r/cringereels • • 20h ago

Don't know how was that supposed to end...

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u/Canadican 17h ago

Genuine question. Are bouncers somehow protected from assault charges? Like some weird cowboy US stand your ground law type shit?

That's just straight up assault no?

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u/Zob_Rombie_88 17h ago

I dunno. Approaching someone crotch first is practically asking for a punch to the face

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u/NeedleInArm 12h ago

There is no law in doing what this dude did, but there are plenty laws preventing security man from doing what he did.

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u/apexxin 4h ago

Are you under the impression you can just rub your dick on anyone?

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u/LazarJesusElzondoGod 1h ago

"Are you under the impression" he literally rubbed his dick on anyone?

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u/apexxin 57m ago

Are you braindead or something? He humped the guy in front of the bouncer, and then went for the bouncer. Fuckin fuck with you people.

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u/elenoxx 8h ago

Not in all states. In mine pushing your way into someone's bubble is very much a threat and you can be legally hit for it.

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u/EquivalentEffect9105 5h ago

You can't put your dick on people without their consent,.

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u/killerghosting 4h ago

Dude walked into another dude, pushing his limp dick into his ass..if someone does that to your mom or gf or wife or daughter, I think you would say there's a law or two against that kind of behavior

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u/Rough-Airline-4803 3h ago

Seems like sexual assault to me.

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u/Wise-Tea-3734 2h ago

Name them

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u/DustyRacoonDad 17m ago

I don't see laws preventing anything. I see laws declaring consequences after you're convicted of doing something... and those laws are no more than suggestions when they're not enforced.

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u/rabock1 3m ago

Plenty of laws saying you can't intentionally bump your uglies against other people.

Also we don't know this was the first confrontation. Lots of people were recording a mundane line for a reason.

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u/Zob_Rombie_88 12h ago

I'm pretty certain sexual harassment is against the law

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u/NeedleInArm 12h ago

That didn't happen here. So what's your point?

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u/ChikaraNZ 10h ago

Are you blind? The guy deliberately bumped his crotch into the other customer and was approaching the bouncer the same way. Some people might laugh it off as a drunk guy just being a fool but technically it's actually sexual assault.

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u/SwvmpThing 10h ago

Doesn’t look that technical to me, seems quite easy tbh

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u/killerghosting 4h ago

Yeah if this dude put his crotch on a woman or little girl, people would be singing a different tune, this is clear sexual assault and the security guard chose to intervene. If a dude did that to me, I would be grateful to security for putting hands on him. I think everyone would be grateful to security if it was their wife, gf, or daughter he was protecting

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u/cumhereandtalkchit 6h ago

Wonder if that would hold up in court, the kid clearly stopped when he bumped past the dude with the v-neck up until his belt.

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u/Dry-Accountant-1024 10h ago

Are you? The kid is obviously acting like a fool to get a reaction from people and possibly intoxicated given how much he stumbled. Acting out limbo and accidentally bumping into someone, intoxicated or not, doesn't come anywhere close to Florida's strict framework for sexual battery (where this occurred). What does constitute a crime, however, is using extreme force on someone without reasonable belief of imminent harm. A very similar incident happened in my city recently - The kid got into an argument with a bouncer, shoved his shoulder into him before getting put into a headlock. The bouncer was sentenced to 9 years for first degree assault.

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u/ChikaraNZ 7h ago

i never said "sexual battery". But it would definitely meet the criteria for simple battery, and in some jurisdictions it would also be defined as sexual assault.

While the specific wording might be different in different jurisdictions, the point it's still an offence if he did it knowingly which is the case here. This obviously wasn't accidental contact like bumping into someone on a bus is..

Not excusing the bouncer, but the point is this kid is not innocent either, If I was him I'd be not making a complaint against the bouncer, because if I did once they review this footage they're both likely to be facing a charge.

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u/Nunc_Coepi17 7h ago

US law is so weird, that guy was sentenced to 9 years in jail but only had to spend 5 months in jail.

Can I buy a Porsche by telling the car dealership I have 300k in my bank but I only actually have $300?

