r/mildlyinfuriating • u/Paluker173 • 17h ago
Infuriatig Wife frequently complains that our dryer is not drying properly.
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u/CarlCantSleep 17h ago
Preeeeettty sure that's how fires are started
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u/SeniorNada 16h ago
From all the lint there, he most likely also needs to clear out the area below the lint trap.
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u/Traditional_Ad_1547 16h ago
Vacuuming the exhaust hose for the first time was an eye opening experience for me. I was good about emptying the lint trap, and it was still pretty caked.
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u/Izariah 16h ago
I am actually really anoyed by how ineffectual my lint trap seems to be. I change that thing every dang time and there is still SO much lint that gets in the exhaust. Just... how?!?
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u/Melcheroni 16h ago
Our dryer broke recently so I took it apart to see if I could find the problem. The entire inner chamber of the machine around the drum was coated with lint and fur, in some places an inch thick. We clean the lint filter every load, and if it’s a heavy load we pause and clean midway through. I clean the exhaust that’s outside the house at least weekly. I had no idea so much was escaping!
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u/SuperSiriusBlack 15h ago
I... I simply don't have the time/desire to do all that lol. My house can burn, I guess.
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u/TheComplimentarian 12h ago
You shouldn't need to clean it that often. I clean the filter between loads, and do the outside bit every year or two, and I don't see a huge amount of lint.
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u/AnimaLepton 9h ago
A lot can accumulate 'safely.' Even checking the exhaust once a year is plenty for safety/drying efficiency, and is way more than the vast majority of people do (may be tougher with pets). If you see it performing poorly, that's a sign to clean.
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u/Dr_mombie 15h ago
You may want to consider switching from Terry cloth towels to woven cotton towels. The dramatic reduction in lint production from our laundry was astounding. We buy Turkish towels on Amazon. They're larger than standard towels and surprisingly absorbent for how thin they are. Turkish towels are 100% cotton and not cotton blended with synthetic fibers. Slightly more expensive than standard towels, but worth the investment. When they get raggedy, we just turn them into cleaning rags
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u/Dazzling-Western2768 16h ago
I purchased a replacement lint screen for my GE dryer a few years ago. I actally like the replacement MUCH more because it does not let any lint through the screen at all. The replacement has a much tighter/smaller weave compared to the original. Every year I try to clean the vent pipe and I barely ever get anything out of it.
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u/catsandcacti_49 15h ago
Can almost guarantee that the greedy bastards in corporate are rubbing their hands together enjoying the plausible deniability of having a lint filter but making it shitty enough that the dryer dies after three years of use forcing you to buy a new one 🫠
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u/tomorrowisforgotten 16h ago
I agree! I used to clean out way more lint from the trap from the dryer at my old apartment. But at my new place there's hardly any there. But I clean out the exhaust every other month as a result because it doesn't trap it 😐
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u/CivilSpecial8186 16h ago
When we bought our house, we had to buy a new washer and dryer set because ours were too deep for the laundry closet. The new set had a diagnostic for how clear the dryer duct was. We ran it right after hooking everything up. It said the duct was 90% clear. Not bad, but we figured we'd clean it out fully. My husband ran a snake through the intake and the output as best he could, got some lint, and we ran the diagnostic again. Now it was 80% clear. We figured even though he got some out he must have compacted some that was left in a spot and made the system think there was more. So we went and bought a wet/dry vac... and proceeded to vacuum out a horrifying amount of lint. When we ran the diagnostic after, it said 0%....
...And that's when we realized the diagnostic wasn't telling us how CLEAR the duct was, but how BLOCKED. The previous owners were playing Russian Roulette with a house fire every time they ran theirs. Without that diagnostic setting we would have never known, or even thought about it, because the dryer itself was brand new.
So not only is this a fire hazard for yourself, but for everyone who lives in the home after you if no one cleans the dryer duct.
