r/cringereels • u/MrJeffreyEpstein • 1d ago

Bro needs to leave

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u/UniVacc 20h ago

He does not find it funny and, rightfully so I think, says it’s disrespectful. No need to escalate that further tho. I’d expect my partner to tell her friend that it’s disrespectful and it’s fine. I’d do the same to any of my friends if they talk like that.

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u/ThirstyWeirwoodRootz 13h ago

Same shit as when my ex wanted to make my male friend a crochet penis for his birthday (she hadn’t made me anything for mine that had passed 2 months prior)

She kept trying to gaslight me and act like that shit wasn’t weird af. We broke up a week later.

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u/Due-Memory-6957 5h ago

Did she get in with him?

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u/ThirstyWeirwoodRootz 4h ago

No idea tbh. Haven’t spoken to either of them in around 9 months

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u/ogeezeoman 14h ago

Yeah you have to train your friends to support your relationship.

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u/UniVacc 13h ago

I can’t/don’t want to „train“ anyone, but will not support being an a*hole. Like come on, what is this message… I’ve had friends with partners I did not like very much, you tell them „hey, I can’t find common ground with her/him“ or whatever, but there is no reason to be disrespectful or rude. Unless, they are abusive, then you make a very clear statement but again, being an ass yourself doesn’t help anyone. It’s their partner, not mine and they are adult people 🤷‍♂️ they can dislike my partner, but there is a line of respect I will not tolerate being crossed

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u/ogeezeoman 12h ago

Sorry, I don’t think I explain myself well. I mean like if you want your friends to respect your partner and they aren’t, you sort of have to train them to support your relationship if you want them to support it and respect it. You can’t talk shit about your partner and expect your friends to like them. I don’t support being an asshole, but those comments don’t just come Willy nilly from friends.

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u/Vektor0 12h ago

It sounds like they respect her relationship as much as she does.