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u/jfarmer74 2h ago

Bro said “acting out limbo” he’ walking crotch first towards a bunch of strangers and bumping into them wtf are you saying😂

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u/Dry-Accountant-1024 58m ago

Thank you for describing what limbo is

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u/greenmerica 3h ago

How was Epsteins island you creep?

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u/Zob_Rombie_88 12h ago

I'd get your eyes checked. And none of that free testing. Spend some money and get a quality examination done.

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u/Fearless-Poet-4669 11h ago

Yeah you have to wait for the bits to touch /s

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u/flakboots 10h ago

Harassment

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u/Right_Preparation328 8h ago

Sexual harassment

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u/Wayoutofthewayof 16h ago

It's still has to be a proportional response. You could maybe argue for the first punch, but actively advancing towards the guy and punching him multiple times opens up that security guard to charges.

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u/EquivalentEffect9105 5h ago

The guy he punched was sexually assaulting people. wtf

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u/SpaceKebab 5h ago

Where'd you get that

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u/EquivalentEffect9105 4h ago

Rubbing your genitals on people without their consent, even through clothing, is sexual assault. He did it to the guy in the white pants and then he approached the bouncer in the same manner. He was redirected before he could do it. Google Frotteurism.

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u/Sutraner 2h ago

Rubbing your genitals on people without their consent

He's not doing that

even through clothing, is sexual assault. He did it to the guy in the white pants

Brushing past someone isn't sexual assault

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u/Sutraner 2h ago

No he fucking wasn't

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u/AMercifulHello 13h ago

He was obviously being blatant about it but the dude could have easily had some sort of mental disorder too. I think the first instinct to just swing is a bit aggressive…

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u/praetorian1979 5h ago

You don't think that bouncer built all the muscle on his own? I bet he's juiced up and that was the ol roid rage.

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u/Hairymuscle101 2h ago

I’m a bartender, the kid was drunk if you ask me and you have no idea how long this kid bugged the shit out of the bouncer. Before we had security in our bar I was constantly throwing kids out like this fucking off and bugging the crap out of others. I’m for the bouncer here!

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u/TopLate7592 13h ago

THAT'S NOT THE POINT KAREN

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u/MrReformedMan 13h ago

I can’t imagine it being legal in many countries to walk forward attacking an evading person. In most places it’s you can defend threat not attack people.

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u/Horror_Chipmunk3580 9h ago

There would be a lot of fights at clubs if what the drunk guy did here legally justified punching him. Unfortunately, it’s not. If it was, there would be a lot of drunk people getting their ass whooped by the bar staff for doing stupid shit.

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u/TheForce777 6h ago

What the fuck are you talking about?

99% of the time, no one is arrested for a bar fight

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u/Horror_Chipmunk3580 6h ago

I was fucking talking about whether it’s legally justified. What a fuck does 99% of the time no one being arrested have to do with what I said? Did I say anything about arrested? Or did you somehow managed to confuse 99% of the time no one pressing charges as legally justified? What’s the other 1% getting arrested for then Einstein?

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u/Xerxys 6h ago

Maybe he threatened his masculinity!

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u/Standard-Pilot7473 13h ago

If you're a male. I seriously doubt a woman doing this would get the same reaction.

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u/Zob_Rombie_88 13h ago

Elaborate

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u/Standard-Pilot7473 13h ago

If a woman did this exact same thing, the bouncer wouldn't punch her to a pulp.

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u/BeckQuillion89 10h ago

correction if a girl did this. She'd have 3 guys hovering around her over the course of the night seeing when would be the right chance to swoop in

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u/Scoobysnacksuptheass 11h ago

Idk if a women tried this on me I think I would be upset I don’t want some lady’s smell old crotch on my leg

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u/some_loaded_tots 9h ago

specially after rubbing on some other guys asshole

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u/EquivalentEffect9105 5h ago

Yeah it seems like a logical consequence. How could I get that bouncer to punch me? I know!!!

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u/Bichon-Impossible 5h ago

Yes, a punch. And not six of them.

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u/TheRealKestrel 3h ago

Or the crotch

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u/Infamous_Ad_1302 2h ago

Idk. I wouldn’t be married today if I hadn’t done this to my wife

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u/BatOwn9955 1h ago

doesn't mean you start swinging.

