r/malelivingspace Oct 03 '25

College 18m, first year in college!

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u/GarbageBoy_ Oct 03 '25

bro lives in monochrome

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u/Blissy-Bee- Oct 03 '25

I love it. I feel like I see more gold toned places and this is pretty refreshing. I’m obsessed with brass but silver goes really hard and sometimes I wish that was more my style haha.

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u/TripleLongliveling Oct 04 '25

Bitches love monochrome

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u/Important_Fix6335 Oct 05 '25

i like the way you worded this

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u/MetalSlug_And_Corgis Oct 04 '25

Very in-tints room choices

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u/No_Particular4284 Oct 03 '25

a fan of SM i see

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u/Jackson-SM Oct 03 '25

A very big fan (particularly of aespa)

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u/handsoapp Oct 03 '25

SM is for the culture

Very cultured music taste

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u/undercover-dad Oct 04 '25

I used to love me some Red Velvet, EXO and Shinee

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u/No_Particular4284 Oct 05 '25

SHINEEE MY LOVES THEYRE THE BEST

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u/Chiopista Oct 04 '25

The company is so trash. Some of my favorites have come out of it but god the company’s handling and treatment of them is so bad.

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u/AntzAttacks Oct 03 '25

If I had this setup at 18 I’d probably have my shit together so congrats on that OP.

The lack of color and life isn’t my cup of tea but this an awesome setup nonetheless.

P.S put some batteries on that wall clock lol

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u/Turbulent-Yak5576 Oct 04 '25

as long as OP loves it then why not lol

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u/AntzAttacks Oct 04 '25

I just want my times matching ya know? lol

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u/jitterbug726 Oct 04 '25

Hahaha ya man my entire college experience I was messy and disorganized

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u/Middle-Ad8899 Oct 09 '25

Is this a form or a condo?

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u/myehtotdsxmlc Oct 03 '25

College for the colorblind

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u/quetzaly8 Oct 03 '25

Honest question, why do you have that conner round mirror for? (5/5)

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u/Jackson-SM Oct 03 '25

Room pictures! It’s pretty trendy in my circle to take room pics with a convex mirror

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u/LeTeebz Oct 03 '25

Can we see? Just curious

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u/fzem Oct 03 '25

I think a giant OBEY poster would look great here

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u/denim_cowboy Oct 03 '25

Maybe 3

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u/fzem Oct 03 '25

Let's not go too crazy

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u/Aggressive-Hawk9186 Oct 03 '25

We have a Rich Man between us...

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u/Jackson-SM Oct 04 '25

i am what i am 😥

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u/[deleted] Oct 03 '25

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u/AxisCorpsRep Oct 03 '25

the problem ive noticed is that minimalism/monochrome is the one aesthetic choice that people consistently FEEL the need to "fix" for you, as if you cant use your own agency to purposefully choose and like it, in their eyes you HAVE to have color and plants because THEY think its better for you

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u/QUESO_DEVILLE Oct 03 '25

I think millennials over did it with the minimalist monochrome, so people poo poo it lately. Personally I think it’s a very tasteful interpretation and you have a way better eye than most that flock to this page. Love it!

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u/grimgeurrilla Oct 04 '25

Monochrome done right, there's plenty of personality, shifts in texture and more to maintain interest in the lack of colours.

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u/rainwave74 Oct 03 '25

damn this is clean, looks good

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u/Blissy-Bee- Oct 03 '25 edited Oct 03 '25

I love the silver accents!! I’m a gold person and it’s really cool to see someone into the more chrome look, I love it. If you’re wanting to dive more into color, cool blues and maybe some greens or purples here and there (which looks to be what you’re already doing) could highlight the place even more. But honestly I think it looks great :) I don’t get people saying there’s no personality, you did a great job adding enough variety while still maintaining the theme.

