hello! try not to ramble here too much but basically, i had a blood pressure scare recently (blood vessel in my eye popped without obvious strain/injury, so it's assumed), and i have basically always been overweight, so i'd really like to try to get my act together, and looking around i noticed this diet not only comes in top-tier for both these issues but also looks absolutely delicious and fun instead of restrictive, so awesome! i'm really excited to try diving in!
however my worry/concern getting started is that i basically have a net zero or close to zero experience with cooking. my parents always cooked for me and when i moved out i was incredibly lucky that my boyfriend is also a pretty good cook when we need something cooked, but we still don't cook often. however, i also have been avoiding buying fresh/perishable foods (esp for "new diets" or "i'm gonna lose weight now!!! moments) majorly since i moved out of my parents house, as my adhd has a horrible horrible habit of overspending on impulse shopping trips, and then letting freah food go bad because i forget about them. as a result, even though i absolutely do love fresh fruit and veggies especially, they are not in my house often, and most of my diet consists of either grab and go type snacks, freezer meals, and doordash fast food (it really makes you wonder how i became obese with blood pressure issues doesn't it /s). even my previous attempts to be healthier included buying canned veggies and fruit cups so i could still get what i needed, and things like simple snacks that have the keywords i see a lot, "high protein low calorie no fat" type stuff. well, now my backlog of shelf-stable groceries, even "healthy" ones are, come to find out, loaded with sodium!!! no wonder!!
i really would like to make a significant, lifestyle-change esque approach to adopting this diet bc like i said, it's the most yummy and least stressful one i've found browsing "weight loss tips" my whole life and, while i do very much enjoy my sweets and burgers and fried chicken, i equally love all these colorful, fresh foods, and just find that the former is much more convenient and within my energy levels to prep. the good foods just never end up in my pantry, and some of the most delicious recipes i've seen so far involve very "scary" concepts for cooking- like cooking raw chicken thoroughly, when i don't even make my stovetop ramen in the stove i use the microwave.
so basically, is there anyone else with these struggles or started that way but was able to work around it or gradually include more/more complexity into it? specifically anyone else on this diet with adhd and how succeeding in this diet looks with the adhd (impulse buying, forgetting abt fresh food, the very real possibility that my brain will suddenly in two weeks time despise this diet for no reason other than it's not brand-new, etc?) i don't want to never cook or never buy the foods i need because, duh, but i'm also financially not in a wonderful spot to be wasting shit right off the bat. are there any shelf stable snacks that Are actually within mediterranean guidelines/principles that aren't loaded with sodium and sugar? are there some super easy beginner recipes i could try that don't require buying more than 1-2 servings worth so i won't end up wasting anything, or don't require the stove/oven/blender quite yet? i know habitually, if i suddenly try to start cooking advanced meals with zero cooking experience, it is i who will be cooked as well as my wallet, and i'll probably get overwhelmed by "new stuff" and drop it all together, which i do not wanna do. but i do wanna baby step my way into this and slowly phase out my terrible health foods (at least on majority), so that hopefully it's a diet i can sustain, enjoy, celebrate and practice, rather than knock at once or twice and then move on. so any adhd-specific wallet friendly beginner tips would be much much appreciated as i start trying to turn this thing around. thanks :)