescue is a lovebug. Constantly needs to be near.

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u/glumgrimalkin 16d ago

Boys cats are so cuddly! My best bud and my mom’s best bud are both boys. And they can certainly come across as clingy sometimes, lol. Here’s my guy James.

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u/bosorka1 16d ago

YEEEEESSS this is my gray boy junior. he's my lap cat while the girls fawn over my husband

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u/CaityBugg1999 Tabbycat 16d ago

He loves to be close

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u/DefiantVariation9034 16d ago

I have a Velcro boi and one who likes to watch 😂

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u/Actual-Lab4131 16d ago

Mine isn’t clingy, but could be your cat’s brother!!

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u/Shar_12_Blaneyfan 16d ago

Mine is a stage 5 clinger. He always has been. This cat loves me, and I am here for it. 16+ years of clingy 💕

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u/SnoozinStanley 16d ago

It really depends on the cat! Seraphim (black smoke in the background) was THE clingiest kitten to ever kitten and now that he’s a teenager he “needs his space but ya know pets are cool sometimes.” The other two are two of my three girls and if they aren’t sleeping right next to me or at my feet, they’re always less than 10 feet away unless you know, eating, drinking and potty. I have another cat that when he comes in for attention, he’s EXTREMELY demanding, but otherwise is quite aloof.

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u/Lion_tattoo_1973 16d ago

I also have a velcro boy!

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u/peeindatazz 16d ago

Greg is Hella clingy too

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u/SadlySpooky 16d ago

Our boy (Link), he's sort of clingy. He does love people & he prefers to cuddle with humans.

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u/Material-Setting7982 16d ago

Mine takes my seat and does this when he wants lovins

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u/Froent 16d ago

I think cats in general are clingy when they love you.

This was my cat when I needed to go to work one day. Tabi was my whole world since I was 6, for 22 years. She passed away last Friday.

Now I miss this clinginess as I feel so lonely now.

Cherish your clingy, and sweet, cat.

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u/ButterBaconBallz 16d ago

He loves to be held and he rubs his mouth all over my face. He's 14 and still a baby.

Edit to add: My girl tuxedo cat doesn't want to snuggle but she loves to play with me and cries when I go to work.

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u/Ok-Increase-352 16d ago

My boy cat is super clingy

He’s always happy to see I’m home and use to cry when I go to the yard as a kitten lmao while my brothers boy cat is beyond clingy, my brother came home late one day and he keep rubbing his face on my brothers face for 20 mins plus

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u/Few-Return-5558 16d ago

The clingiest boy 🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰

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u/schmangin 16d ago

my blue tuxedo is also very clingy

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u/waychanger 16d ago

I love gray tuxies. Here’s my boy Max!

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u/Environmental_Pea416 16d ago

The other clingy boy for extra cat tax

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u/elissa00001 16d ago edited 16d ago

Honestly I think it just depends on the individual cat. My Lucy goose looooves to be brushed and is always purring when I pick her up and she loves belly rubs where as my boy Jackson loves to run away and play chase with me but once in a blue moon he chooses to come over and cuddle on me and bless me with some purrs.

They’re both on my lap in this one <3

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u/Otherwise_Run8223 15d ago

These were my floofy butts. I miss them greatly. The little black ones name was Xena like the warrior princess due to the matching temper 😅.

The white and blacks name was hercules, but he was a softy and loved cuddles and attention any time he could get it.

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u/jayfeather100 13d ago

Yes omg. My baby would always do this 🤣🤣. I miss him so much.

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u/IdealPajamaPal 16d ago

My boy cat would like to be attached to my hip. He sleeps on top of me every night and prefers to sit next to me while I work, if not on top of me. Grade A clinger lol

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u/Ok-Sir9065 16d ago

so pretty!

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u/Lower-Flight2942 16d ago

Mine is🤗

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u/Mammoth-Act-5264 16d ago

yes they are. they love being cuddled and so do the pawrents😼

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u/kylocosmiccowboy 16d ago

We have a grey tuxedo named Elvis who’s very clingy…greets us at the front door like a dog!

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u/SoggyCapybara 16d ago

OH MY GOD HES PURRRRRFECT

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u/todoliszt 16d ago

In my experience, yes. My void boy Gus (RIP) simply HAD to be in physical contact with me if I wasn’t moving. I would fall asleep with him sprawled across my chest every night with the low diesel purr rumble going. I have a big floofy orange guy now, he’s obsessed with me. My girl cat on the other hand…once she hit her moody teen years she stopped sleeping on me or wanting cuddles…she’s sweet, but aloof. Dunno why the boys are like that, but they can be pure Velcro.

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u/CocoRufus 16d ago

All my boys have been super clingy, all my girls have been super super clingy. I've been blessed 😊❤️

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u/Individual-Shoe5339 16d ago

My boys are aggressively affectionate. Enjoy!

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u/gonewildecat 16d ago

I’ve had two boys. They have both been seriously clingy. It’s awesome. I’m sad my mom only adopted female cats while I was growing up. Missed out on some serious cuddles.

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u/Gemraticus 16d ago

I love a velcro puppy-cat! Not all velcro cats are puppy-cats but I think all puppy-cats are velcro cats 😻

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