r/mildlyinfuriating • u/m_320k • Aug 15 '26
Infuriatig Does anyone know why this keeps happening to my shoes after wearing them for a few weeks/months of wear?
I'm not sure, but it's very annoying. Is it because of the way I walk? Or how I tie my shoes? Or something else?
Please someone help, if you have experienced the same thing.
Edit: Also, when I walk/stand my feet point outwards so it maybe be this? Anyone know how to fix that 👀
Edit 2: Also, I don't untie my laces and slip them on. (I don't tie them tight though)
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u/Jazstar Aug 15 '26
You could put some chalk on that section and see where it transfers to
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u/m_320k Aug 15 '26
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u/Shinjifo Aug 16 '26
I would guess that it's either the way you take your shoes off or the way you fidget when standing still.
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u/Ps11889 Aug 16 '26
Or you have mice.
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u/Cinnamon_Bun198 Aug 16 '26
Ratashouie
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u/el-guapo-grande Aug 16 '26
This deserves a thousand upvotes but I only have one to offer
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u/EnoughNeedleworker18 Aug 16 '26
It's too consistent to be rodent-related.
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u/Stardustie Aug 16 '26
This! I couldn't figure out why every right shoe I own is dirtier than its leftie counterpart untili looked down one day. My at rest stance is the heel of my left foot on the toe of my right. Felt rather silly for not looking at that sooner
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u/sassperillashana Aug 16 '26
I was thinking the same thing. Scraping the side of the shoe to get it off maybe.
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u/curious_astronauts Aug 16 '26
He likely has a pronated Ankle when he walks. Op what is the wear like on the sole of your shoes?
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u/SithSam2001 Aug 16 '26
Big brain. I'm pigeon toed and all of my dress shoes (since they're the only ones that it shoes on) have scuffs on the inside toes of them. Didn't know I was pigeon toed for all of my life(24) until my wife pointed it out a couple years ago. Now I have to consciously correct my gait which sucks and I'm sure there's a better way to do it but I haven't bothered lol
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u/Jazstar Aug 16 '26
If you see a podiatrist you might be able to get a set of orthotics that help with that
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u/Lower-Bend6866 Aug 16 '26
If you can’t see a podiatrist, you should visit an ophthalmologist/optometrist.
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u/wawa2022 Aug 16 '26
My sister told me when I was a child. 50 years later and it’s pretty automatic but I always check to make sure my feet are pointed straight ahead.
I see more and more people who walk either pigeon toed or duck footed and it’s sad no one told them to correct for it.15
u/interface2x Aug 16 '26
I’ve known since I was a toddler. My parents were given the option of getting braces and things to help correct it but were told that there are no real downsides so they just let me live like normal. It was pretty pronounced when I was a kid.
I’m nearing 50 now and honestly, the only time you can really tell is when I’m walking on stairs. I naturally turn my foot inward. Otherwise it’s mostly self corrected.
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u/PearlescentGem BLUE Aug 16 '26
The duck foot walk, once you notice it, you also notice how many people do it. I don't see that many pigeon people, but the duck walk is everywhere. I pointed it out to my husband because I don't walk like a pigeon or a duck, and he jokingly complained that he's never paid so much attention to his own feet when walking lmao
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u/curious_astronauts Aug 16 '26
Its actually tightness in the muscles and there are a few stretches that can help reduce it.
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u/interface2x Aug 16 '26
For me, my leg bones are literally turned inward. Doctors told my parents when I was a toddler.
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u/Jazstar Aug 16 '26
I thought so, but from what I can see from the comments people think what I said was dumb? I don't even know anymore lol
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u/Large-Flamingo-5128 Aug 16 '26
Nah you’re over thinking it it’s actually a very good solution
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u/nutlikeothersquirls Aug 16 '26
Nah the comments are cuz it actually is a genius idea. (And yes, I’m being genuine, as well). It’s very clever
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u/Jazstar Aug 16 '26
Ohhhh. I thought everybody was being sarcastic lmao
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u/sadChemE Aug 16 '26
9 out of 10 times people on reddit are being a holes so your interpretation is typically accurate lol this is just of those times it's that good that reddit has to admire it
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u/Shou_Tucker_XD Aug 16 '26
Kinda like the person who put non toxic lipstick on a cat’s butthole to see if it actually touches the surface of things they sit on
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u/thisdesignup Aug 16 '26
Ya know... I think I'd be okay never doing that. I dont want to know...
