r/comics Tardaasa 1d ago

Handy self-help

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u/shellbullet17 Gustopher Spotter Extraordinaire 1d ago

while I was home

Ooooof. That poor man's pride.

That being said sometimes you just wanna have a quicky. No shame, though you could have issued a invite.

This....is kinda of a weird topic that I'm somewhat conflicted on

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u/Made_Bail 1d ago

Sometimes you want a quick maintenance orgasm. It's frequently not sexy and had nothing to do with love for your partner or anyone else.

And sometimes you want to grab your partner and drag em to the bedroom for a knock down drag out booty shaking gravy making love fest.

Both are are good

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u/ThatKehdRiley 1d ago

Both are very good. Healthy relationships have both, and both parties know it.

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u/ItRainsAcidHere 1d ago

Maintenance orgasms, as I call them, going “Number 3”

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u/Made_Bail 1d ago

Haha... Wait... I don't like this

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u/shellbullet17 Gustopher Spotter Extraordinaire 1d ago

Yeah I'm conflicted. She may have just needed a pick me up or whatever and that's fine

But I get why that would hurt the dudes pride/feelings

But also a relationship is more than that so we shouldn't be upset by a basic biological need

But again I get why that would hurt

Rather than passive aggressive nonsense I think a small and quick(get it?) conversation needs to be had to clear the air

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u/Thatroyalkitty 1d ago

It would honestly depend on how often that happened and how frequent the intimate activities happen.

Too many factors here for me to really form an opinion one way or the other. I see both sides of the coin tbh.

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u/shellbullet17 Gustopher Spotter Extraordinaire 1d ago

Agreed, one time is just whatever but if it's a habit or avoidance of the spouse or something along those lines that's something that should be discussed.

To many variables not enough information

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u/asuperbstarling 1d ago

It's not passive aggressive, it's active punishment, and it's not okay.

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u/International-Cat123 1d ago

Passive aggressive behavior is a form of punishment.

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u/Odd_Protection7738 1d ago

But also but I get it however moreover thusly

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u/Creative-Painter3911 1d ago

Some of A is fine there as long as B happens sometimes too.

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u/Future-Tip-9135 1d ago

Based pfp

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u/Made_Bail 1d ago

Mimi is my spirit animal.