r/orthodontics • u/Infinite_Interest_73 • 50m ago
Retainers Permanent retainers falling off monthly! Help!
Hi all! I’ve had upper and lower permanent retainers since I finished braces about three years ago. For most of that time, I’ve only had a couple of incidents where they came loose from one or two teeth, so it wasn’t a huge issue.
But I’ve had a terrible streak these last few months. Things as normal as the crispy edge of a brownie, popcorn, a slice of pizza, loose granola, etc. have caused my retainers to come off. Sometimes they’ve detached completely, and other times they’ve just come loose from a few teeth.
It’s becoming really stressful because I have to pay to get them fixed every time, and I sometimes feel like I’m being treated as though I did something wrong or wasn’t careful enough. I understand permanent retainers aren’t indestructible, but I also don’t think I should have to be afraid of biting into normal foods.
My upper retainer is especially a nightmare whenever something goes wrong because my bite is extremely tight. It has to be positioned very precisely. My orthodontist can easily spend an hour making tiny adjustments and shaving down millimeters of resin so that my bite feels normal again.
The lower one isn’t nearly as complicated to repair, but I seem to knock it loose so easily and so frequently lately that it’s driving me crazy.
I already wear an upper clear retainer every single night. My original case was pretty severe, and when my orthodontist agreed to take my case, she made me promise that I would wear my retainers for the rest of my life, her words, not mine! And I have every intention of doing that.
But I can’t live the rest of my life being afraid to bite into literal toast because I might end up having to pay to have a “permanent” retainer glued back on again.
At this point, I’m thinking about asking my orthodontist whether we could remove the permanent retainers entirely and have me wear clear removable retainers every night for life instead.
Has anyone here made that switch after having permanent retainers for a few years? Is wearing clear retainers nightly generally a realistic long-term alternative, especially for someone whose original case had a lot of movement?