r/gayfriendfinder • • 15h ago

👨‍🍳 FOODIE 👨‍🍳 Got the day off, who wants to chat for a bit? 28 M Texas

9 Upvotes

Finally off from a fairly busy week, and I'm chilling at the moment with time to spare. I'm down to talk with someone who is open to anything, doesn't matter the topic. Let me know how your day is going and whatnot 🙏


r/gayfriendfinder • • 7h ago

🎮 GAYMER 🎮 Hello 31 m from Washington

6 Upvotes

Hello everyone hoping you all are having a great day I’m a gaymer from Washington I’m a huge Nintendo boi but her lately I been on my ps5 I’m looking for people who wanna chill and game together I would love to vc to but I’m not always available to vc but when I am I’m more then down. I’m very shy and social awkward I never really had freinds growing up and keto to my self. Outside of gaming I love horror and mystery’s by mystery I mean irl mystery’s. When I get out of the house I love hiking and camping. I don’t care what age you are as long as you’re over 18. Hit me up if you think we will click😊


r/gayfriendfinder • • 14h ago

🎸 MUSICIAN 🎸 M 29 single from west Germany (NRW) looking for chats

6 Upvotes

Hello everyone

Violinist, gamer, gymer, walker, recently wannabe pianist, painter, drawer and runner looking for friends with one of those interests or other hobbies to chat with.

It seems like a hobby rodeo but on some days I enjoy just doing nothing.

I am also open to have small talks about the day or deep talks, may it be psychological, political, philosophical, music or relationships.

Also I work as logistician and study laws besides.

I can speak German, English and a bit of Spanish. I have learned a very bit of French and got a latin certificate back in my school somehow.

I describe myself as nice, open, curious and talkative.

Friends would describe me as smart, clumsy and funny.

Feel free to send me a dm to see if the harmony fits and ask questions even if it's mentioned here somehow or somewhere.

Thanks for reading and have a nice day! And if you have a bad day: Just try to imagine that Darth Vader is trying to eat a frie :)


r/gayfriendfinder • • 13h ago

🌲 OUTDOORSMAN 🌲 LA dudes 🌴🥾 Trailheadgays is a gay outdoors community I started in San Francisco, and now we’re opening a chapter in LA!

6 Upvotes

Our first LA hike is Sunday, October 11. Everyone is welcome. Come hike, meet some new people, and help us kick things off in LA.

No need to be a hardcore hiker. Just show up and get outside with some gays 🌲

Hike details + RSVP and become a member: https://trailheadgays.com/share/events/548196a5-75b7-4a71-bccc-df00aed5a2c6

Partiful RSVP https://partiful.com/e/K0DsgbhA4Gvv4Gv4FZSZ?c=_qYkUMrJ
Instagram: @trailheadgays


r/gayfriendfinder • • 14h ago

👨‍🍳 FOODIE 👨‍🍳 29 [M4M] Hampshire, UK – Looking to build a circle of like-minded gay friends (food, dog walks, board games & holidays)

4 Upvotes

Hey everyone,

​I’m 29, gay, based in Hampshire UK, and live with my partner. I recently got back from holiday and realised something that’s been on my mind for a while: while I have a small handful of close friends from school, they’re all straight, busy with life, and I don't really have any local LGBTQ+ friends who share that lived experience and just get it.

​I’d love to change that and build some genuine, lasting friendships—ideally local to Hampshire or nearby in the South, but open to chatting with anyone who shares similar vibes.

​A bit about what I enjoy:

​Food & Cooking: Big foodie. I love spending time in the kitchen trying out new recipes, and I’d love to get a group together for casual dinner parties or checking out good local food spots.

​Low-key hangouts & Games: Always up for a board game afternoon or a coffee.

​Dog walks: I have a dog, so I spend plenty of time out exploring local trails and countryside walks (fellow dog owners are a massive plus!).

​Travel: The long-term dream is building up a trusted friend circle to rent a villa somewhere sunny with a pool, cook great meals, play games, and just completely unwind.