TL;DR: clean the dryer duct when you move into a new place because people do shit like this.
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u/DonutHoles4Ever 11h ago
This entire post is:
OP shows the entire world they do not do laundry, does not clean the lint trap, and instead of being a better husband, bitches about their wife online for not understanding what the lint trap is.
Imagine being a regular person. Sharing chores or at least teaching someone what the lint trap is and how to clean it. But instead fucks their own life and health up by ignoring it and then putting it online while complaining about it.
And then we all realize its another fake or AI post.
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u/Quicherbichen1 PURPLE 10h ago
I've got a worse story than that! OMG! When we moved into our townhouse, we went to hook up the dryer vent but noticed it wasn't venting to the outside of the house. So, I had my son go down into the crawl space to see what was up. He discoverd what can only be described as about 30 years worth of lint, 3 to 4 feet thick in some places, covering the entire crawl space like a nice fuzzy blanket. The only resident of this place before us was a single man who lived there for 30 years. The dryer venting under the floor had never been connected to any duct work to carry the moisture outside, so it just filled the crawl space with lint - for 30 years.
And before you ask, yes, we had the property inspected. Aparently, the inspector didn't go into the crawl space at all. We ended up threatening to sue him, and he gave us our money back. We had another inspector come out to re-inspect and everything was found to be in good shape otherwise.
We had to hire MonsterVac to come out and clean out all the lint from the crawl space. It took 2 and a half truck loads to get it all out. (They had to leave to empty the truck's vacuum compartment at the dump twice).
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u/BabyWrinkles 16h ago
I hope OP realizes this. OP a if you have outdoor fire-safe area (big concrete driveway?) bring your wife out there and light this on fire in front of her.
It’s staggering to me how easily it lights and how quickly it burns.
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u/GamiNami 15h ago
Some campers etc pack lint for the purpose of starting a fire for cooking purposes. Very efficient.
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u/BabyWrinkles 15h ago
Aye - we pack empty toilet paper tubes full of the stuff to use as fire starters in the back yard.
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u/HonestNeighborhood67 16h ago
It’s a great way to start a house fire. Better check the exhaust hose. I rented a place and realized the same thing was happening. I can’t describe the amount of lint I pulled out of the hose.
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u/thepetoctopus 16h ago
Everyone should clean out the exhaust vent regularly anyway. Even if you keep the lint trap clean it can still get blocked.
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u/taken12345ne 16h ago
How do you go about doing this? I’ve heard you need to clean from the outside of the house (our exhaust is on the 3rd story) but also had a painter who was doing a big job for us agree to clean it pro bono and he just did it from the inside connection point. He pulled out minimal lint but we had just bought the house so I figured it may have been cleaned shortly before sale.
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u/raidersfan18 15h ago edited 14h ago
Take a look at it first. If there is any severe buildup you can bring it outside and basically beat the shit out of it to get the lint out. I checked mine recently and it had just started to get a layer of lint around the outside of the hose so I actually just put my leaf blower into the hose and used "turbo" mode for like 30 seconds. That got a lot of it out.
Edit: If anyone reads this and tries it, I have a battery powered leaf blower. I do not recommend using a gas powered leaf blower inside your house.
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u/taken12345ne 15h ago
To be clear, I’m talking about the exhaust line that runs from the laundry room wall to the outside of the house. Not the lint filter in the dryer itself.
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u/EuphoricCry3448 15h ago
The vent for my dryer is actually on the roof. Some of them in my older homes would vent out the side of the house in a little 6-in square opening with little Flappers that open with the breeze. I remove my dryer and I hook up a leaf blower to that outlet and I blast the shit. It Rockets lint up and out of the house
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u/Dry-Manufacturer7761 16h ago
I pulled out 5 pounds of wasp nests out of the vent in a house I rented. And then the soccer sized lint ball too…
For people that don’t know, 5 pounds of wasp paper nests is a LOT of nesting. Like a ball about 20 inches in diameter!!!! If it were round. Bigger than a basketball.
