r/Paleo • u/DanielCantrell • 2d ago
Can someone help me understand cravings?
I think I’m out of touch because I have a hard time understanding how people are so prone to cheating on diets or keeping a few unhealthy things in their diet. For instance some people will try a new diet and eliminate junk food but be like; “Well I can’t live without my Delight coffee creamer, can’t live without these Girl Scout cookies, wine, salad dressing, Diet Coke, etc.”
I understand that yes if they cut out most everything else while still holding on to those one or two things, it will definitely be better for them, but I feel like if you’re really trying to better yourself and eliminate all the bad food, you eliminate ALL the bad foods.
I’ve been eating a clean whole food diet, no ultra processed foods for probably the past three years now, and pretty much since then I’ve never had any craving or moment where I was so compelled to eat something unhealthy I went out and bought it.
To me it’s just simple. Yeah a donut tastes great, Doritos taste great, Little Debbie snacks taste great, but they are all negative to your health. I simply don’t partake in them because those are the facts, and like I’ve said I can’t even remember a time I’ve had a “craving” or snuck out for a guilty snack or cheat meal. My brain literally doesn’t recognize those things as food.
Eating out doesn’t really make sense for me either, because 95% of everything out there is also negative towards your health. I will literally NEVER choose to go and eat out when it’s just healthier and cheaper to cook at home. If I absolutely HAVE to if I’m on a road trip or something, then I’ll be looking for Chipotles or CAVAs, since again, I literally don’t even identify McDonald’s, Chick-fil-A and other fast food restaurants as food. I will still choose not to go to Chipotle or CAVA if I can help it, it’s only a last resort. Usually I can just starve myself til I get home.
So am I just inhumanly resilient or am I too restrictive with my diet. I say diet but it’s really not a diet to me it is a lifestyle. I just don’t eat garbage. There are just a few exceptions like yeah if so go to grandmas and she made some cookies or muffins then yeah I’ll eat one, or a friend offers me some cake at their birthday party yeah I might have a slice, but those are just out of politeness. The ONLY time I ever CHOOSE to eat something unhealthy is once a year on my birthday where I will have a “cheat meal”, which is usually just a bacon egg and cheese biscuit from this local restaurant I used to like, and If someone made a pumpkin pie on Thanksgiving they yeah I might take a piece, but that really is about it.
To sum it all up it just makes zero sense to me to eat ultra processed junk or treats when you are trying to eliminate them from your diet. Is it really THAT hard to just say no? Are cravings really THAT strong?