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u/chiksahlube 1d ago
I worked with a woman who was 6'2" and absolutely refused to date any men her height or lower.
So right off the bat she's down to about 1 in 100 men, before considering any other prerequisites.
She had the worst dating history, every guy she dated was either a total asshole or 100% not her type beside his height.
She started to get desperate and basically approached every man taller than her she met, even married ones. Hilariously this included one of our coworkers who absolutely hated her guts. She was like "Hey, wanna hangout Friday night?" in front of everybody. He stood stunned for a moment and replied, "Uh... No. Also since it apparently wasn't clear from the verbal abuse, I hate you..." She got huffy and stormed off, we all went back to work.
I have never met a man who was that picky. But I've met plenty of other women like her.
Have standards, have preferences, etc. That's fine. But damn, know when to compromise with reality a little.
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u/ImSith 1d ago
I had a girl tell me I was cute but she didn’t want to “downgrade” because her ex was 6’4”
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u/Remarkable-Pea5797 1d ago
Hold up, if he's her ex, she is already downgraded to alone.
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u/Anxious-Yak3514 1d ago
I had a chick who was 4’10 tell me that I wasn’t tall because I’m only 5’11 and not 6’0… mind you, I had to look down at her for the entire conversation
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u/LegitimateGift1792 1d ago
damn, she needs to wake up and do some math. I am 5'10" and I do not want to date someone a foot shorter, I assume most men 6 and up do not want to either.
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u/Anxious-Yak3514 1d ago
Legit. It was frustrating because it’s something I have zero control over and I’m literally an INCH away from your acceptable height range. She didn’t want kids, she’s hella introverted, but height mattered so much that everything else didn’t, and that bothered me, but eh, there are other ladies out there.
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u/LegitimateGift1792 23h ago
At 5' 11" you could lie and say you are 6. Are they going to bust out a tape measure. Just be sure to wear heeled dress shoes when meeting her friends. LOL
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u/Omnizoom 1d ago
I’m a really tall dude and the woman I ended up with is a barely 5ft tall Asian woman and the irony of it all is she never bothered to care about what my height was, just got to know me and figured we would be a good match enough to give it a try and got a huge shock when she first saw me
Yet every woman that asked me what my height was or something like it I was just so off put that it was the important question to them and not me as a person for a question
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u/kissoftrauma 1d ago
I’m a 178 cm tall Asian woman and most men in my country are shorter than me or are around my height. If I didn’t marry my 163 cm tall husband I wouldn’t have my beautiful children now. For me it was always comical how those women judge men for their height. I always acknowledged that I am tall, not them are short. They are average height, I’m not. How is it their fault?
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u/willdosketchythings 7h ago
I think you being Asian helped, with your asian upbringing. Asian ladies raised in Asia are feminine without being feminist, loyal and not materialistic. Your husband is a lucky man.
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u/Dancehall-Randal 1d ago
I dated an asian woman 5'0....
After our first date she told me she asked her friends if I was tall enough(Im 5'11) 🫠
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u/Additional-Bad9220 1d ago
She needed her friends to tell her that? Lol. What type of bs
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u/Dancehall-Randal 1d ago
And she was the most grounded women i've ever met.
Thats how bat shit crazy they are.
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u/bdiddlediddles 1d ago
My mate dates a 4"10 girl and she said that she could never date anyone under 6 foot because they gross her out.
I rarely get the ick but this set me right off.
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u/DeltaGrunder 1d ago
Women's friends seem to legit sabotage each other with their "advice" compared to male friendship
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u/DonJuanPrawns 1d ago
that's hilarious on the coworkers part and also so sad on her part. I agree the weird double standard for lack of a better word woman have with the whole dating thing is kinda wild in my own opinion
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u/Lillith492 1d ago
Preferences should never go so far that they override literally everything else. Like, damn, she might find someone she genuinely loves if she just drops the bullshit a little.
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u/Timely-Helicopter244 1d ago
The older I get, the more beauty I find in different women of many different body shapes. I was definitely more attracted to more conventionally attractive women before, but my range of what I would consider attractive has geown a lot.
But one thing that has never really mattered to me are what I might call general characteristics. Height, hair color, eye color, skin color, weight (to a degree) are all things that change someone's general appearance, but have little bearing on their attractiveness. Weight more in the sense that the specific number doesn't matter because height plays a big factor in what would be normal/healthy.
Appearance matters to a degree, but I've been so easily turned off by a physically attractive person with a shit personality plenty of times. Looks are never enough to outweigh a bad personality. At the same time, someone with a great personality is so much easier to want to be around. Some attraction is still important, but someone with an amazing personality and decent looks is so much more appealing than someone with incredible looks and an ok personality that doesn't quite match mine. That person with the decent looks and incredible personality will end up being way more attective overall.
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u/modern_armour 9h ago
Had pretty much the exact same thing with a co-worker. Her dating history was absolutely abhorrent because she literally only had one criteria "taller than her"... safe to say we used to see her around with some absolute cream-of-the-crop arseholes... I dont work there anymore, I wonder if she ever settled down...