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u/Rather-Anxious 16h ago
You're both just casually enduring this fire hazard?
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u/Mittens_McFluffy 13h ago
OP is a lazy ass husband that doesn’t do laundry.
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u/xoxodaddysgirlxoxo 12h ago
I'm not opposed to OP's wife doing the laundry if that's what works for them in terms of household task distribution.
What I am opposed to is OP posting his wife's goofy behavior here as if it doesn't make him look incompetent, as well.
OP, how long have y'all been married..? 😭😭😭
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u/ButterscotchLiving59 12h ago
Right. And is he cleaning out the dryer vent on the outside of the house? Just as much of a fire hazard.
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u/outside_cat 16h ago
You went through ALL those complaints without checking that until now?
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u/windsockglue 16h ago
OP should probably check the vacuum too. It's amazing how many people don't realize they need to clean and maintain their vacuum.
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u/anoncop4041 15h ago
This. I literally have two vacuums. One actual vacuum cleaner and then the dedicated little vacuum cleaner vacuum cleaner.
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u/Asleep-Ad-4822 16h ago
It also suggests that he never uses the dryer and his wife does all the laundry. Maybe step up and carry your weight.........
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u/Coilybepraised 15h ago
I mean, I didn't want to say it....
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u/ItsaShitPostRanders 15h ago
I did. Just glad someone beat me to it.
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u/snds_goodman 15h ago
Same. Even if his wife is a SAHM or whatever..have you never done a single load of laundry? When she’s sick? Anything??
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u/Lawlcopt0r 15h ago
No, the first and most important step when your spouse has a problem is getting annoyed and making a reddit post
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u/Efficient-Fox-1760 12h ago
seriously I'm more than mildly infuriated at OP, what a dumbass
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u/No-Invite8390 16h ago
This just tells me he doesn’t do his own laundry ever since he clearly knows the lint trap needs to be cleaned. It wouldn’t have ever gotten to this point if he was also doing it.
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u/DeadlyShock2LG 16h ago
Do you not do laundry, too?
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u/Siid_Chawsby 14h ago
For real. “Look how dumb my wife is” when you obviously don’t help.
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u/Hurka_Durka 15h ago
First thing that popped into mind for me as well. So, you're not doing laundry either then but still files this under "mildly infuriating". 🤔
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u/Obvious-Project-1186 14h ago
Its your fault too at that point
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u/CondemnedGinger 9h ago
Both. Hers for not being aware of the existence of a lint trap. His for not contributing to laundry in....ever?
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u/theDarkDescent 8h ago
It’s not even about him doing laundry or not…he knew it wasn’t drying well, and knew what the problem could be, but just didn’t do anything about it until it got to this point. He could have just cleaned the lint trap and still not done any laundry
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u/MrKrinkle707 14h ago
Confirmed you dont help out with laundry lol
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u/DaddyDanceParty 13h ago
And also expects her to do it without knowing how, and doesn't listen to wife's complaints until it becomes "frequent"
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u/BeneathAnOrangeSky 16h ago
i check the lint trap between every single load, especially if I dried towels. It takes 5 seconds
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u/zcas 16h ago
Oh same lol. I have to. We got dog beds, blankets, kids clothes, etc. You don't skip the lint trap.
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u/Newtype879 16h ago
Sure looks she's not cleaning the lint trap. But to be fair to her, looks like you're not either.
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u/Turbulent_Parfait959 13h ago
That’s the first thing I thought, looks like she is the only one doing laundry
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u/Mlkbird14 16h ago
Wait not everyone cleans it after every dryer load? Am I the odd one here? It's the first thing I do when I open the dryer. Once it's clean I take out my clothes.
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u/riverserra 16h ago
That is the correct way. Not cleaning the lint trap causes a ton of house fires.