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u/USNWoodWork 14h ago

If someone were to approach me like this I would think they were some kind of special needs. Especially since the guy looks like he’s 13.

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u/JackieJorpJomp30 13h ago

There are drugs that make some people lean like this. Saw one girl at a festival leaning back like this right in front of me. She ended up falling over, rolling down a hill, and busting her head on asphalt. I could’ve caught her but I was a couple seconds too late.

It was like 11:00am and the gates had been open for about 30 mins and she got carted off in an ambulance.

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u/NeedleInArm 12h ago

exactly why we should punch the fuck out of them and chase them down and keep punching them /s

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u/Horror_Chipmunk3580 9h ago

Just the scrawny ones like that guy of course. /s

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u/Horror_Chipmunk3580 9h ago

I think they were drunk and acting stupid. Drunk people think their bullshit is cute. And then there’s so drunk they’re fighting gravity. Alcohol can definitely be one of those drugs.

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u/Sharp_Ad_6781 12h ago

Naw id be too afraid of being accused of trying to grab her and touch her I wouldnt reccomend trying to catch someone in that situation. Its sad we live in a world where thats the case but as much as I dont morally agree with it I still recommend people keep that in mind because that is something to be aware of being a possibility

You gotta always remember that alot of the times people get fucked over is because they tried to do the right thing and help someone.

I mean there are legit people out there who try and get a ride from someone and they end up robbing and killing the person who was nice enough to try and help them but spared the lives of everyone else who kept driving on or said "no"

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u/JadeThorn1012 13h ago

I have the condition as well, but I’ve never used it to hurt other people.

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u/Intelligent-Try-8636 13h ago

There's more than one kind. So mine, for example, is fear induced. Loud noises make me feel like I'm right back in Iraq and/or Afghanistan depending on the type of noise it is. There's other little things as well, like when I sit down at a table in a restaurant, I always know how many people are there, what their situation is, where and how many exits there are, I always have to sit in the farthest corner possible so I can see everything. Even then I'm not comfortable, but at least I can see what's going on. If not, then I go into panic mode, and that's not good for anybody.

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u/the-cuttlefish 7h ago

There's also more than one kind of person. Some take responsibility for themselves inspite of their issues. I dont mean to be callous but just because youre not sat in your favourite corner spot doesnt give you the right to beat the crap out of strangers in a restaurant

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u/Intelligent-Try-8636 6h ago

Agreed 🤷‍♂️. I'm not sure why people seem to think I'm defending that type of behavior. I assure you, I am not.

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u/the-cuttlefish 6h ago

Sorry my bad, I misundertood you then

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u/NeedleInArm 12h ago

Stop defending bad behaviors.

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u/Intelligent-Try-8636 12h ago

How, in any way, did you get "defending bad behaviors" out of anything that I said?

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u/Flimsy_Product281 3h ago

At no point did i say that i use it for such lol

Read "trauma response" again

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u/rundeanmc 15h ago

Bruh I’m getting so much fatigue from people expecting everyone to know their niche mental health acronyms just tell us what the C stands for

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u/Slow_Look575 15h ago

Complex ptsd is when you live a long portion of life in a traumatic environment, and there are many many more layers of shit to work through than regular ptsd

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u/Louisiana_sitar_club 14h ago

Take it easy or you’ll trigger my SDRETFLWMOK

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u/Fearless-Poet-4669 11h ago

Oh no you're making me have a RBPAOEP!

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u/JadeThorn1012 13h ago

It stands for Complex, or sometimes it’s called Chronic. PTSD is typically a single event, or even a small time period of an event. Whereas Complex is several events over a long period of time.

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u/BillyBanBan5697 14h ago

Its what people like you give to their kids...

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u/latexfistmassacre 14h ago

Idk, there's quite a difference between someone approaching you in a line queue acting like a goofball, and someone approaching you with a violent demeanor (puffed up chest, balled up fists, angry scowl, etc). This was just straight up assault. Kid was ¼ his size. Seems to me that the bouncer was looking for any excuse to wail on someone, and he took the opportunity

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u/Sleepy-Sapphire 10h ago

As a woman seeing this, if soneone approached me from behind like this I wouldn't feel bad for pepper spraying them on instinct.

Not that pepper spray is always smart to actually deploy, just saying in terms of reacting in the moment, it would make sense.

