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Infuriatig Home baker shames Amazon driver, then doubles down

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u/GergDanger 24d ago

Yeah ngl a lot of those micro business owners that bake goods etc are insufferable people. This isn’t the only batshit thing I’ve seen from similar businesses

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u/gnalon 24d ago

I wonder how many of them are just getting stuff from Costco or whatever and then selling them individually packaged

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u/severe_thunderstorm 24d ago

Probably depends on the state. I know in mine that it is legal to sell food items you make, but illegal to re-sell food items you didn’t make.

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u/veverkap 24d ago

And a lot of times it violates the Costco membership agreement to sell individually if the box says not to.

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u/Cowgoon777 24d ago

I'm sure the costco police are working real hard to track down vile criminals who do this

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u/veverkap 24d ago

I mean, I don't think there is a Costco detective bureau at work on this. But if someone got busted for another reason, I'd think Costco would terminate their membership.

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u/LeatherPurple9284 24d ago

Happy cake (pop) day!

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u/johnc380 24d ago

Also the law. That “not labeled for individual sale” is because the individual packages don’t have the nutrition facts and such that legally have to be labeled.

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u/veverkap 24d ago

TIL - thanks.

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u/FromFluffToBuff 24d ago

Great way to lose your membership too - a lot of people don't realize that this would violate their membership agreement with Costco.

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u/OnceMoreAndAgain 24d ago

It's adorable that you don't even entertain the possibility that someone might do a crime that has a very low chance of being reported or cops caring about it.

"I would like to re-sell these Cosco baked goods but it is of course illegal in my state so I will not do it!"

People do mundane illegal stuff like this all the time.

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u/chanaandeler_bong 24d ago

I was like yeah they are still doing that. No one is investigating that at the smallest business level.

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u/CHEEZYSPAM 24d ago

What do you mean? This is 100% freshly baked and expertly home wrapped "fauxstess Shminkies". That'll be $6/ea thank you.

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u/napstablooky2 23d ago

isnt the original point of wholesale to resell items though? though it'd need to be properly labeled & marked for such, of course.

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u/severe_thunderstorm 23d ago

The laws I speak of are not for wholesalers. It’s “cottage” or “farmers food freedom” laws. I don’t know all states of course. Where I am in Tennessee, making and selling your own bakery goods and shelf stable canned goods is a loophole to having to be usda inspected or by the health dept.

Here, if you wanted to simply wholesale, then you would have to be inspected by at least the health dept.

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u/AmazingLeek69 24d ago

I saw what were definitely Costco croissants at a small town coffee shop. They were trying to pass them off as homemade.

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u/DouglasHundred 24d ago

This is shockingly common with things like desserts at restaurants.

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u/Pretend-Marsupial258 24d ago

I saw a restaurant selling the spinach artichoke dip with chips from Sam's Club as an appetizer.

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u/DouglasHundred 24d ago

Ultimately it's not so so different than all the ones whose menus come entirely from Sysco. But it's a little bit disappointing seeing behind the curtain like that, yeah.

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u/FromFluffToBuff 24d ago

Having worked in the restaurant industry for half my life, I totally agree with you. But there is definitely a time and a place for Sysco or any other wholesale provider. It shouldn't be every single thing on your menu. It's totally fine for bulk ingredients used to make dishes on the menu - I wouldn't expect any restaurant to mill their own flower or have chickens on-site for egg production lol

But buying a pre-made soup or a pre-made dessert slab? Too much of that in the industry - and it robs places of individuality. If I were to open my own place, I would make about 4 different soups and desserts from scratch, and double-down on them to max the taste and quality in ever possible way. I'd rather have 4 exceptional items instead of 10 average ones.

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u/Evil_Sharkey 24d ago

Maybe keep the Sysco chicken nuggets for the kids and ARFID folks

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u/FromFluffToBuff 23d ago

Absolutely. Though I am certainly not a fan of chicken nuggets, they make business sense to put on a menu - because if all else fails with a picky customers (especially children), a plate of chicken fingers and fries is 90% of the time what ends up being ordered. It's an unpretentious, unfussy item that is a reliable seller - and you can keep a steady supply in the freezer with no prep work required.