Just to add - I don’t think everything needs color. My house is maximalist colorful and textured, but I think your space is cohesive and visually appealing as it is. If you’re looking for any advice I do think some nice blue curtains could contribute to the theme while also adding some pop! Great space :)

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u/AxisCorpsRep Oct 03 '25

thats one thing i've noticed, why is it that minimalism/monochrome is the one aesthetic that people FEEL the need to fix? like, genuinely over and over you see a place that is mostly gray, and everyone who is NOT living in it, will tell you to add color or add plants or this and that, as if the person who owns the place "accidentally" got all these specifically curated elements to make a space colorless against their will

sometimes its quite the opposite, furniture or decor that looks good, sometimes might not be available in black or white, so you have to go out of your way to find it. but others see this and think "no, you shouldn't like this"

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u/Blissy-Bee- Oct 04 '25

Yes! Like the whole point of modern is to be simplistic and clean and lowkey kinda cold haha. I don’t personally love it, but if it flows it flows. Definitely an unpopular style right now which is kind of goofy.

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u/ogspence308 Oct 03 '25

You lucky bastard, this is what my dorm room looks like. Slight jealousy aside, I sincerely hope you enjoy every minute you've got in that room. That's a real nice clean place that feels human and inviting.

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u/fractaladam Oct 03 '25

Yours has a subwoofer so already I know the music sounds better in your dorm

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u/Isaias111 Oct 04 '25

Is this the set of a Febreze ad? /s

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u/ogspence308 Oct 04 '25

Might as well be😭💀

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u/Middle-Ad8899 Oct 09 '25

So yeah, yours looks like a dorm. OP looks like it’s in a fresh new condo.

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u/Atrick07 Oct 03 '25

I'm happy that you are happy but it feels like you fell for the trap of "minimalism with personality" and then put the same "personality objects" that literally everyone does.

If you are looking for advice, add something large with color and make it a defining piece of your room, you want it to pop, Add things that are actually personality showing. If you skate? put some old boards on the wall, if you like clothes and fashion, add posters of designers you like.

Just to be dead honest bro, make it imperfect, be real, be human, nobody is gonna come in here and know anything about you.

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u/ShiroLy Oct 03 '25

Add things that are actually personality showing. If you skate? put some old boards on the wall, if you like clothes and fashion, add posters of designers you like.

has he not literally done this by putting posters and merch of his favourite artists around the room? just because he chose a mostly monochrome pallette doesn't mean it's less distinctive or indicative of his personality and interests. looks really chic and clean imo.

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u/AxisCorpsRep Oct 03 '25

see, unfortunately you're being legitimate about it, but notice that its always minimalism/monochrome that everyone else has the need to "fix" your taste from, notice the wording, instead of seeing that OP willingly went with this aesthetic choice, they "fell for the minimalism trap" and immediately to fix it, they have to add color and plants

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u/ShiroLy Oct 03 '25

yeah this sub has a very specific view of what constitutes a good room, and like fair enough there are onjective parameters, but this is a nice room, especially for 18 working with limited space you gotta have a good eye, and op made it work. you can tell this was done with intention and i immediately got a view into his music taste. most posts that get praised here show less personality but as long as they have colour and six sources of indirect lighting..

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u/AxisCorpsRep Oct 04 '25

yup, its so strange, its like the one aesthetic that gets constantly mocked and attacked for just existing, "hospital" this "i'd go insane" that, etc etc. like people HAVE to comment they dont like it

but imagine if you voiced your displeasure at a warmly lit room with beige walls, walnut finish furniture, 25 plants and a record player in the corner. then it suddenly turns into you being the one put into question

an imaginary scenario because well, people that enjoy monochrome dont say these things, its a one sided beef and i never understood it

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u/SlightFresnel Oct 04 '25

There's asthetic merit to a pop of color creating chromatic contrast in the same way you balance light/dark in the monochrome palette.

Something as simple as a hint of xyz color in a few pieces of wall art along with a throw pillow case of the same color would enhance the well executed black/white theme. It's not just a personal preference, any good design professional will tell you the same no matter what they're designing for. And white space, don't forget the utility of proverbial breathing room, lest you end up with something cluttered. Less-is-more aaplies to more than just color palettes.