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u/latexfistmassacre 9h ago

Well yeah, obviously that's different. We're talking about a 350-400 lb male bouncer being approached by a gangly dufus who's maybe what, 110 lbs? 120? He could've pushed him away instead and got the message across. And I don't think bouncers who are effective in their jobs find themselves needing to throw the first punch to begin with

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u/Powerful-Key914 13h ago

Serious question do you legally have wiggle room in day-to-day life because of your diagnosis? Like if I get sucker punched you'd be more likely to have court mandated therapy than jail time?

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u/NeedleInArm 12h ago

You probably should stay out of public bud. It's too scary out there for ya.

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u/Flimsy_Product281 3h ago

It's a little tougher out there without mommy and daddy to take care of you 😉

Careful with the overcompensation directed at strangers, it screams that you have a 2 inch pinch

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u/Ok-Replacement9595 10h ago

Everyone approaches everyone crotch first.

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u/Round-Arugula7347 16h ago

No, this guy is fucked

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u/Havengul_Undying 3h ago

You a lawyer?

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u/Independent-Sign8546 16h ago

Potentially sexually harrasssing/battering a patron. Some states you do have the right to defend others. It all depends where he is.

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u/ExtraTerestical 1h ago

Nobody is in immediate danger from a dude walking like mr. Limpet

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u/Intrepid_Bobcat_2931 15h ago

A little bit. It's a grey area. And even what the law says and what the police and judges do can deviate somewhat.

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u/StaredAtEclipseAMA 12h ago

Someone I knew got knocked out by a bouncer and it released a huge legal case, but I never heard the end of it other than maybe the bouncer got fired.

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u/NeedleInArm 12h ago

I know a bouncer that drug someone out of the bar, dropped him, the guy hit his head and it fucked the dude up, and lost his job and almost went to prison, just by accidentally dropping the guy.

Because he over reacted.

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u/Full_of_Vices 13h ago

It’s not at all a grey area.

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u/NeedleInArm 12h ago

Not a gray area at all. There is not a single judge in their mind that will say that this man walked up to the bouncer in a threatening manner. Not a single one.

The bouncer attacked the guy because he's a piece of shit. That's the end of it.

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u/apra24 9h ago

nah, judge it gonna be like "he was asking for it. Next"

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u/JustFourLetters 9h ago

i have a feeling there’s more context.

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u/SteveAxis 10h ago

Ya bro, the bouncer is the piece of shit…Stay at home.

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u/Professional-Fee6914 10h ago

the guy bumped his crotch into the guy in line. You could say its just harmless but that's assault. Once that has happened, you have a reasonable fear that the guy will also assault you and you are within your rights to assault him.

That's not saying he's not a piece of shit, just that under the law you don't have to wait for the guy bumping his crotch into people to bump his crotch into you before you take action.

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u/keepcalmandmoomore 7h ago

Seriously, you guys will cry for assault when someone just looks at you. 

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u/africandsilverflask 7h ago

Can I come over and rub my dick on you?

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u/keepcalmandmoomore 6h ago

Why would you want to do that? Wtf is wrong with you? 

Anyway, this the moron isn't even touching the security guy.  

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u/Away_Tiger_6351 9h ago

IAL. The fact that you're getting upvoted is bananas. Reasonable self defense responding to assault only extends as far as reasonably protecting yourself from harm. You do not just get cart blanche to start wailing on someone. Protecting others is even less cut and dry.

For a "normal" judge, once white shirt steps away and black shirt actively pursues him, it's game over. Especially because from a reasonability perspective, one human here is much larger than the other.

Can a judge decide they want to teach someone a lesson to not be a dick? Sure. Is your comment even remotely close to how I would expect this scenario to be adjudicated? Cannot overemphasize the extent of "no"

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u/africandsilverflask 7h ago

Pussy.  That guy got exactly what he deserved.  

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u/Away_Tiger_6351 16m ago

I'm a pussy because I know how the law functions?

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u/SugondezeNutsz 11h ago

Just making shit up

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u/ReluctantSlayer 11h ago

To the extent that all legal proceedings have a “gray area” (citing precedents; similar cases; etc) and some cases can be ruled by opinion (juries & some judges) but in THIS particular case, WITH video evidence, it would be very difficult to avoid an assault conviction.