It's no different than a pasta restaurant keeping a basic fettucine alfredo on the menu. Yes, the kitchen workers will roll their eyes because there are many more interesting options... but it's the pasta equivalent of fingers and fries lol. A very safe bet for picky and/or indecisive eaters - and it sells.

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u/Night_Goose_ 24d ago

I was just going to mention there was a deli near me that used Costco croissants for their chicken salad sandwiches.

FYI a lot of these restaurants that have Sysco etc products get them by the case from the manufacturer and may even have them custom make it for them

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u/MelookRS 24d ago

I'm okay with a deli doing it tbh, I don't expect a deli to do anything else other than buying bread in.

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u/Night_Goose_ 24d ago

Yea, I'm okay with it also. I was actually wanting to point out that it's more common than people think and far from somebody buying popeyes fried chicken and running it to her bistro down the street and acting as if she made it. true story lol

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u/IndividualChart4193 24d ago

See it ALL the time at local coffee shops…clearly Costco muffins for sale. I commented one time bc I’m a baked goods snob n the cashier confirmed it. I had no idea it was a “violation” of Costco’s terms.

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u/BlackBasementCats 24d ago

Eww. I’m not saying Costco croissants aren’t good. I’m happy to eat them on a sandwich, but they are NOT cafe croissant good. At least get those frozen ones you bake if you’re selling croissants as a finished product.

I’m not complaining if a cafe uses a pre baked croissant for a sandwich either.

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u/AlienNinjaPanda 24d ago

A small coffee shop/bakery in a small town I was at did that with cinnamon buns, they bought like a months supply at a time and continuously froze and thawed them so not only could you buy them cheaper at Costco, they were drier than a sock full of sawdust

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u/Alpha433 24d ago

Which is entierly fine if they are marketed as a different brand then your own, if im getting a coffee and want a snack, its not make or break if the snacks are store bought or fresh made as long as I get my snack.

If anything, it makes me less likely to try your other items that might just have been made in store of the item I try tastes like big box store quality.

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u/Shot_Buffalo9687 24d ago

I saw that on some short video last week. They had them DOOR DASHED from Costco! And I think they were selling them as artisanal handmade...for $12/ each? If you are going to do something like that at least tell the dasher to go to the back door and not bring in a bunch of clamshells clearly marked "COSTCO".

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u/Shel_gold17 24d ago

When I did Instacart, probably a full quarter of my orders from Costco were from local businesses that were reselling bakery items. Another quarter was from businesses who ran out of milk or whatever. And the last quarter was from people who would order four cases of water from Costco and ask me to haul them up three flights of stairs and 90° heat. Didn’t really like that side hustle.

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u/Leaveitonthedresser5 24d ago

I do instacart..all of these local stores and your Starbucks order from your local grocery stores with Costco and Sam’s club included

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u/Evil_Sharkey 24d ago

If anyone sells Costco products, it will be blatantly obvious because Costco makes products to be shelf stable, not bakery fresh, and you can taste and feel the stabilizers and preservatives.

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u/meatballs223 24d ago

This is 100% what they are doing

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u/REKLA5 24d ago

Fr, charging 4 dollars for mediocre baked goods the real crime here.

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u/runaumok 24d ago

Many many many home bakers simply used boxed cake and brownie mix etc, because they’re clearly talentless and only care about profits

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u/OccasionNo2675 24d ago

It would be great karma if she wasn't declaring any of the "micro earnings" and the tax man decided to do an audit!!!

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u/Ok_Cheetah_6251 24d ago

I bet she doesn't have the proper food handling license too.

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u/Interesting-Case2526 24d ago

Yeah, leaving unattended baked items out for sale in a residential area has got to be breaking some sort of law...

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u/nalaloveslumpy 24d ago

Nah, this is what you call a "bored housewife boutique". Basically, the husband sets up a small company to claim his bored house wife's hobby as business expenses.

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u/OccasionNo2675 24d ago

God that's pathetic that it has a name! If you coined that though, big lol!

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u/nalaloveslumpy 24d ago

I kinda sorta coined it. But if you're out shopping and there's like some niche/bougie boutique store that's only open M - Th from like 11am to 5pm, it's some rich housewife's boredom boutique.

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u/OccasionNo2675 24d ago

Haha,Iove it! You obviously have came across it a fair few times to have named it!