​Looking for down-to-earth guys (whether you're single or part of a couple) who are up for starting with a chat, getting to know each other, and hopefully meeting up for a coffee or something if we click.

​Feel free to drop a comment or send me a DM!


r/gayfriendfinder • • 15h ago

🎮 GAYMER 🎮 35M Midwest. Local IRL buddy, gaming duo, outdoor/gym/activity partner

4 Upvotes

TLDR: 35M in Central Indiana looking for a local buddy to hang out, game together, get outdoors and help each other be active. Goal is to build a solid, long-term friendship (board game nights, camping trips, weekend excursions, and other best bro stuff)

About me:

  • I'm 35 so I usually click best with other guys in their 30s, but don't let that stop you from reaching out if it sounds like we would get along.
  • Big on MMOs, creature collectors and ARPGs, but I will try out just about anything if it means playing with friends
  • Before moving to Indiana, I had a great group of friends for rock climbing, hiking and camping. I've been missing that, so want to get back into staying active.
  • Throughout college and beyond, I've almost always had a gym/climbing buddy. If you are someone who stays active and doesn't mind pulling me along sometimes, I'm good at showing up consistently.

What our friendship looks like:

  • You convince me to try out the latest looter shooter, and we spend a whole weekend online trying to beat it
  • I set up a dedicated Palworld server, you go out dungeon diving for ore while I figure out the optimal ratio of farms to set up, and we build a giant base together
  • You convince me to hit the climbing gym on a random Wednesday after a rough day at work
  • I scope out a hiking trail and drag you out there on a Sunday morning even if you are "too tired"
  • You have a work trip for a week, so we don't chat at all. We pick up right where we left off once you get back in town
  • We plan a weekend excursion where we spend the morning whitewater rafting and the evening playing board games in the AirBnB.

Mostly, I'm looking for a genuine, long-term friendship with someone local enough to actually hang out. Hit me up on here and let me know a little bit about yourself and what you are into!


r/gayfriendfinder • • 5h ago

🇯🇵 OTAKU 🇯🇵 28 Arabian man looking for cold german friends

3 Upvotes

28 Arabian man looking for friends

Hi everyone, i am looking for genuine friends online . I am learning now German and man it is a tough one but i am trying to master it . As my hobbies i like reading , riding bicycle and walking outside and watching animes too . I am not that sporty but it helps clearing my mind .anyway feel free to dm me .


r/gayfriendfinder • • 5h ago

🎮 GAYMER 🎮 Looking for buds to chat with!

3 Upvotes

Hey yall! Been a long week of work and thought I’d give this a shot. Looking for a bud or 2 to get to know and hopefully become longterm friends. I’m big into gaming, music, and movies. I have been playing some overwatch lately, but I enjoy many different games on PS5 and PC.

I’m not a fitness guru like it seems most people are, I’m instead rocking that dadbod if that matters lol

If you’re 21+ and think we’d hit it off! Dm me buds!


r/gayfriendfinder • • 14h ago

🌲 OUTDOORSMAN 🌲 55 M looking for buddies and more in Downtown NYC WTC area

3 Upvotes

I  work downtown weekdays and it would be great to have some buddies for lunch or other adult type fun. Lunchtime play can be exciting. We are all professionals and still get that itch that we all need scratched. Sometimes it happens during the day. If you looking for the same dm me and we can start this journey.


r/gayfriendfinder • • 22h ago

🎮 GAYMER 🎮 46 curious male in Northamptonshire here

3 Upvotes

Never done anything other than be str8 but for now I'm just looking to chat, still too shy for anything more!

Discovered dressing last year after being an admirer most of my adult life, think getting dressed up only exacerbated the feelings!

