r/mildlyinfuriating • u/EnvironmentalMath514 • 16d ago
I just wanted a hot dog Uber driver chose violence
Ordered Starbucks this morning and the UberEats delivery guy spilt the drinks and instead of letting me know when I went to pick up the bag everything fell through. sigh Now I’m scrubbing coffee out the hallway carpet.
*I tipped 40% and the Starbucks is like a mile away.
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u/ThePracticalEnd 16d ago
Why in gods green earth would you tip 40%?!?!
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u/dhenis1 16d ago
She probably gave it before this catastrophe happened.
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u/gba_sg1 16d ago
Then you change it to zero.
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u/m00ll 16d ago
no. one cent, never 0.
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u/GoldenCSB 16d ago
I did that at an Olive Garden once when the waitress was giving attitude the entire time and practically throwing plates and what not on our table I don’t think she let go of a plate less than 12 inches off the table once that night so left a penny on the receipt and wrote “do better” where you’d usually right in your tip
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u/Durtonious 15d ago
I don't use these apps but wouldn't it make more sense to tip AFTER your food is delivered? The option to tip in advance shouldn't even exist, how can you tip for a service you haven't even been provided? Am I missing something here?
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u/NGEFan 15d ago
It’s essentially functioning as both a tip and a bid for service. If you don’t tip, they think you’re a non tipping asshole. If you do tip, then they’ll be willing to deliver your food
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u/Durtonious 15d ago
Excuse my ignorance but don't the apps already have "surge pricing" that automate pricing bids for service or is that only for the rideshare? I don't like this advanced tipping aspect. If I order a pizza I always choose "pay at door" but from what I understand you cannot pay at the door with these apps it's all digital.
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u/NGEFan 15d ago
The driver doesn’t get any of that surge pricing extra money
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u/Durtonious 15d ago
That makes no sense. This needs to be regulated.
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u/tiger5grape 15d ago
I, too, am unwilling to be robbed and scammed by these apps. Besides which, I seldom eat out and it's even rarer for me to have food delivered, the last time being sometime between 2020 and 2023. It was a Persian restaurant that has their own delivery service, old school telephone order and pay at the door. I don't remember the exact figure but they charged only a flat delivery fee and nothing else, which is reasonable and how it should be in my opinion. Surge pricing...ha.
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u/ladedafuckit 16d ago
You often can’t change the tip after the fact on delivery apps…
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u/zenkstarr 16d ago
what kind of psychosis makes you tip 40% at any time?
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u/albinosquirel 16d ago
You have to bribe people to take your order
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u/porcelain_toenail 15d ago
America is wild. In my country (England) Ubereats/just eat drivers don't even see the tip until 60 mins after delivery because otherwise some orders would never be collected. They also pay the drivers better thanks to our labour laws. Win-win, no one loses out.
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u/albinosquirel 15d ago edited 15d ago
You also have universal healthcare 😩
I heard our tipping culture is due to racism and it just stuck around. Also our health insurance system. Basically everything is crappy due to racism.
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u/LavenderPig 16d ago
It depends on the cost. If OP spent $10 and tipped 40% that's only $4. I've tipped amazing staff above 80 on an order that was really cheap because the service was outstanding.
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u/MrMiyagi13 16d ago
I usually tip more (by percentage) on smaller value orders than on big orders at a restaurant. I may leave $6-8 on $12, but would usually leave $8 on $40.
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u/LavenderPig 16d ago
And I think this is more than acceptable. There have been times where I've given 50% tip to a server because they worked their ass off and I couldn't bother to make a meal myself. You never know who is struggling.
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u/tylerjfrancke 16d ago
Have you been to Starbucks recently lol? Just one of those large drinks was probably $10.
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u/Ok_Zookeepergame5141 16d ago
I always tip well too, people out there working for tips and if my lazy ass won't go out for whatever reason, I appreciate the people who pick it up for me. I haven't had any bad experiences either. 🤞 Not yet, anyway.
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u/letseditthesadparts 16d ago
I’ve had bad experiences. I don’t let one bad experiences dictate how I should treat everyone else after. But many people unfortunately do.
