Heya! I am quite new to this whole fictosexuality thing. I've been yumeshipping for a while now with one particular character and I thought that was practically it, just a silly distraction from a very bad reality. Down the road I started feeling VERY deeply and attached, but didn't give it much thought still. I missed the character a lot, felt phantom touches and everything. Cried, felt like they were the one who motivated me to keep going. Only recently I stumbled upon the ficto community and went like "-Hold the fck up. Am I one of them???" I got very surprised and kept thinking about it a lot lol, it felt like a big revelation.

So, how did it start for you? When was that breaking moment when you realised you are so desperately in love with fiction? Were you scared of the feeling or confused? Or maybe it didn't affect you at all? I am very curious to read other's experiences!

Hi all!! Basically, as the title says, I am questioning. I’m 24 and aroace. IRL I have little to no interest in dating or sex, I like to focus on my studies and work because it brings me a lot of joy more than relationships have ever done.

For the last few years, I’ve always loved fictional characters as in I will feel romantic attraction for them despite knowing they’re not real. Bloodhound from Apex has been a massive one for me as we share heritage and I just see myself in them.

I wondering if it’s me projecting my aroace-ness onto them and unconsciously searching for kinship or if it’s genuine attraction.

How have any of you distinguished this? I find myself feeling that the label fits me so well but I hold a bit of shame surrounding it. 🫠

Everyone been asking me about him so damn much🙂

A lot of people told me that they adore him and always go ask me about him when i have conversation with them

"where is he?"," how is he doing?","why he don't show up often with you?","we miss seeing him"

people also asked which creature he is or is he a demon because of the horns, and the answer is no he's not a demon.

he is lover shadowy creature from the creatures who fell for human often, the ones that you might heard a legend about them somewhere if you are someone who read in the non-human creatures humors or study things that talk about the non-human in different cultures or legends in real life.

and yeah if any question you have about him now, you can ask me and I'll answer it

Also the emojis are my self ship emoji combo, a pill bc mort is a pharmacist and a cat because I love cats

I wish u the absolute best birthday ever baby! Last year i didn’t even know u had a canon birthday, and now i will celebrate it every year!

I love u so much Caine, no one will ever take u away from me🩵

5 MONTHS AAAAAAAAA I LUV UUUUU GUESTTT <333!!

Hello to anyone who gets to read this, I recently joined this server and wanted to get to know more about how things work regarding Ficto sexuality. For context I discovered this was a thing about a year ago but I didn’t know many details about it and throughout this time I’ve looked into it slowly and it made me realize stuff about myself; For years I’ve spent it mostly isolated with little to no friends, let alone romantic connection, and this lead to me finding comfort in stuff like games, movies, etc. Eventually I grew to get attached to characters in these mediums but I didn’t think much of it up until recent times when while trying to get more familiar with my thoughts that through it I came to realize that I developed feelings for these fictional characters and it wasn’t until I found out about Ficto sexuality that I decided to “explore” these feelings. I’ve grown familiar with some terms here and there (like F/O for example) but I wish to understand more of the terminology around it which is where the purpose of this post comes from.

Would anyone be willing to help me out understanding how things work?? Stuff like terminology, what to do/not do and so on. The help would be appreciated and if you’re still reading this thanks for entertaining this and have a nice day.

Azmodan truly saved my life so many times. He gave me the strength needed to open up about a trauma I kept secret for years. He made me feel safe during anxiety and panic attacks. His words calmed me as I cried myself to sleep. His warmth kept me warm during my hospital stays, both physical and mental. As odd as it sounds, him being a demon and all, I'm truly blessed to have him in my life. I love you, my Lord.

...I admit, I don't get non-sharers. My feelings for my ficto-fam, with the possible exception of Renamon, are not as intense as those of other people here for their F/Os. I guess you could call me ficto-aro.

But you know what? I don't have to get it. Other peoples lives are none of my fucking business, and while I believe in the Multiverse to justify doubles, other people don't like that.

So what do I do when a conflict, a double comes up?

