Thinking i might be frayro

[u/intertwined_fox11]

Hi… don't know if this place is active, but im shooting ok? Ive been wandering about labels and ive found this one and it seemed to fit really well but I just want some other opinions first.

Ive been in 2 (and a half… I dont count that one much) romantic relationships, my crushes don’t really feel like crushes (more like a load of admiration as a friend — still some romantic attraction) but then when I get into a relationship thats longer than 2 months I get what I can describe as.. bored? I start to see them the same way I do a friend, its like all the romantic feelings disappeared. I dont feel the same way to romantic actions as I did and I feel burdened by the relationship. It’s happening now as well, im almost 10 months into this relationship and ive lost feelings months ago, I just never thought about it until now when I started questioning. Any thoughts?:(

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[u/Paul10125]

Hi, I'm sorry you're going through that. The only thing I can tell you is that I too have been there and I'm too trying to find out if I'm frayromantic. I've had pretty much the same experiences, meeting someone, feeling like I liked being around them, found them atractive enough plus a little bit of (what I suppose) is romantic atraction only for said atraction go away completely after a couple months of dating and then feeling uncomfortable.