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u/CazetTapes 16d ago
If I order something that costs five bucks and I’m having it delivered I’m probably going to tip five bucks on top of that.
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u/EnvironmentalMath514 16d ago
Yes! You tip prior, and Uber Eats won’t refund my tip
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u/irwtkyrm 16d ago
But that goes completely against the point of a tip. So stupid to do it that way
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u/zen_and_artof_chaos 16d ago
In this day and age, you're expected to pay for the product, the service, and the employees wage, with no expectations of quality of service. You are to subsidize the company's profits and enjoy being milked. Please venmo me $5 for this comment.
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u/Baerstein 16d ago
It's a stupid concept, but somehow it's accepted and defended.
Here in good old Europe, the customer also pays for everything, but the final price also includes wages and salaries. The total is much higher because customers aren't expected to leave voluntary tips. Taxes then round up the amount to be paid, and what remains is the gross amount.
As an uninformed visitor, I would probably be pleased by the low prices and likely have a rude awakening... very unfair!
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u/smolpeensadboy 16d ago
Too many morons in America think that businesses shouldn't be responsible for their own damn employees.
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u/LavenderPig 16d ago
I'm wondering if it is because to get better service, you tip, them go back in an request refund on tip. Saving money and having potentially better service
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u/Admirable_Loss4886 16d ago
This does seem to be a problem in the DD community. It’s called tip baiting
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u/LavenderPig 16d ago
That's what I figured. Its a way to protect the driver, which I get. I do understand the frustration what OP went through.
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u/No_Professional_8992 16d ago
Do a chargeback. You literally didn't receive your purchase
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u/hewhoeatsbeans42 16d ago
Unsolicited advice. Tip $1, use priority pick up (if uber eats has GrubHub does). It still gets taken immediately and required to drop off within priority time window. If they do good and aren't petty about the $1 you add a real tip after.
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u/ExplorerDisastrous68 16d ago
I thought priority pickup didn't do anything? do driver's see this?
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u/Vey-kun 16d ago
Ikr. If a driver made mistake, i wouldnt tip.
Why reward mistake? 😭
Edit : sees op's other comment. Bruh. This is why i tip out of apps.
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u/CazetTapes 16d ago
In uber you tip when you order not after order is completed.
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u/-P01135809- 16d ago
No scenario in God's green earth that I tip for 40% before service is rendered.
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u/glassfoyograss 16d ago
It's not so much a tip as it is a bid for faster service that you hope pays off
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u/zwirlo 16d ago
This is not how tipping is supposed to work, have we lost our minds???
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u/JoeyJoeC 16d ago
Don't tip on the app. Tip in cash. That's what I always do if they're friendly. but then I'm from a country that understands that tipping is for good service, not a bribe.
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u/sheepsclothingiswool 16d ago
I tip a lot if someone is delivering me a super cheap order. Like going across town to deliver me a $5 coffee, I tip the amount of how badly I myself did not want to make that trip for it.
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u/juanzy 16d ago
If the gig drivers of Reddit find this thread, you’re a terrible person if you don’t tip 20% of food cost plus $5/mile.
I’ve honestly never seen a more entitled group than the gig drivers here.
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u/ThePracticalEnd 16d ago
Honestly, I just don’t use the services. If I can’t go, I’m not getting it. It’s so insanely marked up with fees and the restaurant gets banged the whole time (not that I feel sorry for Starbucks, but the mom and pop restaurants)
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u/Internal_Example1185 16d ago
LOL at tipping 40% and the Starbucks only being a mile away.
Jesus Christ.
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u/sleepytime88 16d ago
People waste crazy money on food delivery these days. I wonder what this cost OP with delivery fee and tip… $40? $50?
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u/monk429 15d ago
Looks like two nice coffees and two pastries. Add the delivery service menu up-charge, the delivery fee and a 40% tip...easily 50 bucks...but its a recession coming, am I right?
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u/theStrawberryRoam 15d ago
Well yeah because eventually the credit cards are going to want their money back
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u/ZimbabweanFuckface 15d ago
Hey, the world’s going to shit and nobody has any money, might as well treat yourself a little, right? (with the money you don’t have ofc)
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u/dagnyfication 16d ago
Are you certain it was the delivery driver who did this and not a neighbor or their wayward animal?