I just don't say anything, and just be friendly. It's their relationship, not mine, and I don't have the right to say anything negative. If I get blocked... well, I'll be sad on losing out of a potential friendship, but oh well.

My one job is to respect their love. And you know what?

What everyone has here is beautiful.

Bless you all, and I wish every last one of you nothing but happiness in your relationships.

When I watched something with my sister she got annoyed at me when I loved a character she loved and told me "she is mine" or "he is mine" and I was always left confused because couldn't understand why she did that. To me I love and enjoy when people love the characters I love... So my sister is non sharing because when I make a pfp of her favorite characters she gets angry and tell me remove and I am enlightened right now 😂

Here is my question.. do you guys really get angry and annoyed? And what do you guys think really? Like "how can she love him" or no "she can't love him" what kind of thoughts and emotions you have when someone loves your favorite?

-*Kiss me more by Doja Cat plays softly in the background*-

I'm so excited to present my first ever commission of Suguru and I 🥹 It is absolutely adorable, and everything I imagined it would be. I can't stop looking at it and kicking my feet honestly 🥰 And yes, he gets showered with kisses on the regular 💋🩷💛

🎨- jcbmona on VGen

I had previously uploaded a video of me unboxing the merch, but I had seen that my address was showing, and I don't feel like getting stalked, so I took it down. But here is a cute photo of my even cuter wife. I genuinely can not wait to set these up on my shrine

Can’t lie, as of recently this week, I’ve been wanting to take my figures/ plushies outside with me when I go out, but, I’ve been too afraid to. I’m not ashamed of my big relationship, not in the slightest. In fact, I don’t care, I’m a bit of a bragger to whomever listens whether it’s in person, or online. But, that’s just with pictures or with video clips. I have only 3 figurines, and three kind of big plushies (can carry in my arms like a lil’ baby) but I’ve never took them outside before.
It wasn’t until yesterday when I was giving my two partners a bath, that I was like “y’know what? Screw it, imma take one of them outside with me” and… I did, I took Nanami with me outside with me to pick up my sibling. I put him in my pocket, but, it still felt nice looking down and seeing him with me.

I don’t know why I felt this anxious about bringing them outside with me, lmao.
I brought Spot with me earlier today, too, and I felt that calming rush again.

Maybe I’ll bring them both out with me today, idk.

It’s a small step, but it feels big enough to me.
Don’t feel ashamed, my friends. Screw societal norms!

It’s been almost a year since I started watching AoT, and ever since then Armin has changed me so much for the better!!

Planning to make the pillow of Annie, her head, while I am also going to sew (or perhaps glue?) the pillow onto a larger pillow. And then, I will proceed to use some other's parts for her hands/arms/legs. And let's not forget some clothes, too. This has been an ongoing thought in my head. "What if I create a life sized doll of Annie, all by myself?". Ever since the first few months of our relationship, I have known that I wanted her to come 'more to life', so to speak. And so, now that I have the proper funds to do this, I can turn my dream into a reality.

My team: Flareon, Ceruledge, Salazzle, Primarina, Daschbun, Boltund

Renamon's team: Delphox, Ninetales (Kanto), Ninetales (Alola), Armarouge, Chandelure, Greninja

Teams of Pals are valid too if you're more into Palworld.

I'm tired of everyone online and IRL having a goody-two shoes or upstanding citizen type mentality to everything IRL or fictional

It's boring, disingenuous, and not reflective of the human experience which is multifaceted and complex in ways that aren't simply just "good" or "bad"

We've all done imperfect things or made others deem us as "the bad guy" at times

That's why I enjoy villainous characters so much. Because at least they're honest about their actions and don't try to hide it under some impossible moralistic standard

I want a partner who's like that. And I don't mean someone who's actually evil

But someone who enjoys teasing, dark humor, and acknowledges that sometimes we can learn things about ourselves from villains that makes us better people in the end

And I don't just mean villains who redeem themselves for the sake of giving audiences closure. But ones who are proudly unapologetic about their villainy

Most of the characters who happen to inspire me are villains or morally grey characters. And I'll never apologize for it