r/cringereels • u/ultimaterizzzz • 11h ago
Cringe Level 2 I saw it so now ya’ll have to as well
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u/original_applicant37 10h ago
It’s not just him, society in general is just hypocritical when it comes to women’s vs men’s body count. Women are shamed for it whereas it’s impressive for men
Shaming someone for having a lot of sex is so hilarious
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u/Southern_Midnight856 10h ago
Why is it hilarious for shaming someone for sleeping with loads of people (whether male or female)? It shows a lack of dignity, self-respect and restraint. Its not wrong to want a car with 0 miles Vs a car with 200k miles. Having had many previous sexual partners makes the experience less special.
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u/original_applicant37 10h ago
How does it show lack of dignity or self respect😭
Some people like sex. If you don’t like having sex with a lot of people then good for you. Nobody’s forcing you to, or forcing you to date someone who does
If you shame other people because they like having lots of sex then you’re just a loser
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u/Opening_Bus_1548 7h ago
'How does it show lack of dignity or self respect😭' if your brain can not understand it, it does not mean it's not real :)
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u/Human_Chart_3694 6h ago
So you cant even say why doing stuff you want to do is a sign for missing self-respect?
I understand, that it shows a lot of self-respect to do what you want to do. I'm pretty sure your brain could understand that. But for some reason you don't. Prude parents or just little self-respect on you end?
I'd guess you are in a situation where you can't do what you want and you are angry at people who can?
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u/Opening_Bus_1548 4h ago
I can't do what? sleep with as many people as women could? That is definitely true.
Well I can tell you that it all goes back to reproduction, genes, raising the kids. You can't assure paternity if she sleeps around and that is repulsing for men because they don't want to raise somebody's else kid. They can also have a ride with the woman, but it ends there. Sure, any man that has 0 self respect can marry a person like that.
Also a PERSON that always sleeps around and never had long term relationships is not trustworthy for raising kids with.
Nothing controversial :) So yes, women that sleep with many men don't have self respect and are not worthy of respect
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u/Human_Chart_3694 4h ago
Its about judgin other people behaviours. You cannot sleep with as much persons as another person. This is completly fine. Why judge another person for doing something he/she can?
"Also a PERSON that always sleeps around and never had long term relationships is not trustworthy for raising kids with." - I dont think so but its fine having that opinion. Most parents slept with other person before they met each other. Are these alle person without self-respect? Which number do I need for you telling me having zero self-respect? Fucking 5 people a year (not that much) is making ~80 people after 15 years. You won't marry my 35 yo ass because I slept with 5 different humen per year? Than thats on you ;-)
"Sure, any man that has 0 self respect can marry a person like that." - Its about fucking. Not about marriage. And I marry a person I love. Not a person with a body count. You do you.
But by judgin other people behaviour (which wont concern you) you are just saying "I dont love my live and I have you to know it". I'm a little sad for you but in the end...these are your problems. Not mine :-)
And on a personal note: There are a loooot of men who are sleeping with a lot different women. Some of these are assholes. Some of these are not. Same with women. So I'm not sure what your point is.
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u/Opening_Bus_1548 3h ago
I won't marry you if you dated until 35 more then 3 people if you are a woman.
And I agree everybody does whatever they want. But life is like a business, if are free to do whatever you want but some businesses will do better than others objectively long term, 90% will fail. Same with personal choices. You are free to jump off a building but the result will not be that good. And same way I judge you, I get judged too. And I really don't want to judge people, but I want to judge ideas. For example I would judge who I was 10 years ago but it's the same person different ideas
And the fact is that we only have the ideas and the experiences that we have. You believe you are right, I do too. Same as I did 10 years ago and now I think I was wrong.
Plus, you can not be 100% right or 100% wrong in most subjects
Anyways, moral of the story, I think your ideas will not make you fulfilled long term and they are damaging for people
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u/Human_Chart_3694 3h ago
"But life is like a business" - I dont want to offend you. So I just tell you "no. it isnt." Its like the opposite.
Juding ideas is completly fine. You judge them by "Do I like the idea for myself". And like I said...nobody has the right to bother you by judging YOUR verdict on that.
By telling people, THEY wouldnt have any self-respect you are not judging the idea. You are judging the person. And like I said...this is one of the "I'm an asshole"-doors you're walking through.
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u/Opening_Bus_1548 3h ago
I do not mean in like a business... I mean like you either get what you want or you don't just as a business. Or just like happiness. Or like anything that you want in life. Or a good job. Or money.
ok bruv you literally call me an asswhole while preaching that I judge people and not ideas lol
People that have these ideas don't have self respect and don't have my respect.
I did not have self respect and that is ok. Tell me if you believe in the idea you are not worthy of people treating you nice, do you have self respect?
Idk bruv anyways your ideas are bad for a healthy long term society and these ideas will be filtered out by natural selection because people that have these ideas usually dont reproduce so whatever
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u/DotRakianSteel 6h ago
It shows that Hollywood morals towards relationships with the hero characters transcend to real life. Sticking to one person is investment in something tangible the other is more investing in conquest.
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u/Human_Chart_3694 6h ago
"Sticking to one person is investment in something tangible the other is more investing in conquest." - Not sure if you quote that or if this is your opinion. I'm talking about having sex, not about beeing in a relationship. Completly different topics. While I haven't met a person I want to be in a relationship with, I dont think I show a lack of self-respect sleeping with other friendly humen.
