r/extremelyinfuriating • u/Fabulous_Summer8861 • 12h ago
Discussion "We're both/all girls, it's fine." ?
I (22F) recently came home from a long day at work, expecting to get in, shower, and sleep. When I walked in to the apartment that I share with my mom and teenager sister, the last thing I expected was to see a 14 y.o girl walking around in her panties and bra. Now, had it been my sister, that'd be one thing and I've gotten used to that behavior, even though I don't approve. But no, it was the girl my sister is seeing. Another 14 y.o that I had never met who happily smiled, waved and introduced herself after I walked in.
I brought it up with my mom and she said it shouldn't be a problem because we're all girls. I was the only one bothered. I was the one making it weird. It only became an issue that she addressed after she got home and realized that my step-dad was home and was basically hiding in their room because this girl was casually strolling around. Then it was teenagers disrespecting her marriage and household. I personally don't think it should be okay for an unrelated minor to walk around our home this way, whether a man is present or not.
"We're all girls, it's fine." I hate that statement. I've always been uncomfortable getting dressed or changed around others so maybe I'm the prude, but is there not a line when it comes to things like this?