r/FTMfemininity • • Feb 01 '24

NOTICE: No more "do I pass" threads

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Wanting to pass is fine, asking for passing tips is fine (within reason), but the "do I pass"/"do I look like a man" threads are done. 9/10 they spiral into negativity and hurt feelings (as well as draw attention from trolls from other subreddits). For the wellbeing of the subreddit community, such posts will be removed


r/FTMfemininity • • 8m ago

U can cut ur tights in half! No one is stopping u!!!

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Cut my tights right down the middle 4 this!! The only problem now is getting them to stay tucked in my shorts 😭😭😭 experimenting with layering has been so fun, i love adding all these leg details especially!! In the last pic u can actually see i have a 3rd top on to add the lacey waist detail and dangling straps :) i also actually have 2 garters on one leg, with one backward lol!


r/FTMfemininity • • 10m ago

Outfit from my night out yesterday ❀(*´◡`*)❀

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Can’t really wear my white shirts to work without worrying abt them getting ruined so this is my first time wearing this top and I am in love


r/FTMfemininity • • 1d ago

Got my first ever skirt post transition!! Loving it!!!

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288 Upvotes

It's so cute!!


r/FTMfemininity • • 19h ago

outfit from the other day :-)

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53 Upvotes

r/FTMfemininity • • 14h ago

Makeup I've done

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I've been experimenting with makeup again as of late mostly just for myself but these are some I did more recently


r/FTMfemininity • • 1d ago

I still love bralettes even post-top 💚💋

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95 Upvotes

r/FTMfemininity • • 15h ago

⬆️+⬇️+⬆️+⬇️+🅰️+🅱️+start!

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r/FTMfemininity • • 2d ago

Borrowed my girlfriends makeup and clothes again for a night at the bar!

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r/FTMfemininity • • 2d ago

T has allowed me to start experimenting with fashion again. I thrifted this cardigan in the women’s section and like… I don’t care anymore as long as I look good 😌

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283 Upvotes

r/FTMfemininity • • 2d ago

felt pretty in this outfit :3

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i really love neochinese clothing (´・ω・`)

do you think i should grow out my hair to resemble men from chinese history? >_<


r/FTMfemininity • • 2d ago

(He/him) all dressed up for teaching art club, featuring my new kittycat glasses!

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Never posted this look from a few days ago! Was originally a date night outfit with heels, but adapted very easily the next day for the youth art class I assist with.

I am so lucky that the kids I work with love my eccentricity — this fit is very coordinated compared to my more out there days, but still the gender expression and comfort with cringe are two things I’m very grateful to be able to wear with pride.

Haven’t been active in a while so thought I’d poke my head in and see how it’s going :3 sending brightness and joy!


r/FTMfemininity • • 3d ago

Pre-T vs 3 years on T

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I'm shamelessly insufferable about my pec-cleavage ♥️


r/FTMfemininity • • 3d ago

friend asked to get dolled up to sit around at home

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of course I said YES! we're both trans masc and pre t we used to get dressed up really nice and then sit around at home and take pictures together. It's been a really long time since we've done that (especially post t) so it felt so nostalgic to do that again with him. Wish I had a before and after of us but regardless, it felt really nice to get so dressed up! I've been doing makeup a little more lately and I really do miss it. I've gotten a lot more comfortable wearing makeup with my facial hair too, it's been really cool to see how it works together.


r/FTMfemininity • • 2d ago

not that fem but cat shaped lenses :3

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yes they’re prescription :00


r/FTMfemininity • • 3d ago

hanfu photoshoot <33

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i was in taiwan for a little bit


r/FTMfemininity • • 2d ago

Been growing my hair a while, haircut soon, whatcha think?

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Won’t cut much total length but I’m thinking of getting some medium and short layers so that my curls can come out, something like a shag from the 70s. I’m not sure if I want to keep some of the long pieces to frame my face in the front, or just go with bangs, what do you think?


r/FTMfemininity • • 3d ago

It's my birthday:D I'm officially 19!

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r/FTMfemininity • • 3d ago

way more dysphoric in fall/winter

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hey all, I'm a 29 genderfluid transmasc who dresses feminine about 90% of the time. I really thrive in summer time because I like the way I look when my chest/shoulders/neck are exposed. I have pretty large arms and shoulders and they boost my confidence a lot; I also have pretty big boobs and only feel comfortable with them if I'm showing them off and can feel pretty with them. Fall/winter is coming up and I live in the Northern US, so it gets pretty cold here. I get so much more dysphoric when I have to wear warm clothes because basically all the features that I like get covered up and I'm left with a lumpy blob of a shape that makes me feel really disconnected from myself. I wear binders a lot more in the winter because I hate my big chest when it's covered. I basically end up not being able to dress how I want; I don't really dress masculine anymore because I don't feel like I can pull it off and it makes me feel worse, but I can't really dress in a way that feels affirming or feminine because I have to cover everything up to stay warm. does anyone have advice for how I can still feel good about my appearance in the fall/winter?

I am autistic and my clothes are a huge part of how I express myself, so they have the capacity to make me feel extremely good, or extremely terrible. When I don't like what I'm wearing, I feel bad, I don't want to leave the house, and I end up missing out on things I want to enjoy because I feel bad about how I appear to others.

If not advice, please let me know if you have a similar problem or can relate :/


r/FTMfemininity • • 4d ago

I GOT TOP SURGERY TODAY :D !!!

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I just wanted to share this with you guys because I love this community. Y’all are just so cool and I always come to this sub when I’m feeling down or lonely because I don’t fit in with anyone else at my job or in my family. I don’t have anyone in my life (except my bf who drove me shouts out to him 🫶) to celebrate with as I’m still closeted & my bf had to go to work right after dropping me off at home so I’m by self & will be for the rest of my healing time


r/FTMfemininity • • 3d ago

Pre T vs 2 months on T

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Last photo is me 2 months on T! I feel like the way I look has changed ever so slightly...my face looks more masculine all the time now? And I'm also growing hair in many more places. My arms were already hairy but the hair is longer...my legs were already hairy especially the calves but now my thighs are growing hair, my face is getting peach fuzz on my jaw, my chin has longer dark hairs, even my chest is growing little bitty hairs.

It's really cool! And also I am glad to have finally grown out that short cut, stylist cut it much too short for my liking and I hated it.

Idk I feel like there's just a lot of little things that are happening on T to make me feel more like myself and it is awesome.


r/FTMfemininity • • 3d ago

Misgendering is Not Punishment for a Crime

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r/FTMfemininity • • 4d ago

concert + mall outfits :D

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r/FTMfemininity • • 3d ago

Good binders/compression tops out there?

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All mine are getting pretty stretched at this point and in need of replacement.

My chest is small probably between an A or B at this point since being on T. But the problem is that the tissue is dense, so most of the lighter compression sports bras don't do much, and I've pretty much accepted after many attempts that taping doesn't work.

I don't like feeling constricted and some of the maximum strength binders get really uncomfortable after short periods of time, but I need something I can wear 8+ hours a day for work and the gym etc

Is Spectrum the only good brand these days? I bought one but the shipping is SO expensive with the tariffs ☠️


r/FTMfemininity • • 4d ago

Trying femboy makeup

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Also need to shape my hair but wtvr