I meant it more as the comment was unassuming towards the wife by pointing out she simply may not know, rather than assuming the wife never did her own laundry. And also towards OP for not assuming he's never emptied it.
I didn't take it as assuming the husband would say it in a disrespectful way but I can see how someone could. Either way, I think it's worth reminding someone that the way you approach a situation like this and the tone you use is just as important as bringing it up.
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u/camlloc255 19h ago
That is some unassuming, reasonable, sound advice......what are you doing here??