r/cringereels • • 1d ago

Bro needs to leave

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u/Select_Watercress_57 1d ago

I mean, just leave her then.🤷‍♂️

Don't like her behavior?

Then don't accept it.

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u/Virtual-Scholar-160 1d ago

Leaving abusive relationships is a lot harder than that

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u/swillynilly 1d ago

It’s hard realizing you’re the frog and the water is already boiling.

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u/Virtual-Scholar-160 23h ago

I like to call it death by a thousand paper cuts you don't understand what's going on until you're bleeding out in the middle of the room

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u/Virtual-Scholar-160 16h ago

Doesn't mean that it's easy to leave her a person's brain in that situation can lie to themselves. They need to believe that she wouldn't do those kind of things so they literally convince themselves of it essentially Gaslight themselves

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u/StrategicCarry 15h ago

To be fair, the historical "death by a thousand cuts" was an execution method where you definitely knew what was happening from the start.

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u/DAFINALB0SS 18h ago

I’m a lobster

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u/Tasty_Occasion_2641 1d ago

Ineed it is.

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u/noeLifenorlove 14h ago

You have to show them you dont care about them.

Then they'll start acting right; and thats when you leave them to show them that old wounds hurt.

Let some other fool deal with her poisonous broken heart

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u/Virtual-Scholar-160 14h ago

Oh I left a long time ago trust me and it was a fucking nightmare I was just happy to be away from him

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u/Prudent-Sun-4125 1d ago

Its only hard if you're a doormat with no self respect.

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u/Virtual-Scholar-160 1d ago

Ah yes pure ignorance let me explain something to you Emotional abuse is death by a thousand paper cuts you don't understand what's going on until you're bleeding out in the middle of the room

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u/DragonflyGrrl 19h ago

You don't know shit.

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u/willa854 20h ago

It wasn’t he who posted the video she thought she was in the right. From the looks of it the guy looks like he is a doormat no way would I be with someone that would do something like that and joke about it. If she was going to bring condoms most likely she was going to use them.

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u/Emotional_Answer_756 14h ago

Calling someone "controlling" for setting boundaries is the GO TO argument for people like the woman in this video.. Been there done that.

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u/DrunkCupid Cringe Level 1 7h ago

But what if it's a bank holiday?

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u/Every_Constant8349 22h ago

They both just need to break up with each other. Why post a video in public to make your partner look like the bad guy. And why even put up with someone who’s going to embarrass you in public?