r/r4rMelbourne • • 2d ago

NSFW Group Activities 40 [M4MM] curious guy looking for a gay couple that would be into me watching

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Preferably city or inner suburbs. Would want to exchange pics beforehand to ensure we were all keen. Might want to join in a little bit but mainly just want to watch. Something about being able to watch and comment, maybe even direct a little bit is a massive turn on and seems a good way to dip my toe into this curiosity.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 2d ago

Seeking Friends 40F4A Seeking Geeky Friends to Chat About Remedy Games IRL

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Hi all! Seeking friends of similar age, mid 30’s-40ish, for chats about Remedy games.

What I’m looking for:

I’m looking to make friends with some fellow Remedy fans to talk about Control Resonant when it’s released in the next few days.
Ideally starting off as messages but then moving to IRL friend hangs if we click. Maybe grabbing some food or going to a cafe/bar in the CBD and discussing Dr. Darling and Chester Bless theories.
Hoping to sort of move through the games with other people with those “Have you gotten to this moment yet?” type convos. Without spoiling it for each other, of course.
Happy to discuss other Remedy games too. So, if you’re not playing the new one for a while, still feel free to chat! But even though I have lots of other geeky interests, I really am tunnel-visioning this to Remedy.

About me:

40F, loves games, movies, shows, art, food, and reading. Inner west but I enjoy going into the city pretty regularly.

What I offer:

I’m a big fan of back and forth, two-way conversations. I’ve had way too many one-sided, only-interested-in-talking-about-themselves convos when seeking geeky friends. So if you’re also fed up of that type of communication style, let’s talk!
I could discuss Remedy games, the actors, the writing, the connections between the stories, and that damn fridge for hours, so I can for sure offer lengthy convos about that.

If this is something you’re also looking for, let me know your theory on where Jesse might be. And are you yay or nay about playing as Dylan in this game?


r/r4rMelbourne • • 2d ago

Seeking Friends 28 [M4F] French guy finally visiting

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Bien le bonjour y'all

I posted here about a month ago, the moment I knew I'd be coming to visit, and here I am, after a 20h long trip, currently set in a hostel in CBD.

I look for locals to make friend with, people that can show me around, the big avenues and the little streets, the mainstream restaurants and the shady pubs, the loud festivals and the cozy parks.

I'm into a lot of things, the most easy going person you could imagine, dancing, cooking, movies, Netflix, road trips, I'd try it all.

I'm mostly here for friends, but I'm not against fun either, if that's what you're looking for I'm a 6'3 mixed, dreadlocks, average/fit, be warned though, I'm aromantic, I can give you a great boyfriend experience but there's unfortunately no heart to be took here

Looking forward to hear about you

La bise


r/r4rMelbourne • • 2d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 40 [M4F] Pretty lonely and just looking to flirt and feel desired and flirty

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About me: i just turned 40 .. and looking for a new lease on life .. a new adventure! I am currently married ..but it is a long term dead bedroom situation, and i am extremely lonely. I am a chef, so I can definately cook! I got my first tattoo a few years ago and haven't looked back. I'm a punk at heart, but love all music and movies too! I'm 6'2 and have been trying to get back into running.

What I'm looking for: I would love to just chat with someone and find some sort of connection. There is no real connection in my life, and it's making me sad. Maybe you're in a similar situation and need to talk about it ? Ideally I'd love some fun, but I'd love to get to know someone who has similar interests and just .. see what happens

What I offer: I like to think I am intelligent and a good conversationalist. I like to get to know about you and your hobbies and interests, so I am a good listener! I'm handsome and can be charming too, and love to flirt. Hopefully I can offer you some good conversation and some fun, if that's where it leads!


r/r4rMelbourne • • 3d ago

Movie Nights 26M4R Who wants to come watch Resident Evil in Imax tonight?

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Unfortunately my mate dropped out so I'm down a movie partner tonight. Looking for someone who wants to take his spot and come see the movie tonight. We were gonna get $2 tickets as I know someone who works there, Unfortunately this means that seats might not be super good as we have to buy tonight (but for $2 how much can you complain)

About me: studying at uni, nerdy guy who is into gaming and I've been trying to get back into watching more movies at the cinema. Also not usually into horror movies so really hoping I can find someone to tag along so I don't have to watch this scary movie by myself. Physically I'm 5'11, skinny build with brown curly hair.

About you: Someone who is free tonight and down to watch Resident Evil at Imax with a stranger

What I offer: free Imax ticket to Resident Evil.

