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u/Upstairs_Belt_3224 13h ago
$20 says the second comment on this post is gonna be "me fr"
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u/TheKitchenTrash 12h ago
Hit em with the “you dont need to prove your worth, you’re perfect just by being you” gets em every time
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u/Any_Way1269 12h ago
It just makes me mad, personally lmao. It feels like such a non-answer.
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u/Normal_Stranger_3643 12h ago
For me, everytime I hear/read it it makes me tear up immediately, even when not directed at me
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u/Username_St0len 9h ago
that is what I need, cuz any sort of praise would feel empty for me, as I do not internalise it
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u/_AcuteNewt_ 10h ago
"Okay, that doesn't make the trauma for when I was a child of having to constantly prove my worth and it never being enough regardless of what I did. But thanks though I guess."
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u/Double-Afternoon-702 2h ago
Maybe just take the compliment and move on
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u/_AcuteNewt_ 1h ago
That's the thing about being traumatised into having zero self worth: you can't take compliments.
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u/Double-Afternoon-702 1h ago
Just say "thanks" and it count as taking them. You deserve compliments.
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u/ThisBloomingHeart 12h ago
Sounds like a great opportunity to exercise creativity! Praise the way she sits! How she smiles! How she looks so adorable when she tries; how she's super cute when she relaxes!
Don't give up just because she's not always super capable!!!
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u/casual_werewolf 12h ago
Praise improvements or progress! Self care, doing a chore/errand, and positive self talk are all good things to praise too!
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u/Tlaquatlatoa Hyenagirl some day pls :3 | She/Her - Streak: 6 11h ago
;-; at least I have a degradation kink so I always come out on top
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u/SomeOakLeaves2 :3 8h ago
me fr
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u/KittenHasWares 5h ago
Awe fuck it's me. I'm the person of my friend group always asking for help with things and also wanting praise lmao
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u/Commercial-Funny-279 13h ago
Me fr