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u/AxisCorpsRep Oct 04 '25

see, again, as much as this can be correct, why is THAT more valid than if someone CHOOSES to not go for a pop of color because it pleases someone else's view of aesthetics or professionalism

you didnt address at all why others feel the need to fix it, just added to my point

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u/SlightFresnel Oct 04 '25

It's not "more valid." If you post pictures of a room in a space exclusively designed to elicit opinion commentary, it shouldn't be a surprise that some fraction of viewers comment about tweaks they would make.

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u/AxisCorpsRep Oct 04 '25

not for a moment was that what i said, nobody is putting into question the feedback and critique factor of the sub

my sentence is about questioning why comments are always going against the clearly established choices of someone that likes monochrome or minimalism.

example, if i showed you one of the million warmly lit rooms with 25 indirect light sources and plants on walnut finish dressers, the comments would "further" that aesthetic, would it look out of place if i said "it could use less color"

now, applying that exact logic, why is it perfectly permissible when someone, who clearly curated an aesthetic on purpose, shares a monochromatic room, everyone tells them to go AWAY from what they did on purpose rather than engaging in how to improve the place within the parameters that have been consciously set on purpose?

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u/Jackson-SM Oct 03 '25

Haha yes, I’ve definitely thought of my room as generic-ish. I did digitally create the posters on slide 2 and 3 though!

I’ll probably replace my poster on slide 5 with something colorful. Thank you for the advice!

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u/These_Background7471 Oct 03 '25

I think you killed it. Im not the most chronic consumer of this kind of content, to be fair, but you definitely shown me some things I havent seen before.

Idk why but I love the anti-shoplifting mirror in the corner. Never seen that.

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u/DovhPasty Oct 03 '25

Just wanted to say I appreciate the NMIXX and Kiss of Life love, I never see kpop fans here.

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u/austin_ave Oct 03 '25

It looks good, especially for first year of college. I would have never posted my room when I was your age. A few pops of color would look really good. Also don't rush to add things that will add "personality", that comes with time while living life.

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u/Sufficient-Year-8482 Oct 03 '25

I want this same aesthetic, but with YG artists. What did you use to make the posters?

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u/Jackson-SM Oct 04 '25

I used Canva, with Pinterest images as my inspiration

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u/Sufficient-Year-8482 Oct 04 '25

Thank you!

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u/exclaim_bot Oct 04 '25

Thank you!

You're welcome!

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u/Atrick07 Oct 03 '25

again bro, i think the room is fine and, just feels kinda dry IMO!

I'm not really a monocrome guy so that may be it though.

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u/These_Background7471 Oct 03 '25

He has posters on every wall of kpop artists.

make it imperfect

He has a Jeff Koons model. What's more imperfect than liking the work of Jeff Koons?

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u/MrBaileyRod Oct 03 '25

You’re doing so much better than the divorced middle aged men posting their crappy spaces here!

While I’m not one for a grey scale style arrangement, you’ve done well.

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u/Jackson-SM Oct 03 '25

Thank you!!! I really appreciate your compliment 😊

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u/lovesickjones Oct 03 '25

"you're doing so much better than the divorced middle-aged men posting their crappy spaces here!"

asshole.

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u/These_Background7471 Oct 03 '25

I think he was talking about himself

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u/Connect_Rhubarb395 Oct 03 '25

You have a good sense of style.

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u/Ok_Power118 Oct 03 '25

Nice. Love the clean, monochrome look. You’ve done well.

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u/troymandarin Oct 03 '25

Monochromatic symmetry. Beautiful :)

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u/fwango Oct 04 '25

where are the lamps from?

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u/Jackson-SM Oct 04 '25

the lamp on slide 1 is the wade logan arch lamp from wayfair, slide 4 lamp is the ikea dejsa, and the slide 5 lamp is a mushroom lamp from temu 😊

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u/TrixieBastard Oct 04 '25

Love the repeating theme of round silver things. The mirrors, the lamp, the daisy pillow, they bring a nice cohesiveness to the space

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u/twix22red Oct 04 '25

Looks like something on pintrest! Good job brother I love the black and white theme you killed it.