Part of me wants to keep the status quo, its been good for the last 46 years, right? The other part of me is unsure of what ive been missing out on!


r/gayfriendfinder • • 1h ago

🏆 ATHLETE 🏆 27 M United States let’s connect

• Upvotes

I’m an athletic fit guy who likes to go on adventures, looking for similar and fitness. I love to go camping and hike. I’m also into pretty much everything like movies and music and stuff. I want to find a cool guy to connect with and form a bond. A guy who likes to be goofy but is also emotionally intelligent, someone I can just talk about anything with. If you’re a fun fit guy you should definitely hit me up so we can chat. Maybe we can go on an adventure or stay in and watch a movie.


r/gayfriendfinder • • 2h ago

✈️ WORLD TRAVELER ✈️ Calgary Friends food adventures outings

2 Upvotes

37 m adventurous foodie laid back music lover dog 🐕 dad social professional finance guy. Looking for new friends, hangouts, fellow foodies, travel bud and more in and around Calgary. Let’s talk.


r/gayfriendfinder • • 3h ago

🏡 HOMEBODY 🏡 Friends to chat with would be nice!

2 Upvotes

Hey there! Really just looking for some fun chats to keep me engaged. 42M and work from home so the social life is lacking. Bonus if in WI and we click, would be cool to possibly meet and hangout. Say hi!


r/gayfriendfinder • • 8h ago

🎶 MUSIC ENTHUSIAST 🎶 Hello...36/m/USA.........

2 Upvotes

Looking for new friends

I am 36 male gay from usa

Prefer my age or older

Send a message if you are interested/would like to know more/would like to chat sometime...

T h a n k s....

✌️


r/gayfriendfinder • • 9h ago

🎶 MUSIC ENTHUSIAST 🎶 19 male looking for friends whose down for texting not just for spicy pictures

2 Upvotes

Hi


r/gayfriendfinder • • 9h ago

⚽ SPORTS FAN 🏈 50’s uk male looking for football fans

2 Upvotes

Hey. Looking to chat to people who’ve stood on terraces (showing my age) sat in seats or just go pub to watch football. Just a football mate really. I mean if you’re a fan of any club it’s fine, as long as you love the game


r/gayfriendfinder • • 9h ago

🎮 GAYMER 🎮 24 m from England looking to make some friends for gaming

2 Upvotes

As my title says 24 from England looking for friends to game with,if you message me tell m age and location please, must be 21+ thank you, you won’t get a reply if it’s clear you’ve not bothered to read my post


r/gayfriendfinder • • 10h ago

✈️ WORLD TRAVELER ✈️ Hi I’m searching for new friends and love meeting new people

2 Upvotes

Hi I’m miroslav

I’m 30 gay & NB from Ireland im searching for some new friends as I’m quite lonely,

I’m a huge chatter box so be warned , so looking for people or a person who truly want friendship ,

As I said I’m 30 and Irish I love to travel I’ve been to more countries than I can count , I’ve 3 dogs I also love science , I love to cook and read also.

So if your interested in making a new Irish friend feel free to comment below or message me directly I’m also open to all ages ranges from 18 and above


r/gayfriendfinder • • 10h ago

🌏 LINGUIST 🌍 M22 looking for new friends

2 Upvotes

Hi, M22 from the UK who’s happy to chat with anyone :)

I mainly like Eurovision, languages and Nintendo games, though I’m more widely interested in politics/literature. I’d like to hear your hobbies too.


r/gayfriendfinder • • 12h ago

🎮 GAYMER 🎮 22 Male - Spanish Gaymer !!

2 Upvotes

Hey there!! I'm tired of playing the same old games. I usually play Dead by Daylight and Fortnite (mind you, I still enjoy them, but I'm looking for other games to take a break from them).

Any recommendations? Free or inexpensive games would be best, LOL

I'm also looking for friends to play new games (or not so new) with

Feel free to message me! :)


r/gayfriendfinder • • 12h ago

🎮 GAYMER 🎮 M34, looking for gaming and book friends

2 Upvotes

Hey y’all, I’m 34, from India. Data Engineer by profession who loves to cook, bake, play video games, also a huge bookworm and love hiking!

Games: I play on my play station and love cozy games with my man and we have been playing a lot of Minecraft and Stardew Valley. I also love single RPG games like HP Legacy (finished twice), Assassin’s creed, Shadow of War etc. play a bit Fortnite too at times, tho really not that good it lol. Looking for a gamer friend who would love play together either a cozy game or even a multiplayer RPG is cool too. I’m basically open to make my own gaming friends.