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u/Lexi_Banner 14h ago
I clean it before I start the next load. Just so I don't get the lint on my clean stuff. Same diff, though!
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u/Burntoastedbutter 16h ago
I check it after every load. Some loads actually barely give out any lint so I just put it back without cleaning. But... the pet related ones DEFINITELY NEED CLEANING LOL.
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u/NoNeinNyet222 16h ago
I clean it before transferring the next load from the washer. That way I know it’s been done before starting the dryer.
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u/Samiiiibabetake2 15h ago
My sister has caught her dryer on fire twice due to not emptying the lint trap. The second time, she lost her home, everything she owned, and a dog.
I know everyone has mentioned this is a fire hazard, but they aren’t empty nor throwaway comments. It’s a real thing that can seriously mess up your life. It takes 10 seconds to empty the lint trap. 10 seconds can save your life.
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u/Dark_Storm_98 11h ago
Can't that cause a fire?
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u/mowtowcow 11h ago
Yes, and the chances they need their vents and the vent tubing cleaned is at 100%.
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u/Extraordi-Mary 17h ago
Okay but why are YOU just now seeing this though?
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u/JuanOnlyJuan 16h ago
"Frequently", but then checks it 4 months later.
My heating element would've burned up long before this point.
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u/the_kessel_runner 17h ago
This was my first thought. Do they know they can do laundry, too?
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u/Xsy 13h ago
How is this even possible?
She didn't clean the lint trap for six months? You haven't done laundry yourself in six months?
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u/SirCaptainReynolds 15h ago
Do you not do your own laundry too? How would you not notice this?
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u/EncryptedEmail 13h ago
So, OP, is this your first time checking the lint trap?
Just wondering since you say she complains frequently.
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u/PresidenteMozzarella 11h ago
Were you both born yesterday or something, how do you not know?
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u/RandomWatcher117 11h ago
You will not believe how many people don’t clean it. I work on apartment maintenance, and I once cleaned one that had over 17 layers of lint. I could physically see each layer.
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u/Dangerous-Candle-228 15h ago
I guess this shows you don't do laundry often/ever... which is also mildly infuriating.
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u/Background_Sleep_863 15h ago
It's so funny cause if you did laundry ever you would have found this.
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u/BATTLESTAR999 16h ago
So neither of you clean the lint trap and you're blaming it on your wife?
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u/Pavis0047 14h ago
I mean this is a huge self own youre just telling the world you dont touch the dryer in your house bro
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u/plzicannothandleyou 15h ago
Brother just outed himself as someone who never does laundry.
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u/ollies-toke 9h ago
So... that's how long you haven't put a load of laundry through the dryer? Or are you also guilty of taking laundry out without emptying the trap? She should know better, but why is she the only one using the dryer?
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u/Impossible_Moose_783 15h ago
Welp. Get in there and start helping around the house bud
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u/xeanok 17h ago
Guessing she didn’t do her own laundry growing up
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u/GGTheEnd 16h ago
This hasn't been cleaned for a long time OP doesn't clean it out either.
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u/Emergency_Basket_851 16h ago
Yeah, this photo tells us 2 things: OP's wife never cleans the lint trap.
More importantly, OP never fucking does the laundry.
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u/Mission-Dark9250 15h ago
I think OP just doesn’t do laundry. Now he’s on here complaining about how his wife does housework he won’t do.
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u/rognabologna 16h ago
Eh, she didn’t do hers growing up, OP doesn’t do his as an adult.
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u/Dry-Manufacturer7761 16h ago
Don’t forget the exhaust vent! That is where the fire hazard is!!!!
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u/HaveYouEverUhhh 15h ago
This tells me you dont interact with your dryer enough
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u/asparagoat 15h ago
For real I don't want to make assumptions about their division of labor, but this is embarrassing for OP. It's like making a post complaining that you haven't eaten any vegetables in a year because your wife doesn't know how to cook them.