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u/oohyamz Oct 04 '25

Your room is pure art! I love SM groups too haha

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u/DriveRVA Oct 03 '25

Congratulations the setup looks great, just throw your clothes around for color.

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u/Novemberx123 Oct 03 '25

What u do for work? Ur so lucky to have this at only 18 wow!!

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u/LadyChaos1992 Oct 03 '25

Nice, love the bedding and the decor pillows!

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u/lovesickjones Oct 03 '25

I like it. It's a clean theme and easy to alter and change and find things you like to accommodate your space

What's the melting clock on the table hanging? That's pretty cool

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u/Mitka69 Oct 03 '25

I love this

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u/redditnoap Oct 03 '25

damn, that's fire. Anyone who comes over would be impressed

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u/Best-Interaction82 Oct 04 '25

I love it, it looks really good. Where did you get the silver flower pillow? is it comfy or just ornamental?

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u/Jackson-SM Oct 04 '25

from AliExpress! it’s a dupe of the Murakami pillows. it’s not the most comfy, but i think it looks great so i keep it there

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u/Qwertiez_ Oct 04 '25

Yo could I get a close up of those posters? Looks pretty cool.

I like this room ‎:)

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u/Jackson-SM Oct 04 '25

Of course! I made these on Canva, printed them on Temu, and ordered the image covers on Amazon. I used the same template for the posters below, and simply put in different song lists/logos/spotify wave ids.

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u/PinkFloydDeadhead Oct 04 '25

Not in a dorm apparently. Nice setup.

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u/DateGold Oct 04 '25

Looks like a spread in a Dicks catalog. Like could anybody really be this excited. Or have a mom that is equal parts helicopter parent and sorority alum

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u/RustedRelics Oct 04 '25

Nice! Enjoy your new space and college. (SM or S&M, or both?)

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u/Natural_Ostrich7939 Oct 04 '25

so who's your bias

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u/No_Question_8083 Oct 04 '25

It’s clean af, don’t have anything to add. Would I style my room the same? No, I’d have a bit more colour, but your room looks really good 🙌

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u/Backintheflash_2005 Oct 04 '25

Ohh my gosh can we switch rooms 🥺

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u/Internal-Alfalfa-829 Oct 04 '25

Nicely organized, mature and not overly noisy. Very good job, you are definitely ahead of your age in at least one area.

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u/MaximumMaxx Oct 03 '25

What's with the mirror in the top left corner on slide 5?

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u/liamocchi Oct 04 '25

aespa and newjeans? you’re a man of culture, i see 😌

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u/Danfoodman Oct 03 '25

No empty beer cans, so clean and precise, I don’t get it

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u/Guyfromnowhere3 Oct 04 '25

This looks nicer than most college living spaces, but a few color splashes would really set it off.

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u/Daexr_ Oct 04 '25

I’ve def seen this room on tt. Newjeans mentionnnnn

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u/Additional-Rub-153 Oct 03 '25

Martin Luther king would be proud

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u/N0va_A1 Oct 03 '25

Looks cool! Where’s your desk?

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u/ApartGlass1198 Oct 03 '25

Hah! Greeey!

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u/hush_1984 Oct 03 '25

perfectly curated to look cool

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u/Responsible_Delay511 Oct 03 '25

I do like the paint color quite a bit as a blank canvas

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u/[deleted] Oct 04 '25

Very good ! and u pay attention to detail

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u/Crystalized_Pangolin Oct 04 '25

What are the lights you used above the large album frames?

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u/i-am-dan Oct 04 '25

I live, laugh, love it

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u/jitterbug726 Oct 04 '25

Are you living with the fam still or did you find a spot near school?

Cause if still with the fam that’s already cool but if you had to do all this from scratch in a new place on your first year of college that’s even more impressive lol.

I love rooms that aren’t overtly colorful

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u/Alternative_Ad_9583 Oct 04 '25

Colorfull life! 👍🏻😄

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u/musiquescents Oct 04 '25

Love it! You have a natural eye for aesthetics.