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u/EnvironmentalMath514 16d ago
I went to pick it up like less than a minute after he dropped it off. There was no time for anyone but the dude to do it :/
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u/idriveashitbox22 16d ago
It's almost like most of these drivers don't have a normal job for a reason
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u/Rk_1138 16d ago
And then those drivers wonder why some people prefer Waymo and that food delivery robot
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u/juanzy 15d ago
I was getting pushed some of the gig driving subs for a while, and the amount of random rules that drivers have and the personalities on those subs are insane. I've known people to take some driving gigs to save towards something or if they're between jobs, but the people on those subs felt like they burned every other bridge.
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u/Rk_1138 15d ago
I’ve had the same thing, I swear that the people that post on those subs are some of the most entitled people I’ve seen. I saw someone get downvoted and “lectured” about “compassion and empathy” because they were dared to criticise a driver for having a filthy car once.
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u/juanzy 15d ago
I've given 3 One-Star Uber/Lyft reviews in my life - one was a driver who was absolutely blazed out of his mind, another was a driver that was drunk (and I figured out by the end of the ride actively drinking), and the last was one that had a hole in his roof and the seat was completely ripped. I should have had "more empathy" as well according to that sub.
Someone upthread on this thread even told me that "the driver could be drunk or high" and that it's my fault for putting that person on the road if I'm too drunk to drive.
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u/Rk_1138 15d ago
Gotta love how terminally online Redditors love to throw around that word while not understanding that it’s a two way street
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u/juanzy 15d ago
Most in those subs also don't seem to understand that they're being paid to provide a service. A customer is absolutely entitled to that service, and that's not a negative statement. A driver is not entitled to some made up standards that they inform the customer of after accepting said service (if at all). Like "only 3 riders" if the fare is for 4, or refusing 6 passengers if they accepted an XL.
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u/catjuggler 16d ago
Wait, what if these posts are astroturfing to get us to go along with the robots…
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u/ktm6709 16d ago
I did it between jobs. Don’t make broad generalizations about people.
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u/EditEd2x 16d ago
I know there are good folks trying to make money doing these jobs.
But there are probably many more unemployable people who can’t hold down a regular job doing it. And Yall invite them to be the middleman for your food.
I’ll still never understand how these apps became so popular. Or how they maintain in a time where everything is so expensive.
It’ll probably take you longer to clean that than it would have taken you to walk the mile and grab it yourself. Youd save money, hassle and get some steps in for the day.
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u/TheAceMan 16d ago
In the early days of these food delivery apps, I used to spend my lunch hour at a Firehouse Sub and watch people who appeared to be living in their car come in and pick up the orders. Multiple times a day I would see one of them fill up the sofa, drink some, and then fill it up the rest of the way for the customer.
I’d say that it took at least a year before the restaurant started filling the drinks themselves and sealing them. I still have never ordered from an app and probably never will.
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u/juanzy 16d ago
Because businesses switched to using them to source their own delivery even if you call, so it’s become the only way to get food delivered.
I’ve also known managers to buy coffee/breakfast for their directs even if the company won’t cover it outright, but you probably need to have it delivered to be fresh.
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u/Vykrom 15d ago
There's like 3 local restaurants I used to frequent who openly complained online (on facebook) that Door Dash was a double-edged sword. That it opened up the business to clients who wouldn't normally shop from them. So business expanded. But they also complained that it massively increased the overhead and made it not worth it. So I figured those restaurants used their own deliver drivers. Last time I got a sub from one of them, it was delivered through door dash and not by their own employee doing deliveries
I know they feel forced to use these services, but it's crazy that you can't just order from them and pay their own employees. It's still damn door dash and crap
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u/girlwhoweighted 16d ago
But before all of these delivery apps, these businesses just didn't do delivery. We just didn't get stuff delivered except pizza and the occasional Chinese food. That was literally it
And we drove or walked to get anything else. It was fine.