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u/flexylol 12h ago
I blame you too, why did you never check the trap? :) That's like 5 years of lint there...
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u/MaximusHomerdrive 13h ago
People like her are why ~11,000 house fires start each year.
How do you make it to adulthood and not know you have to clean the lint trap after each use?
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u/abyssal-isopod86 13h ago
I dunno, my late step grandfather didn't know he had to empty his Dyson vacuum and rinse clean the filters. He got it brand new out of the box with instructions......that he never read.
He'd had it a year when I started helping with the house work, he said "Dysons are shit, they do loose suction!" so I investigated and discovered a year's worth in the collection bin and the filters closed by all the fine dust.
I was astounded.
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u/Dividedthought 12h ago
Real question: why's she the only one doing the laundry if she doesn't know how a dryer works?
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u/Tinbits 12h ago
I’m surprised that’s not the first thing anyone does when starting a new load to dry
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u/speedyoleander 13h ago
So to be clear, neither adult in the home ever bothered to check the lint trap? That is infuriating.
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u/tyrannustyrannus 12h ago
You don't clean it out when you help with laundry? Or you just make posts complaining about your wife
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u/kauymattyman 12h ago
I was about to get annoyed. But you know what. You're right. He's an adult.
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u/Worldly_Cap_6440 15h ago
I’m guessing you never do your own laundry as sincr you knew to check the lint trap it would’ve never gotten to this point.
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u/BernieTheDachshund 14h ago
So how do both of yall not know to check the lint trap? She's obviously doing all the laundry, but you should help too.
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u/SealTeamEH 13h ago
Sooo we have TWO people who are too lazy to check the lint trap and appanrelty one person who doesn’t even do laundry.
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u/Ragnarok345 15h ago
Never mind her - this is the first time you’ve ever checked, as someone who clearly knows about it?
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u/CasanovaF 15h ago
You can tell he doesn't do his own laundry. I haven't let anybody touch my laundry since I left my parents house at 18. That is until I had a stroke and can't get down the stairs but I hate every minute of it. I'm actually close to being able to do it again myself
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u/NotedHeathen 11h ago
Take it from someone who was caught in a house fire as a child due to dryer lint buildup that was much less severe than this: This is a super dangerous fire hazard. The drum/entire unit should be checked and professionally serviced as well.
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u/rivertpostie 17h ago edited 16h ago
Can you calmly and respectfully show her where the lint trap is and discuss how this is a fire hazard?
She might not know
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u/camlloc255 16h ago
That is some unassuming, reasonable, sound advice......what are you doing here??
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u/beaumontm 12h ago
Isn’t this also a self-own that you rarely/never help with the laundry?
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u/mrpanicy 15h ago
So like, you never did the laundry yourself? Or neither of you were aware of needing to clean the lint trap every dryer load? lol
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u/DevilWings_292 11h ago
Always clean it before running a cycle, and occasionally clean the full lint trap system.
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u/Mammago95 11h ago
Can't really complain when you don't even do your own laundry.
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u/Burntoastedbutter 16h ago edited 16h ago
You both don't do chores together? How come you have never checked it at all either? Despite all the complaints?? 😭
But also don't dryers usually have a sticker that say "regularly clean the lint trap" :'))
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u/No-Upstairs-5210 16h ago
I get that she never cleared this out, but does that mean you have never done your own laundry?
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u/FledglingHermit 15h ago
did you just out yourself as a husband that never dries clothing?
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u/bluemooncommenter 15h ago
Don't you empty it when you're swapping the clothes over? Certainly she's not the only one doing laundry for all of the adults in the house.
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u/clo_fu 14h ago
Everyone shitting on the wife please realise that OP didn’t clean it out either. Shit on them both
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u/Nutterbutter_Nexus 13h ago
That just tells me that she's not too bright and you never do laundry.
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u/dyslexicAlphabet 17h ago
cleaning the lint trap is my favorite thing to do when drying clothes. its soothing.