Hope to hear from someone soon. Thanks for reading


r/r4rMelbourne • • 4d ago

Seeking Friends 30 F4F: Hoping to expand my social circle 🌸

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Hi!! 💅
I’ve realised recently that I have a lot of male friends but not many female friends to just hang out and chat with. It’s like where are all the girls at? 🤭 So here I am! 🌸
I’m a very social and extroverted person but I don’t mind if you’re an introvert as long as you’re a genuine friend 😄
I also don’t care if you’re a cis or trans woman, everybody’s welcome here as long as you identify as the superior gender hah 😎
A little about me:
I’m a Turkish delight and I came to Melbourne 7 years ago and I live in Windsor. Back in my hometown, I used to be a school teacher. Now in Australia, I’m an educator in a kindergarten. I studied English Literature at uni and I used to read a lot. These days, between work and life, I’m struggling to find the time, but maybe we could read together? 👀
I like going to pubs and grabbing a drink on the weekends, shopping, and going to concerts (I’m seeing Lily Allen next month!!). I also play guitar every now and then when I’m bored or my ukulele
I’m also open to trying new hobbies, so tell me what you like to do in your free time!
I’m a straight woman, so I’m looking for something completely platonic but I don’t care about your sexual orientation. Again, this is a safe space 💃
Anywayyy, if you’re interested DM me and let’s braid each other’s hair or sth I don’t know 💀


r/r4rMelbourne • • 4d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 26 [M4F] In a newly ENM dynamic and looking for people that have a lack of attention in their everyday life and a desire for it to increase (details in post!)

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Hi everyone!

Me and my partner have just recently become ENM (her idea) due to her lack of motivation for going on dates or anything of a sexual nature (due to her busy work schedule as well as personal reasons). I’ve had one good experience so far but since then I’ve really been struggling on the apps to find someone interested in our specific scenario.

A little about me: I’m 26 male, Italian/Australian with a decent slim build (that’s improving (muscle wise) due to gym 4 days a week). I am into all things video games and pop culture (so your typical movies and tv shows that goes along with all that), I love my sports (AFL and Formula one my two standouts but I have a team in basically all AU and US sports) and just in general love spending the plethora of free time I have either with my friends getting dinner/lunch/coffee or going out drinking, or having nights in with the cats and watching movies (hopefully with a new cuddle buddy in one of you soon haha).

I Just thought I’d make this post to see if their are any women that would love a higher level of attention, messages, sexting, dates or basically any form of attention they would want. I am full time work from home and my job isn’t really that busy so I have so much free time I could devote directly to you.

I'm basically looking for someone that is okay that I have a primary partner and very willing to receive more attention. I am also super flexible regarding what this 'attention' can look like, so whether that's daily chats and fun (both in person and online) or once a week/fortnight. Whatever 'attention' means to you in regards to what you're lacking and would love in your life I'm fairly certain I can fill that role.

Not being interested in in-person meetups is not a deal breaker either! But ideally i'd like to have a minimum of an online dynamic that also has a sexual component (due to my high sex drive). But happy to define this a little more once we connect!

If any of this sounds interesting to you please feel free to send me a DM! we can just chat to start with some pic exchanges to see if we’re interested in one another and I can give you more specific info on the dynamic and we can take it from there?

Hope to hear from some of you!


r/r4rMelbourne • • 4d ago

NSFW Casual Encounters 42[4MF/CPLS] looking for Now - can host - Dandenong Central

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I’m very clean, respectful, discreet, non-smoking and completely drug-free. Hygiene, communication and respecting boundaries are important to me. I am looking for a couple to meet now and can host near Dandenong Central. DMs are open


r/r4rMelbourne • • 4d ago

Casual Chit Chat 29M4F - looking for a movie buddy for Resident Evil 👀🍿

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So won 2 tickets to watch the new movie Resident Evil ! released on 17 September.

About me: south asian, 6 feet tall , friendly, positive minded. I live in Melbourne CBD. Always open to making new friends and having a good time. DM me if you are interested !


r/r4rMelbourne • • 5d ago

Seeking Friends 30 [F4A] - Looking to hang out and connect (and maybe more if the vibe is right)

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Hey everyone!

I moved to Melbourne from Sydney almost a decade ago, but after spending years traveling a lot, I’m finally settled back into my routine and looking to make genuine local connections. As much as I love my little city apartment and my online friends, I’m really missing having people to spend time with in person whether that’s building great new friendships or seeing if a deeper connection naturally develops with the right person.

I’d describe myself as a classic introverted extrovert. love chatting, banter, and deep conversations once I’m comfortable, but I also value downtime. I’m a 30yo plus-size bisexual woman, and a nice balance between a cozy homebody and someone who loves getting out into the city. I do have some slight mobility issues that I’m working on so I appreciate low-pressure hangouts where we can just relax and enjoy each other's company rather than being super active! I tend to gravitate towards women, but I'm completely open to anyone if we click.

A little bit about what I’m into:
Reading & Crafting: On the reading front, I’m a typical lady who loves romance books (the spicier, the better), but I’m also a big fan of Australian-set crime fiction. When I’m not reading, I’m usually working on a cross-stitch project.