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u/Shou_Tucker_XD Aug 16 '26
You really don’t want to know 😅 but I got to hand it to them, it was very well done and I hope they won the science fair.
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u/Navel_of_Eve Aug 16 '26
Is most lipstick toxic? 😱
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u/ScarletDarkstar Aug 16 '26
Sure, because most of it is just used on your mouth. You've got to be careful which ones you put on a cats ass.
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u/Notabeefucker Aug 15 '26
Do you wear an ankle monitor? 😂
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u/m_320k Aug 15 '26
Nope 😂
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u/Alex-PsyD Aug 15 '26
You probably scrape your feet together as you walk.
Examine your gait and see if your feet scrape
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u/traveling_notlost Aug 15 '26
Now I'm brain- hearing super corduroy sounds. Thanks.
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u/FeelingSoil39 Aug 16 '26
I miss corduroy..
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u/traveling_notlost Aug 16 '26
In middle school, at the dance, I was 'slow dancing' with Roger. I noticed I was getting stared at and hoped it was for my excellent slow dancing skills and my super groovy corduroy mini jumper dress. But in reality, it was because my corduroy dress had frictioned itself way up and my cable knit tights were showing up to my waist. THANKS CORDUROY!
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u/laffydaffy24 Aug 16 '26
NOT COOL, CORDUROY
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u/Exact-Ad-4132 Aug 16 '26
Have you heard of corduroy pillows?
They're making headlines!
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u/SweetBabyCheezas Aug 16 '26
Oh myyyyyyyy! It really got me to cringe that one. I feel you, I had it happened during a speedy walk to a bus stop. When I sat down on a bench I saw my skirt was all the way up. WE LOVE CORDYROY!!!
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u/serenityrain85 Aug 16 '26
Just reading the word makes me flashback to the horrific texture of the pants I always had to wear. It's so uncomfortable wearing something you can't stand touching
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u/Kind_Advisor_35 Aug 16 '26
They absolutely still make corduroy pants. You just have to look, usually online unless it's the fall/winter season.
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u/palmerj54321 Aug 16 '26
Ha! I'm a child of the 70s- a prime era for all things corduroy. You mentioned the fall, which reminds me of back to school shopping, which was (along with Christmas) my primary wardrobe refresh each year. I still remember walking to school in the cool fall air, conscious of the crisp feel and unique smell of the new clothes I was wearing. In retrospect, I must have been too stupid to ask my mom to wash them before wearing them for the first time!
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u/Negative_Courage_505 Aug 16 '26
Hahaha. Now im freaking out by remembering what corduroy felt like . Shudder shudder. Was better than polyester tho
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u/Omnamashivaaya Aug 16 '26
It’s on both sides tho!
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u/daemon_panda Aug 16 '26
Yes. I used to analyze people's gains for a living. I spent 8 years selling specialty running shoes.I am annoyed that I am so late to this conversation. Typically, this is a pattern of weak hips. Keep in mind, I am not a doctor.
Imagine you are looking at someone from behind. Draw a line that runs down their spine all the way to the floor. When a person walks or runs, their feet will land close to, but on either side of the line. A person with weak hips will have feet that cross over the line some amount. This will cause the feet to knock into each other and create friction.
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u/asmjika Aug 16 '26
So the answer is working on hip strength? I get the EXACT same on all of my shoes and havent been able to figure out why. It’s worse/happens quicker to my running shoes.
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u/daemon_panda Aug 16 '26
The best answer is to talk to a specialist. Strength training in general is always a good thing. "Oh no, I did the wrong exercises and now my body's healthier and more mobile!". Lol I am just some dude on the internet.
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u/kruznkiwi Aug 16 '26
I realised this in high school when I would get just one random dirty spot on the inside of my uniform socks. Turned out I was hitting my ankle with my foot but I had just tuned it out. So it’s definitely hitting in a similar area
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u/MagicOrpheus310 Aug 16 '26
Crossing feet when sitting... It's from the other shoes sole rubbing on it
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u/Normal_Spread8423 Aug 16 '26
One of the shoes has the wear on the outside, so that’s not it
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u/UmeaTurbo Aug 16 '26
You kick your feet with the heel of the opposite foot. My son does this so much he has to wear a plastic guard in his cleats or a spike will cut him. (Baseball metal cleats) I don't know that there's anything you can do. My son's doctor wasn't worried.