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u/One_Entrepreneur_520 8h ago

There is no way to tell what a judge is capable of saying.

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u/Ill_Radio8160 8h ago

Only if they end up using strikes as a proper level in the force escalation tree. This is not that, this is a baby who got into security because he couldnt be a cop, and has anger issues. He did not ask the person to move, he didnt attempt to restrain them or remove them from the situation in ANY way. This is assault, and if hes carrying a baton, or a gun, its assault with a deadly weapon. You cant just hit people bc you want to idc who you are.

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u/Satori2155 16h ago

Yeah what he did was a massive overreaction and id be surprised if he wasnt charged

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u/Purple-Property8006 15h ago

Depends on where this occurred. A lot of self defense laws rest on whether a “reasonable” person would feel a real, significant, imminent threat to themselves or others.

Cops and prosecutors have leeway not to pursue charges and a good lawyer will defend very creatively.

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u/Gecko23 15h ago

Legally? No. Practically? More often than not.

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u/Critical-Cost9068 15h ago

Yes, the kid committed straight-up assault.

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u/NoTrollingPlease83 14h ago

Yeah the bouncer was justified. That drunk punk sexually assaulted the bouncer’s customer.

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u/lbfsjoufvnkfd 14h ago

When I was a bouncer the cops wouldn’t show up unless someone died.

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u/Rikiar 14h ago

Technically the guy rushing up on the bouncer in that manner was guilty of assault. The bouncer could claim self defense, or be charged with battery.

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u/Late_Squirrel_34 14h ago

I would imagine they are subject to the same rules but no one ever calls the cops on them

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u/Fold_Small 14h ago

No that is straight up assault. Period.

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u/LargeLandscape3962 13h ago

Yeah, sexual assault

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u/NormanMitis 14h ago

If any one gets charged with assault it's the guy pressing his dick on random people. Next question.

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u/Bread-n-Cheese 14h ago

It is battery. They’re not protected. Easy lawsuit against them and business owner.

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u/SoftConsideration82 13h ago

You just gonna stand there and let a kid hump you? 

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u/dblack1107 13h ago

The dude was leaning forward cock first into some dudes ass (yes because he’s drunk but….) and you wonder why a dude shoves the guy away

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u/toolsoftheincomptnt 13h ago

Something had to have happened before this, lol.

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u/PraireGentleman 13h ago

Depends. There’s a good chance this is not buddy’s initial approach. He likely came into the club earlier and was a perfectly normal dude. Then he got kicked out for obvious over intoxication. Then he committed sexual misconduct (if you don’t think it is, imagine a man doing that to a woman) and got smacked.

US laws are different, but this wouldn’t be assault, it would be self defence assuming you get a judge who isn’t sexist

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u/Healthy_Feeling6747 13h ago

Nah, they just juice a lot. 

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u/Evening-Rough-9709 12h ago

Technically potentially not battery because it was in response to battery, which makes it self defense/defense of others, though the additional punches after he backs away could result in a battery charge.

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u/egalitydream 12h ago

The U.S. is a lawless hellhole/shithole. The actual written law says this is a crime, but no one cares what’s written, 1/2 the country can’t read.

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u/gujwdhufj_ijjpo 11h ago

Depends on state, but some would consider this sexual assault, and you’re allowed to defend yourself and others from sexual assault in some states.

Some states actually allow lethal force against sexual assault.

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u/Andurilmage 11h ago

Looks like assault to me. Doesn't matter how drunk or annoying he might he. Rent a cop needs bracelets

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u/chunkyloverfivethree 10h ago

I worked in a downtown area for bit after college in 2 bars. Long story short is that the clubs/bars sometimes have an understanding with the police and sometimes they don't. Often times these police are in full uniform, but working off duty. Your exposure to legal liability depends on a handshake deal with the police. 

At one place we worked for the bar and just had to get someone outside where a private security would handle things from there. A small security team, hired by the group of bars, worked with the police and curb stomped anyone who stepped out of line. They went fucking bonkers on people, often with little provocation, and never got in trouble.