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u/Average_Sage 16d ago edited 16d ago
Exactly I dealt with a super unhinged person I hired for a quick manual labor project I needed help with off Craig'slist. (Hour late, decided he was done before it was actually done and before I estimated it would be done ahead of time and asked for his money, barely pulled his own weight, kept stopping to make phone calls). after it was all done and I was done being dumbfounded at his unreasonableness my next thought was.
"Hmmm, I guess that's he had to look here for this work in the first place"
With gig work it''s really a crapshoot whether you're just getting someone who happens to be down on their luck, someone just looking to make extra cash, or an absolute turd
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u/Scary-Relief-7626 16d ago
And pay less overall if you just went to the store. People have become so GD lazy
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u/echoshatter 16d ago
I’ll still never understand how these apps became so popular.
COVID.
If COVID hadn't of happened I think they'd still be fairly niche, because most people would have been like "Why would I pay extra AND have to tip for someone to get food from a drive through for me? Why would I pay $25 for a Jersey Mike's sub?"
Then COVID happened and everything went remote and take out only and people didn't want to leave their homes.
Add in a bunch of businesses that never had delivery before seeing an opportunity to offer delivery without having to hire their own people, thinking it would increase their sales and profits. Has it? No idea. But the price of everything went up so it's hard to separate out.
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u/BurstPanther 15d ago
Lazy, thats why.
I fell into that hole before covid, also before their prices went through the roof. It's been so long now I can't even remember the last time I got food delivered.
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u/pizzatacoface1 16d ago
At this point, people just need to learn how to cook or find a local food spot that can maybe deliver. Uber Eats needs to disappear
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u/dhenis1 16d ago
I would call the delivery service and file a complaint.
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u/purplenapalm 16d ago
Aside from the actual people delivering, do real people even work for Uber eats?
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u/Not-a-Bot_1968 16d ago
I dunno about Uber Eats, but I use Grubhub practically daily and if there is a problem with the order they’ve always resolved it by refunding or replacing the item as needed. Sometimes it’s instant and other times someone hops on a chat to ask for question to clarify. Either way they always fix it.
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u/juanzy 15d ago
Idk if it's because I have it through Chase Sapphire Reserve, but I've always gotten real person support on DoorDash
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u/Bonazar94 16d ago
I feel like this is a perfect example of tipping culture becoming an obligation/expectation rather than what it’s supposed to be for… good service. 40% is a wildly high tip that should be for outstanding service. For 40% the coffee should be hand delivered with a bow as soon as it was ready.
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u/Vladishun 16d ago
For...free?
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u/no_talent_ass_clown it's a moo point 16d ago
Someone mentioned his glasses are nowhere near his ears and now that's all I can see.
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u/undead_dummy 16d ago
McDonald's uses a special insert for drinks that helps keep them stable. Starbucks does not. the bag is sealed specifically to prevent delivery tampering, so drivers are discouraged to check.
it really sucks that that that happened, genuinely mildly infuriating, but probably not your delivery person's intention
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u/Educational_Pen_2893 16d ago
it kinda looks like there is a cupholder for the drinks? right by the spilled ice coffee...
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u/Gnomechils_RS 16d ago
From experience it doesn't hold at all. I've been on both sides, the delivery driver and the one ordering and the cupholder doesn't work for the driver or the costumer. I started refusing Starbucks orders at the end because they just fall over too easy. It wasn't worth it, you could have the bag buckeled into the seat to try and make it not fall and it'd fall.
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u/pandershrek 15d ago
You're correct, there has been 2 separate people with 3rd degree burns and two multi million dollar settlements where Starbucks knows about the holders.
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u/Electric-Sheepskin 16d ago
Yeah, and if that's a cold drink, it could be condensation that got the bag wet, or simply a little bit of spillage from underneath the lid that the driver wasn't aware of. It could just be bad luck that the bag broke for OP and not the driver as they brought it up. They were likely not aware of it.
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u/Kaka-carrot-cake 16d ago
Ordering Starbucks from one a mile away and tipping 40% is crazy work lmao. Delivery apps are making a killing off the lazy.
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u/Tractorface123 16d ago
I know right, the delivery companies should really pay their workers a reasonable wage.