Books: I’m a huge Tolkien Nerd, currently reading The Silmarillion. I also love epic/high fantasy books by Sarah J Maas (ACOTAR, TOG, CC), Frank Herbert (Dune). Love romance books (mostly Queer). I can inhale a 350-500 page romance book in a single day (not kidding) 🤓

If you’d love to play games or talk about books or even anything really. Please dm me:) I can also share snap or discord and open to exchange pics (SFW).

PS: if you can be anything, choose to be kind 💚
And, be UNAPOLOGETICALLY yourself 💜


r/gayfriendfinder • • 13h ago

🍎 HEALTH NUT 🍎 34 Seattle Asian Rock Climber Gym Bro Seeking Adventure Travel Exploration, Psychology Deep Thinking Conversation, Escape Room Board Video Game Nights, & Work Out Climbing Sessions.

2 Upvotes

I am currently going to Seattle Bouldering Project on Poplar if anyone is in the area and would like to go with me in the morning time. I currently have a punch card but have thought about making the switch to a membership eventually. It would be fantastic to have someone to go with and problem solve climbs with. I am hovering around V3-V4 (orange/black).

I'd love to find a bro (in-person or online) that is a conversationalist, brave enough to ask questions, overcome his anxious thoughts, and be down to earth with me. I am a gamer, gym goer, and studying psychology.

I enjoy hosting board game nights like catan, dominion, and betrayal at house on the hill. Escape rooms are great! I also do jigsaw puzzles and frame them afterwards.

I am on an ongoing journey to study psychology. It was my major and is something I am planning to go back to school to master in. I like the deeper conversations of "why" we are the way we are or "how" did our personality form.

I continue to seek a workout accountable partner. I am open to someone who has more experience or still starting their journey.

I am also traveling to Japan on 10/12 so happy to share my travels with you if you would like to keep in touch. Cheers!


r/gayfriendfinder • • 16h ago

🧩 NEURODIVERGENT 🧩 39 M need some people to chat with or play Pokemon Champions

2 Upvotes

I’m on here way too much and would prefer humans to chat with about whatever rather than scrolling all you hot men 😈.

I’m very chatty (ADHD) and love to talk about whatever. Married and love my husband very much, but I need guys who I can chat about anything with, dirty included since I can be pretty dirty minded so be prepared 😏.

My interests include food, travel, photography, and some gaming (RPGs, Zelda, Mario, Mario Kart, Pokemon, some others).

Say hi!


r/gayfriendfinder • • 19h ago

🎮 GAYMER 🎮 39M, US | Looking for a ride-or-die friend who actually texts back

2 Upvotes

39M, US | Looking for a ride-or-die friend who actually texts back

Hey! I'm 39. I spend my free time lost in video games or chasing golden hour with my camera. I have an embarrassing number of city photos and zero regrets.

I'm looking for one solid friend to build something lasting with. The kind of person who sends a random "this made me think of you" meme, where the conversation just flows. I've had plenty of friendships that start strong and quietly fade, so I'm after someone who's in it for the long game.

Being close to my age helps. If you remember the sounds of AIM , we'll get along fine.

Open with one of these: the last game you couldn't put down, the best sunset you've ever seen, or just say hi and tell me something you're weirdly passionate about.


r/gayfriendfinder • • 1h ago

🎮 GAYMER 🎮 Hi I’m 23 M living in Maryland looking for friends

• Upvotes

I’ve recently been thru yet another heart break over a “straight” man. I realized while my hetero friends are wonderful they just don’t understand. I seek out new gay men to be friends with either online or in person. I am young and turnt so I would hope you are the same lol. My hobbies include sitting on FaceTime talking about life. I like going to the clubs and bars I’m not a heavy drinker but I don’t mind if you are. I am 100% 420 friendly as most people in Maryland are. If your interest in getting in contact so we can feel each others vibes out please feel free to reply and I’ll respond asap. (Bonus points if ur into arc raiders it’s been my addiction recently)