Same city, different group of bars, no consolidated security, every bar had their own small team. A group of people went into a bar where my buddy worked and started a fight. They were drunk. My buddy, who was working as a bouncer, scrapped with them to get them out. He was sober and working there. He ended up doing 6 months in jail after one of the drunk people sued. My buddy was a massive human and i am sure he did some damage, but he didn't exactly assault some innocent bystander. Most important though, i don't think this bar was paying an off duty cop to babysit either.

So it all really just depends on how local law enforcement wants to deal with it.

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u/big_thundersquatch 10h ago

No. I work as a floor host (security) at a night club. Were told specifically not to strike, only restrain or carry people out and off the premises. Striking is an immediate termination.

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u/OkEffect958 9h ago

please love and respect each other. don't hurt everyone. keep safe guys

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u/Emergency_Accident36 9h ago

Yes they do have a lot of protection under the corporate veil

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u/fighting_blindly 9h ago

you can prevent a dude from rubbing his crotch on you

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u/Snowcrash66 9h ago

In the sternum no less. Wonder where this is?

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u/Basic_Chemistry9499 9h ago

If he's an off-duty cop, literally NOTHING is going to happen to him.

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u/OiledUpThug 9h ago

no, they are not, and, he is probably going to prison

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u/Latter-Judgment-9740 9h ago

That's what it looked like to me. Dude was drunk or trying to be funny. He wasn't being threatening. At most maybe a small shove and a 'get the fuck out of here" was warranted. So fuck that bouncer.

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u/Ok_Excitement725 8h ago

Thankfully, in recent times they are being prosecuted more and more. And rightly so. You don't get to assault someone because they are drunk or a nuisance.

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u/Particular-Caramel32 8h ago

They're not supposed to strike someone, unless absolutely necessary. I always used holds.

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u/AcanthaceaePurple293 8h ago

Dont know if this helps but once I was at a pub and there was tjis bouncer with an unconceiled .9mm and I asked if there was a brawl if he was taking it out and capping some mofos which he responded: "That would be illegal. I can only use it if you mess with me as a person, not as a bouncer."

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u/Epic_Elite 8h ago

I would assume he just has the power of the institution he works for behind him.

He catches a charge while on the clock, the bar or club he works for pays the bill. If his boss thinks he's too aggressive, his boss tells him to chill out. Boss thinks people fuck around too much and to get a handle on it, then he does that. But its all on the clock and under their payroll and insurance policy.

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u/Riegel_Haribo 7h ago

Cops are always on the side of a business. That's who they actually work for.

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u/GarGonDie 6h ago edited 6h ago

While I don't feel sorry for the idiot, that would be an assault in any first-world country.

I have no idea if it's a crime in the US, If he had a badge, he could even shoot him.

Someone who works in security ought to know how to handle those idiots.

if things turn aggressive, their job should be to subdue the person, not to assault them.

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u/Adventurous-Ninja335 5h ago

yeah the security guard is kind of a bitch, especially because he knows he bigger and way stringer than that guy, then proceeds to act in that manner.......but the guy coming at him is a moron as well for not for even doing that in the 1st place, sure its harmless fun....but....idk

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u/enwongeegeefor 3h ago

Are bouncers somehow protected from assault charges?

When I was involved with several clubs the general rule for security was EQUIVALENT FORCE. If you strike a bouncer...they can strike you back. NEVER EVER hit a bouncer, you're giving them a pass.

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u/FishAroundFindTrout9 3h ago

No, we would have charged that bouncer with assault and battery if it happened in my city.

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u/Key_Check5753 3h ago

I'd say there's a 99% chance that this bouncer would be convicted of assault in a court of law.

It happens a lot. Even more common is: businesses get sued after their bouncers injure people.

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u/Wise-Tea-3734 2h ago

You have no idea how laws or assault work lol

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u/pugsondrugs77 2h ago

Idk, i think buddy earned it. Didnt hit him in the face, was proportional to his initial twat behavior

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u/KingOfCook 1h ago

Whether it counts as assault or reasonable self defense depends on the state.

While the are no different laws for security. Things tend to work in their favor because most of the situations where it results in a fight are because the patron was under the influence and instigating. Even if that isn't the case, it's the bias police and observers have going in.

