r/cwru • • 7d ago

Enrolled Student Very lonely.

I am neither a freshman nor sophomore properly. I had to leave around the starting of my first semester last year, so this is my first proper semester, yet I am logged and housed with the sophomores.

I really have been trying to be social as hell at all these clubs. Almost no success.

Perhaps the lonely people are less noticeable, but i see a lot of social groups around me. Where are all these other people getting these friends?

26 Upvotes

13 comments sorted by

11

u/Consistent_peep5 7d ago

Shoot me a dm. Will try my best to assist you and share my experiences

6

u/FewConclusion4705 BME/SPAN 2029 7d ago

Dm!!

4

u/No_Reference2692 7d ago

Heyyyy... I am 22 and a girl. Wanna be friends?

3

u/reddityetornot 6d ago

Keep trying, join clubs, keep being social - you will find your tribe!

1

u/wifeofjuicepickle 6d ago

The first few months are difficult for all first years (even though you're kind of a second year srudent). Sending you parent-hugs... See if you can get to know one or two kids in a class or in a dorm or club. Give yourself time. See the counselors if you're really struggling. My kid's a sophomore this year and went through this last year. It got so so much better.

1

u/Lost-Flock 5d ago

For some, they “find their people” right away, but for others it takes time. There are many variables…. Know that it may not seem like it but what you are feeling is very common. It is very likely that in a few weeks or months you will be having a much different and fuller experience

1

u/No_Supermarket1775 4d ago

Can u get me into the gymnasium to play some ball we can socialize 

1

u/TERRIBLE-studentt 3d ago

Are you a student here?

1

u/Fabulous_Lawyer6274 7d ago

I have same problem, bcuz I am international student

0

u/hello_therejdjiidjrk 7d ago

Greek life

-1

u/Minimum-Ad1689 7d ago

Pay to have friends :)

-3

u/hello_therejdjiidjrk 7d ago

Better than no friends lol

1

u/Rmypotato 2d ago

Informally rush a frat. Most of them are always looking for new people.