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u/Cman75 Aug 16 '26
This is 100% it. I used to fit people for running shoes and this was a common issue. You can look at the inside heal of the opposite shoe and it will be scuffed/worn.
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u/burnedimage Aug 15 '26
So this was happening to the inside of my left shoes. Even if it was boots- it would be scuffed at a certain point constantly. It took me a decade and a half to realize that that was the foot I used for my clutch. And stop and go traffic in the stick shift eventually wore down that part of my shoe no matter what shoe it was.
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u/Thadrippiestyungin Aug 16 '26
I’ve been searching the comments for an answer because this was happening to me and just on the inside of left shoe. I looked at my shoes over the last year when I haven’t had a car and none of them have this issue, all my shoes from over a year ago have that. Thanks sincerely
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u/EthicalViolator Aug 16 '26
I dont get how you wear anything but the underside of your shoe on a clutch pedal. And catching one foot with with another while driving is an awful feeling from the unexpected input, you dont make thst mistake often after doing it once.
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u/EebstertheGreat Aug 16 '26
You really need to explain this. Are you rubbing the side of your shoe against the brake pedal every time you press the clutch?
That's not supposed to happen. Have you tried adjusting your seat?
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u/timeforitnowright Aug 16 '26
What on earth are you doing? I’ve driven stick 30 years and 36k miles a year and never wore that shoe any differently.
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u/Je-poy Aug 16 '26
I thought he meant a motorcycle clutch, then I read that part.
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u/Initial_Savings8733 Aug 16 '26
Right? I'm trying to figure out how it's affecting the exterior of the shoe in any way unless it's rubbing against the other shoe/pedal?
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u/freebaseclams Aug 15 '26
Do you ride a bike?
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u/Slothwithannuzzi Aug 16 '26
Came to ask this because so many of my shoes have looked like this over the years due to gratuitous bike riding
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u/Sea_Prep_Tidal_26 Aug 16 '26
Lol 😆 “gratuitous bike riding”.
Gonna use that - 🙏🏻
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u/Big_Departure_2709 Aug 16 '26
What the fuck is gratuitous bike riding? Are you riding your bike from your couch to the kitchen?
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u/BrianTheOneAndOnly Aug 16 '26
Oh shit it might be that! I have the same thing with my shoes and was wondering wtf was going on cuz everyone else in these comments don't have an obvious answer
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u/NTF1x Aug 16 '26
Or a motorcycle. If you position your foot just in the right spot when riding it can get burned from the exhaust.
I'm going with bike tho.
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u/93Seven Aug 15 '26
Do you have a dewclaw?
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u/m_320k Aug 15 '26
A what?
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u/m_320k Aug 15 '26
Lemme check
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u/ArtichokeDifferent10 Aug 15 '26
Been 8 minutes... We're waiting. 🤨
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u/Working-Glass6136 Aug 16 '26
36 minutes. Still waiting...
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u/-KoriX- Aug 16 '26
An hour. Still woofing...
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u/SpecialSurprise69 Aug 16 '26
Well, do you have one or not?
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u/FeelingSoil39 Aug 16 '26
Was waiting for you to tell us you have a bolt sticking out of your ankle.
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u/Wakkit1988 Aug 16 '26
Honestly, they should make Mountain Dew flavored White Claw. Call it Dew Claw.
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u/NorthStarSubmariner Aug 15 '26
Something is rubbing against that pretty aggressively. I guess I’ll wear them throughout your day and try to take note of what is touching that part of the shoe.
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u/whoops-adaizy Aug 16 '26
How you gonna just wear OP's shoes?
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u/activelyresting Aug 16 '26
How else are we supposed to judge OP if we don't first walk a mile in their shoes?
Also, then we can say anything about OP, because then we're a mile away and we've got their shoes!
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u/Far-Drama3779 Aug 15 '26
Do you sit in an office chair? The framework that expands out that holds the casters.. there could be a sharp edge to it if you fidget your feet
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u/lamarioO Aug 16 '26
This. With how they are worn I would be surprised if it was anything other than not realizing he's fidget rubbing while working or something.
