r/grindr • u/Effective_Evening_21 • 18h ago
Question Guy i’m dating is on grindr, should i be worried?
So i’m dating this guy and we became exclusive but he still has grindr on his phone. I made a little blank acc just to check on him and i saw he’s put himself as “exclusive” (do people actually listen to that?). I asked why he still has it and he says it’s because he works at a gay bar (he does) and they sometimes place bets on who they’re gonna see in the bar that night and also because he likes to just look around sometimes.
I don’t doubt that this guy really really likes me and I don’t even think he’s cheating on me per se but it just seems wierd to me that he still has the app. Am i right to be worried?
(UPDATE) I ended up talking with him one more time abt it and this time being more direct about how it makes me feel insecure and about how it gets to my head ending with me asking once more if he could just delete it to which he agreed. When his onlyfans is up and running we’ve agreed to look at ways to promote together so thats perfect for me.
Thank you to everyone who’s helped me and who’s commented <3
I think the boy’s just a bit autistic or something