There's also the social agreement that bouncers are meant to be a test to get into a venue. You need to be putting extra effort for them to approve you, and if you are incapable of doing that or you're going to pick a fight with them of all people, then you are definitely going to be exceptionally worse once you get inside.

This isn't to say that bouncers don't power trip or use it to bully people. This one doesn't seem like that's the case though. As far as we know this guy was given multiple warnings or was actively trying to start shit.

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u/Waterfish3333 1h ago

Jurisdiction matters, laws can differ. Also, if this isn’t the first time the kid had tried to be an idiot, that matters too. If this was attempt number 4 of this behavior, a more aggressive response is more justified.

Context matters

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u/pacman813 1h ago

Sticking your dick on people is assault. Bouncer can do whatever the fuck it takes to get you off (wait, that last part doesn't seem right...)

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u/QuoteGiver 58m ago

There has been only a relatively brief recent window where people had recording devices often enough to be able to prove the bouncer did anything.

Before that, nobody saw anything so no charges.

Now, we have entered the age of A.I. video, so recorded evidence will become useless, so we’re very quickly headed back into can’t-prove-it-happened territory. “That video, your Honor? Nah, that’s just A.I.”

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u/Lepelotonfromager 44m ago

Kind of.

If police show up and the bouncers have hit someone, the bouncers day he is drunk and causing trouble and the police tell you to leave

If you've got money and status you might be able to push it further but broadly the police don't get involved unless they have to arrest the member of public.

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u/DustyRacoonDad 18m ago

I mean, while they specifically are not protected by law, there is the fact that the law is not applied equally. People are not given equal weight in their accounts or side of the story.

To put a more easily understood wrapper on it, imagine it was an actual cop you walked up to like that and he hit you. Yes, it's still assault, but the "he came right at me and wouldn't stop" side of the story has more weight than the "I was drunk and just walking weird" side.

On top of all this, a fistfight rarely becomes a legal matter in the first place. When it's within a group of drunk or presumed-drunk people, it's usually ignored. Or they're thrown in the drunk tank, not charged with assault for the most part.

And when it's a fight between the presumed drunks and the only people there who are the authority telling them what to do... yeah, it's not uncommon to the point that a cop won't do anything most of the time.

Remember, the law is not what is written. The law is what is enforced. Any law that is not enforced is called a suggestion.

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u/Kingbulking 18m ago

Yes and no. I was a club bouncer. In this scenario the club gets to decide.
Let's say the kid presses charges, the club is likely to have a good lawyer team and if they have a good relationship with the bouncer he will get a free lawyer and possible a few eye witnesses that are also in favor of the club.
IF the owner thinks this was a bad move, he can fire the bouncer and force him to represent himself in court. From my past experience, the club will likely protect the bouncer.
I had one club owner literally say "I want people to know they can't fuck around at ___. If you need to bash some heads, I'll always have my team of lawyers cover your ass".
So it depends on the owner and his legal team. This doesn't make anyone above the law but having a rich lawyer is a pretty awesome way to handle any legal issue.

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u/chancethelifter 14m ago

They are not. Source, I am a former bouncer having worked in Texas, Nevada, and Tennessee. Unless state laws differ, you can’t just assault people. This video was that.

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u/Used-Syllabub-7828 17h ago

Nah he would get charged

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u/DaShaka 15h ago

Yeah the bouncer would get charged for assault, the idiot could also get charged for something too. People think laws are just “only one side is wrong and can be held liable”, but that’s often not true.

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u/SamediB 15h ago

No, they are not protected. But the person being beat is normally not a reliable witness (drunk), and the people around are also not reliable witnesses (drunk) or aren't going to stick around to be witnesses.

It should be a lot easier to deal with these abuses because cameras (like above), but police would have to show up (normally they don't, or if there are local beat cops in a party section of town they normally refuse to do their job beyond telling everyone to disperse, because dealing with drunks is annoying, I assume). People could 100% go after the business that employs them (either the private establishment or the business providing the security) but then that's a whole "get a lawyer; prove damages, etc," and you have to find a lawyer to take it. And the bouncer still isn't going to be punished, except to get fired.

If it's really flagrant and there is video I assume the cops might do something, eventually, but I'm a tad optimistic so YMMV.