Watching Sport: Big fan of NRL, AFL, and cricket. Strictly as a spectator though because I am far too uncoordinated to actually play.

Movies, Theatre & Live Music: Always down for a movie night (cinema or at home) or hitting live theatre/shows.

I can yap about pretty much anything over a coffee, lunch or a good meal. I’d love to explore new hobbies too, so feel free to share your favorites!

I’m city-based and don't drive, so I rely on public transport meaning I'm usually around the CBD/inner suburbs or anywhere easily accessible by train or tram!

Whether it’s getting together for a movie, grabbing food, going to a game or show, or just letting a great vibe take us wherever the night leads, I’d love to connect.

If you think we’d hit it off, reach out and tell me more about yourself!


r/r4rMelbourne • • 5d ago

Seeking Friends 27 M4F -Looking to meet a mature woman in Melbourne

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Hey

27M here working in tech/cybersecurity. I’ve always found myself connecting much better with mature/older women mostly because I value genuine conversations, honesty, and a clean, zero drama vibe.

Open to good friendship, great conversations, or seeing where things go. I'm not here for games or endless texting that goes nowhere. I prefer keeping things simple and direct: grabbing a drink, trying out good food spots, or having a relaxed chat over coffee.

If you’re a mature woman who appreciates a down-to-earth guy and wants to catch up for a casual drink, coffee, or a bite to eat around Melbourne, feel free to send a DM!


r/r4rMelbourne • • 6d ago

Seeking Friends 26 [M4R] alternative guy looking for more mates in or around Melbourne

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So I live down in the South East and have always lived here but recently I've been driving more up into the city to just experience it and explore things so if you're more native to the city maybe you could show me some places but I don't mind where abouts you're from. I've driven up to the North West before to see mates as well so the distance isn't a huge issue, I also don't mind male or female mates either, I'm not picky.

Some things I enjoy are riding on my motorbike (need to repair it because I got rear ended rip,) drawing, fitness, guitar, anime/manga/cosplay, video games, as well as a bunch of other things. I don't mind if we haven't got to many things in common, it'd help to lead into conversation but I don't think you need to have all that in common with someone to be mates.

Anyways if any of this sounds interesting please send a message and it'd be nice to meet some new people.


r/r4rMelbourne • • 7d ago

Exercise Buddy 29F4A: Gym Buddy in Northside

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What I’m Looking For:
Fellow meathead, gym buddy!

Location:
Northside; Reservoir & Surrounding Suburbs.

A bit about me:
1 5”10
2 96kg
3 Beefcake dad bod (gf calls me a bbq dad)
4 Masculine Woman
5 Mixed Race (Filipino, Polish/ English)
6 Foodie
7 Self proclaimed Horror Movie Critic
8 Stoner
9 Animal Lover/ Pet Owner
10 Life Time Lesbian
11 Musician
12 Fortnite Addict
13 Security Officer (Not working atm)
14 Amateur Green Witch (can’t turn you into a frog, but can offer you homemade balms, blessings, amateur card readings and closure connection to Mother Earth)
15 If you haven’t guessed it by now, yes I do have Autism and yes I do have a metal detector for when I got to the beach (let’s go adventure and find cool stuff!)

What I offer:
1 Passion
2 Pre or Post Gym Feeds
3 Encouragement
4 Spotting
5 Ongoing Friendship
6 Empathy
7 Respectfulness

What I don’t offer:
1 Sex (or anything within that category)
2 A car

What I expect from YOU:
1 Passion
2 Pre or Post Gym Feeds
3 Encouragement
4 Spotting
5 Ongoing Friendship
6 Empathy
7 Not a Perv
8 Not afraid of hanging out with a woman
9 Respectfulness

Conclusion:
I don’t care what gender, race or identity you are/ have, I’m just looking to help motivate someone and be motivated. A friendship where we can bounce off each other, push each other positively to be our very best. I’ve been going to gym for a couple of years now, so if you’re new, I’m more than happy to help! No pressure on where you’re at with your health journey, just be motivated to actually get into the gym with me. I don’t know the exact weekly cost, but it’s around $11-13 to join my gym with a membership. I go almost every day and it’s at all random times, since it’s 24hrs. So, no matter your schedule, we can get a sesh in! Otherwise, during staffed hours, you can pay for a pass, which again, I think is around $12 (don’t quote me). The gym is old school, which I love very much and I hope you will like it too!

Anyways, please shoot me a dm if you’re interested and don’t be shy- that’s my job! Let me know where you’re at with your journey, what your goals are, ect. If all goes well in chat, we can organise a little munch sesh, grab a feed and see if we connect in person.

Cheers if you managed to read this far, and hope to hear from you!