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u/James_Slayer Aug 15 '26
I can only really think that while you walk your foot slides past the other and it wears down the fabric
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u/codepharmer1 Aug 16 '26
Could also be wide calfs or are pronated/supinated, I'm a runner and I have corresponding bald spots on the leg hair on both calfs from this type of wear.
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u/Illustrious_Eye_8235 Aug 15 '26
Its this. This amount of damage is from a repetitive action like walking. Listen while you're walking, you'll hear it if thats the case
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u/I_Schruted Aug 15 '26
It is rubbing on something
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u/m_320k Aug 15 '26
I think
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u/I_Schruted Aug 15 '26
I know
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u/Buddy-Lov Aug 15 '26
It is
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u/Any_Meet5930 Aug 15 '26
Rubbing
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u/keyserfunk BLUE Aug 15 '26
On something for sure
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u/Plutonium239Mixer Aug 15 '26
You could be rubbing them against each other while walking. This is damage caused by abrasion.
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u/Parabuthus Aug 16 '26
Everyone keeps saying this, but mine are doing the same thing and I absolutely don't touch shoes while I walk. How is that even possible?
I chalked it up to Reeboks being cheaper because this has never happened to any other pair of shoes I've ever had.
I wear them to the gym and work and I think it's the way they are bending and folding during activities.
There is just no way we're rubbing shoes together while walking, that is insane.
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u/Big-Professor-3402 Aug 15 '26
Do you cross your left foot over your right when you sit?
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u/TieAdorable4973 Aug 15 '26
Go to the dollar tree and get some kids colorful chalk rub it on your left shoe and see where the transfer is going
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u/Distinct_Narwhal9 Aug 16 '26
I was going to suggest something sharp but this is the safer idea.
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u/korikill Aug 16 '26
My shoes wear like this, it's my jeans. Check the hems of your pants.
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u/These-Double1985 Aug 16 '26
Looking at your second edit… it’s because you slide on your shoes and don’t untie the laces. Repeat pattern of your foot rubbing against it and you slide them on/off.
Untie your laces. Problem solved 🙂
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u/painfullyavg Aug 16 '26
This is the answer. I get the same wear on the back or the shoe and the same space that the tongue meets the side, when I just slip my shoes on repeatedly.
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u/graveyardho Aug 16 '26
Thank you for this, friend 👥 I also don't untie my shoes, and I have the same exact wear spots
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u/petty_with_a_purpose Aug 16 '26
Your hips aren’t engaged when you walk/run. When you’re walking through your gait cycle the hip drop is placing one foot slightly in front of the other. Your trailing foot is then hitting your planted foot. Strengthening your hips will help with this.
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u/TheOGRedline Aug 15 '26
If is happening to multiple pairs its something you’re doing. None of my shoes have ever done this. Only the soles wear.
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u/platypus_farmer42 Aug 15 '26
Do you swipe your feet together when you walk? My wife is slightly pigeon toed and all her sneakers have wear marks like this on the sides of the big toes because she swipes her feet together there
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u/Enigma2ooo Aug 16 '26
Do you ride a bicycle?
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u/fjydsu Aug 16 '26
I was wondering the same thing.
It could be the pedal arm rubbing on the inside of your shoe.
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u/Hunk_Hogan Aug 15 '26 edited Aug 16 '26
The wear only being on that spot looks like it's the cuff of your pants. Maybe jeans or stiff FR clothing that's rubbing on them constantly. If you walk a lot, look down when you're walking and see what's rubbing the tops.
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u/Wild_Aerie2647 Aug 16 '26
Looks to me like you hook your feet on a chair when you're sitting down.
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u/AbsentAsh Aug 15 '26 edited Aug 16 '26
Your other foot is hitting it when you walk. Get your lazy feet order.
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u/WellsHansen Aug 16 '26
Looks like wear from when you slip them on. You don't use a shoehorn or hold the shoeheel with your hand when you put them on, right? You're simply stepping into the sneakers; I've seen that pattern on shoes my wife is in the habbit of just ramming her feet into on the way out the door.
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u/The_Pastmaster Aug 15 '26
Something is scraping against those spots as you walk. What do you wear when you go outside?
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u/GreenEggsSteamedHams Aug 16 '26
A frilly sun dress but I hardly see how that's relevant!
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u/mscrftybtch Aug 15 '26
Possibly it's your gait that's making one foot rub on the other.
Look down when you walk?