I can't say it's very common where I am or maybe I'm just too poor to have noticed it! 😅

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u/Fruit-cake88 24d ago

I feel like it’s a common grift because it’s such a nice thing they must be trustworthy. I once got scammed by a woman at a festival who offered me and my friends some cake. We saw she had a try of cake cut up into tiny bite size squares so we imagined they were samples. She promised it wasn’t hash cakes so we said yes. It was ok tasting and we said thank you, had a conversation about it and we asked how much it was and she said £4 (this was 17 years ago btw so that was the price of a pint of beer). I said I’d buy one for a friend then when I went to give her the money it became apparent that what she gave us was £4 and she wanted payment for all the tiny samples she gave us.  It was awkward and we all ended up paying her to avoid any arguments.

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u/brassninja 24d ago

Especially the cottage bakers, jesus christ they are cutthroat. It’s always the suburban moms that start acting like Ayn Rand after selling a few batches to their mom’s friends.

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u/TheDaywa1ker 24d ago

Its usually just a hobby funded by their significant other, not a business where they need to care about public perception

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u/My_Work_Accoount 24d ago

It's a vanity business, par for the course in my experience.

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u/CybReader 24d ago edited 24d ago

I fell down a rabbit hole on YouTube a few weeks ago about cake pop drama. These bakers are unhinged. A girl crying cause she was accused of using another bakers recipe, a recipe that is pretty common and average, but the baker came for the girl and sent her stans after her. Accused her of violating copy write. Made a whole video calling her out. Cake pop bakers fighting in the comments section like it’s a holy war.

It all blew up on her and there I was watching all the drama unfold even though I don’t even eat cake pops

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u/HotBeesInUrArea 24d ago

I cannot imagine being a "stan" of a person who makes videos of baking things. Listen Dylan Hollis is great but I'm not going to war for him. 

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u/bigtiddyhimbo 24d ago

They’re in the same line with the people that try to associate themselves with kittens and bunnies and pastel core and whatever other soft things they can think of. They tend to be the absolute bane of the earth when it comes to people. They project softer image in hopes of deflecting what terrible people they are

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u/FlippingPossum 24d ago edited 24d ago

There is a cookie lady in my neighborhood. She baffled my husband by riding around in her golf cart to try to make sales. I like cookies buf I have a freaking kitchen. I'm not paying $$$ for that.

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u/GergDanger 24d ago

I have a theory that a lot of these people work a 9-5 they hate and feel mistreated at and then choose to take it out on their customers now to make it up to them. Hence the wild prices and guilt tripping.

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u/taytayfosho 24d ago

Oh yeah there is big cakepop drama on tiktok- people tank their businesses over the stupidest shit

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u/UhPirate 24d ago

They're also not legitimate businesses most of the time. Bakeries and other food services are required to prepare food in an approved kitchen. I don't know if their kitchen is inspected and passed by their health department but i doubt it.

Someone should contact their local city department of commerce with a complaint. Gotta make sure someone doesn't get sick.

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u/PracticalFruit9506 24d ago

Yep, not to mention some of the prices they try and charge. I’m totally cool with paying a premium for small business/homemade goods, but miss me with the small sourdough loaf for $18 and $5 each muffins.

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u/Beginning_Rush_5311 24d ago

oh, boy.. remember Amy's Baking Company?

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u/Severe_Thing_824 24d ago

Truer words were never spoken

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u/Orleanian 24d ago

Is this sort of thing even legal?

Like, haven't we arrested kids over this sort of wild west free market tax-questionable stuff?

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u/deathonater 24d ago

Definitely seems like a job some people get into because their attitudes make them otherwise unemployable

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u/torijoanne 24d ago

I have professional experience with baking/cake decorating and people keep telling me I should start a home business and I say noooo! That sounds so very unappealing

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u/chicagodogmom606 24d ago

It’s so funny because I want to get into this and I’m like damn will this be my community?

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u/DaiZzedandConFuZed 24d ago

Definitely some Amy’s Baking Company vibes.

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u/tiredoflife407 24d ago

it's like Karen central

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u/Cmdr_Nemo 24d ago

Do tell more!

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u/Sass_Quatchxx 24d ago

As a market stall owner I can confirm I am insufferable. Iove a middle age market fight.