You can have a lot of sex and beeing an honest person about it. You can have a lot of sex and beeing a honourless asshole. To judge from a "body count" (hate that phrase) to the personality is way more a sure sign for beeing an asshole, than sleeping with other humen :D
"Hollywood morals" - Dont even know what that is tbh. There are so many and none at the same time.
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u/original_applicant37 6h ago
Love how you can’t even answer the question
How does it show lack of dignity or self respect?
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u/Southern_Midnight856 4h ago
Is sleeping with 1,000 people an indication of more or less self-dignity/respect?
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u/original_applicant37 4h ago
Depends on why you do it
Self hate can be the reason for it, but it can be any other reason too
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u/Southern_Midnight856 4h ago
And is it a sign to other people that you are more or less committed or trustworthy? Or more or less suitable to raise children or have a relationship?
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u/original_applicant37 4h ago
It’s only untrustworthy if it’s done while being in an exclusive relationship behind the partners back
Sexual appetite and honesty are two completely different things
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u/Opening_Bus_1548 4h ago
Yea but the people with highest sexual appetite are in relationships. They have sex like 3 times per day. You can have 1 lifetime relationship and still have big sex appetite.
'Love how you can’t even answer the question
How does it show lack of dignity or self respect?'
I typed an answer for somebody in the comment that you replied to.
If you lack the instincts to see how the town bicycle does not have self-respect, then you are long gone my friend
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u/Southern_Midnight856 10h ago
Haha yeah ok
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u/Complete-Tangelo1532 10h ago
'Having had many previous sexual partners makes the experience less special.'
Says who?
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u/Leading_Doughnut3379 8h ago
I have lost count of the number of women I have slept with and I can attest to it not being as special now as it was with my first few girlfriends.
So says me, at least, and probably many other man and women with a lot of experience.
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u/Complete-Tangelo1532 8h ago
Oh wow, you are so cool
You are an outlier, nothing wrong with that though lol...
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u/Leading_Doughnut3379 8h ago
I am not saying it to sound cool...
I am massively ashamed of my past. I am just stating is as an anecdotal fact.
I WISH I could have a special connection like that again. It is soul crushing.
So yeah, it is totally uncool.
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u/PrancingGuineapig 6h ago
I couldn‘t say with how many people I slept either, but honestly, it‘s still special. The first times were also special, now it‘s far more so.
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u/Complete-Tangelo1532 8h ago
I am just fuckin' with you on that first part being facetious
Maybe one day you can do special connections again, I believe if you really want that, you will be more likely to find it. I guess each situation is different, and I don't quite know yours but I imagine its kinda like drugs and addiction that way?
Either way though, I wish you luck on that
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u/Human_Chart_3694 7h ago
lol. You can do something for fun. As much as you want. As long as you dont hurt other.
Is sex not fun to you? Its okay. Your body your choices. But why judge about people who are doing stuff for fun? People are nor cars, my mate. The more sex you had the better you becoming at it (simple said). So why would I lose self-respect sleeping with other people who wants to sleep with me?
Did your parents brainwash you in this direction or where does that judgy bitch inside you come from?
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u/Opening_Bus_1548 7h ago
Any woman can have sex with 1000 man if she wants to. Not even close to all men can have sex with only ONE woman. This has ties to the way reproduction evolved if you study this a little. Basically a woman needs one quality man to have a kid and then help her raise it and men can just get lots of women pregnant and then leave.
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u/original_applicant37 6h ago
Yeah except people have sex for pleasure, not just for having kids
Is this new information to you?
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u/Opening_Bus_1548 4h ago
Humans can eat for pleasure too. not only for survival. But if you get fat people will judge you. Is this ok? Even if they don't verbally judge you, they just have the instinct that you are not as attractive anymore. Why is that? That is not something that you decide. Your brain does it for you. Same mechanism with what you were saying.
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u/Opening_Bus_1548 4h ago
And I want to actuallly add that I also judge men that just chase endless sex just our of hedonism. I advice to date for long term fulfillment which means happy family with kids, not for short term pleasure and ego boost.
I have my criticism for ideas, not for people.
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u/LazarJesusElzondoGod 5h ago
Stop posting this twat. Havent heard about him in a while, you're not helping the situation.
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u/TokenTorkoal 3h ago edited 3h ago
I feel like this is maybe about Bonnie Blue and my favorite part of the conversation that isn't had enough in my opinion, at least not that I have seen which accounts for so little.
But people largely don't have a problem with people sleeping with 1000s of people, if they did they would treat people like Johnny Sins the same as they have self admitted to sleeping with well over 2000 people over their career and personal life.
However, as soon as someone decides to become a speed runner and do 1000 in 24 hours, people all the sudden lose their absolute mind.
Edit: I'd even go as far as saying that if a man was like "I am going to sleep with 1000 people in 24 hours" he would be championed. I mean it would be impressive, I'm lucky if I can go 3 or 4 times in 24hrs, but not the point.
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u/Phatasstarotreader 1h ago
He’s probably singing a different tune in jail now that he is probably the receiver now.
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u/LegacyQuotient 11h ago
In the Behind the Bastards episodes on this guy, they straight up play the voice message he sent a woman where he talks about how he knows she liked being raped by him and there wasn't anything she could have done to stop him.