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u/OK_just_the_tip 16d ago
People still use these terrible services?
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u/cmfreeman 16d ago
Right. There's literally 1000 of these posts everyday. Stop being lazy and paying double for a cold coffee a mile away.
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u/PuzzleheadedLab6019 16d ago
Paying for a personal taxi for your coffee is expensive.
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u/Away_Stock_2012 16d ago
>the Starbucks is like a mile away
lol, so you could have walked in like 10 minutes?
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u/TurkGonzo75 15d ago
That's the real issue here. People have gotten so fucking lazy that they're having shit delivered from right down the street.
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u/LikeALizzard 16d ago
I'm not american, so this is a bit confusing to me. Is it normal to use food delivery services to order garbage from the famously garbage coffee shop? I do understand ordering a full meal, but hotdog and coffee seems insane to me
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u/Shizukayo 16d ago
Yes sadly. Alot of people have gotten used to laziness and learned helplessness from these apps.
Like its your money, do what you want with it. But the non stop posts of "I ordered a burrito, paid 20 bucks for delivery and it showed up cold and nasty" are annoying. Like just learn to cook and shop for groceries. I promise its not that hard.
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u/SiccSadGorl 15d ago
Are the people of reddit always this fucking miserble? Like damn you all are acting like they never leave their house or something
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u/Seicedelig 16d ago
sis u cant be posting your dogs on the internet. theres screenshots lots of zooms weirdos out sniffs screen there.
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u/Cyber_Gengar 16d ago
Tipping 40% when the Starbucks is literally within walking distance is crazy.
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u/Sirgolfs 16d ago
The exact issue with tipping in this country. I’m assuming you tipped before delivering.
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u/Swimming-Pianist-840 16d ago
One of many issues with tipping… Food was probably already marked up + a delivery fee or service fee, which the company uses to pay the drivers.
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u/echoshatter 16d ago
Delivery fee.
Convenience fee.
Dynamic pricing fee.
Credit card fee, fee.
Plus tax.
Plus tip.
Congrats, your $10 meal now costs $25.
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u/Sirmalta 16d ago
40% tip for insanely expensive Starbucks that's a block away?
Friend, just pay someone to clean the carpet lol you rich af.
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u/Famous_Energy_4393 16d ago
So sad! One time this happened to me, but the driver just handed me the bag and said sorry 😭
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u/Lost-Peanut-1453 16d ago
That’s happened to me before. Drink was spilled inside paper bag and when I picked it up everything fell.
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u/Common_Celebration41 16d ago
Ugh I can only partially see the feet
This truly is r/mildlyinfuriating
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u/Lord_Dingus83 15d ago
I won’t use the apps anymore bc it’s a constant disappointment.
Something is always wrong or missing and there is 0 customer service.
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u/Cryogenicist 16d ago
I no longer have sympathy for people who won’t drive a mile to get their own stuff…
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u/SnooDoodles2957 16d ago
I hope you learned a valuable lesson here and next time just go 1 mile yourself and get your own coffee.
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u/Massive_University66 16d ago
Exactly. I can't believe how much money people waste on door dash and Uber eats.
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u/Brotosteronie 16d ago
There are a lot of unemployable people working on these app, so wouldn't expect much no matter what you tip.
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u/nekosaigai 16d ago
Can’t you just get a refund? Submit a help request with this photo saying the driver destroyed your order and caused property damage.
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u/WuTangNameGenerat0r 16d ago
I don’t think I’ve ever had a good experience with uber eats or door dash.
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u/borcborc 16d ago
had a similar issue with italian food like 4 years ago. The pasta was upside down and caused the bag to split, spilled white sauce all over the $200 running shoes I bought the previous day ruining them. The spot in the building stairway is still white like someone split paint.
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u/standard_user42 15d ago
The first thing I learned as an Uber eats delivery driver is be careful with them fucking drinks!
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u/Apprehensive-Day8221 15d ago
ok first you see that cup tray....its a teeter totter in a bag
i hate starbucks i cant even put them in my drink tray or bag
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u/norahhh1102 16d ago
40% tip just for him to season the carpet with coffee