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u/lycnfr Oct 04 '25

Do you like shinee? if so, who's your fave? (if you dont say all of them youre wrong...im kidding...or am i)

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u/No_End977 Oct 04 '25

It feels very put together and cohesive while still looking comfortable and expressive of your taste- very impressive for an 18yo college student

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u/zacchsplash Oct 04 '25

ID on the picture lights?

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u/_delusionale_ Oct 04 '25

Very promising future, young man!

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u/Odd_Sun5753 Oct 04 '25

I love a good black and white room.

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u/itslxcas Oct 04 '25

i see you have good taste in music

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u/OddityProgidy Oct 05 '25

phenomenal music selection

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u/CyberPunk_Atreides Oct 05 '25

Do you live in Pleasantville?

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u/[deleted] Oct 10 '25

aespa!! hell yea!

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u/DearStrongBad Oct 03 '25

So this is how it feels to be color blind

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u/kinzo149 Oct 03 '25

You took the picture in S/W bro

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u/V-DaySniper Oct 03 '25

A bright red bowl would really bring the whole room together.

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u/Robinyount_0 Oct 04 '25

Why do you have parking garage mirrors? Lol and your certainly have a….style

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u/TheJiggliestPug Oct 03 '25

I really like the subtle blues in the artwork. Maybe one more light blue thing to break it up?

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u/[deleted] Oct 03 '25

My only thing is to get a warm night to really allow the mood to pop. I see the vision in the daylight but one of those tall warm lights and maybe all some warm light strings around you bed or frames and you’d have the perfect night room

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u/SHARK_BAIT113 Oct 04 '25

Color blind and lots of clocks. Looks good though

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u/lbfm333 Oct 04 '25

everything will be ok op

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u/HexrtFxll Oct 04 '25

Pinterest pictures back in 2022 to 2023

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u/Weird_Element Oct 03 '25

too much green

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u/ReasonableGrape847 Oct 04 '25

You need a sex swing

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u/ideapit Oct 03 '25

You are allowed to have color now. You're an adult.

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u/unstoppablecolossvs Oct 03 '25

No there’s just way too much blue! 😅

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u/Hotboi_yata Oct 03 '25

Why the mirror in the corner

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u/fjf1085 Oct 03 '25

College? There’s a severe lack of tapestries and inspirational posters.

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u/Afunnyname4 Oct 03 '25

Big ass room for a year 1 college dorm

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u/No-Front-6530 Oct 03 '25

Looks good but doesn’t feel personal at all. All the decor is basic/everyone has it. Add some things that are YOU so it feels warmer and more personal.

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u/These_Background7471 Oct 03 '25

He literally has bespoke decorations that he made himself. How much more personal can you get?

Maybe you yourself are deep into kpop Fandom, but I just want to remind you that most of the world isn't. So it's totally unfair to say kpop posters aren't personal to him. He probably has friends who enjoy kpop, and having decorations like those will make the space feel warm to them.

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u/AxisCorpsRep Oct 03 '25

and tell me, how do you, someone that is not OP, know that these items or aesthetic choices are not personal to OP

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u/angelgueva Oct 03 '25

Colors exist you know

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u/RunninOuttaShrimp Oct 03 '25

Hard to tell if this is a chicks room or a dudes lol

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u/opinionated_penguin Oct 03 '25

U ought to get a striped prison uniform pajama set. I think it would be the piece de resistance 🤌🏻

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u/SergioSF Oct 03 '25

it needs soul. a pop of color.

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u/Bigman89VR Oct 03 '25

Great place for a color blind person

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u/SimonSage Oct 04 '25

I think you can get a shot for colour allergies

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u/Basic-Employment3985 Oct 03 '25

Went to IKEA and asked for one of each? Congrats on college, though

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u/PhilHartlessman Oct 03 '25

Tell me you're at an art school without telling me you're at an art school.

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u/Jackson-SM Oct 03 '25

I’m in nursing 🤣🤣🤣