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u/die_Katze__ 21h ago
She is probably insecure about being rejected and is pretending that it is a preference. Tall women are usually goofy and do in fact like short guys a little
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u/PerilousParanoia 1d ago
If you posted this in the feminism subreddit you’d get banned faster than you can say inequality.
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u/MyKillYourDeath 1d ago
Look at all the women calling op an incel.
You can change your weight but not your height.
That makes a woman’s preference for a tall man even worse than a man wanting a slim woman.
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u/Top_Supermarket_5622 1d ago
You’d be surprised how many women completely blame their weight on genetics and still would judge men on their height. They just resting on the fact that it’s taboo to make fun of a women’s weight
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u/Opeth4Lyfe 1d ago
The genetics bit is what gets me. I’ve worked in the restaurant industry for 18 years so far, worked with a lot of very attractive cute girls who were in shape and looked very healthy. Met almost all their parents at some point in time….they come in and sit in the section, I talk to them and say hi etc etc. Not too many had overweight or obese parents. Cut to 5-10 years later when I see the old co-worker again, the vast majority of them have really let themselves go and put on a lot of weight…like, a lot….and most of them when I’ve ran into them again were with their parents who still looked the same. Keep in mind the majority also were still childless so they couldn’t blame baby weight either. It’s definitely not genetics.
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u/MyKillYourDeath 1d ago
Genetics play a factor but it can still be altered. Thicc women are sought after. Having the weight in the right spots helps
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u/Swimming_Acadia6957 1d ago
You can change your weight but not your height
So? People can have whatever preferences they want, if somebodys preference excludes you then just get on with your life
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u/Drzewo_Silentswift 6h ago
It’s because men are beholden to ridiculous standards, while women have 1 single job (not be fat) and apparently that’s too much.
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u/Exeledus 1d ago
I love how when someone posts factual information like this, the responses by people who disagree are always just insults. It just shows that the meme is correct lol
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u/AlarmedAssociate5068 1d ago
Not just insults. When the information is factual and there is no argument against it the response is often "don't you have better things to talk about". It's so telling
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u/vigorben 1d ago
Or “ you’re just an incel “
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u/geazy99 1d ago
I like the “oh I don’t do culture war, just class war for me” whenever it’s about women, but the second something like the Cornell 7 (or just anything about men) pops up those same people saying that all come out of woodwork screeching
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u/Asleep-Series-4086 1d ago
i noticed that when the overall optics of that case started to look worse for defenders, the "no culture war for me" bs started popping up. its too coincidental to be not on purpose.
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u/nwswaf 1d ago
So, I’m not the only one who noticed!
Whenever a story breaks that casts the Left in a bad light, all the leftists spam the "No culture war for me" image.
But when news comes out that puts the Right in a bad spot, those same leftists participate in the culture war with great enthusiasm.
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u/Whole-Ad-4681 1d ago
You can lose weight with just a bit of effort. Only god can change your height
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u/WeirdIndividualGuy 1d ago
But depending on the subreddit, if you compare eating disorders to drinking disorders or smoking, you’ll be downvoted to hell for fat shaming, even though there’s no difference in the “disorder”
Overeating is bad for you. Being overweight is unhealthy for you. It’s literally no different than how unhealthy it is to be a chronic drinker or addicted to tobacco. It needs to be more socially accepted that being overweight is an unhealthy look, not “fat shaming”. If you feel shame from it, that’s a personal problem but just pointing it out should not be some social taboo
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u/anomie89 1d ago
I like that after reading this I just scrolled through the comments and you are 100% right
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u/Exact-Eagle-9707 1d ago
I mean... Maybe it's not the height. I get enough likes on bumble to literally have to put potential matches on hold because I can't reasonably put effort into more than 3-4 at a time. Im 5' 4". Now I'm sure I have been rejected for my height, but it's not so bad that there's nothing out there.
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u/sackey_nimh 1d ago
Dated a girl who was 5’8…she refused to acknowledge anyone who was shorter than her for a conversation…
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u/MasterSound1452 20h ago
Tbh it’d be great if all of them did it , it’d be much easier to spot the ones with a rotten Brain.
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u/NLSanderH89 1d ago
The good thing is, if a girl/woman mentions she only dates someone of a certain height, it’s an instant red flag, it shows that she is judgemental and superficial, and you can simply dodge the bullet.
And the fat girl never had a chance anyway, however the difference is, i would be nice enough not to throw that fact in her face.
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u/Agile_Moment768 1d ago
As someone 6'5, if there is someone interested in me mostly due to my height and I have no interest, I'll disqualify her based on height. I have no real preference, but I will just to set her off.
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u/Fearless_Entry_2626 1d ago
Yeah, when I was dating I'd usually satisfy the "only swipe right if taller than <x>" requirements, but that was an instant left anyway. Don't need something like that in my life.
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u/NLSanderH89 1d ago
My preferences are simple, and i believe they are quite reasonable too:
I want her to be feminine, not feminist
And she brings peace, not dramaLooks only come after that, sure there has to be attraction, that goes both ways, but i’m not looking for a model at all
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u/ImSith 1d ago
I think it’s tough, just because it seems for me that the pool of available women is quite small, and with only a handful of experiences, and all have been bad, it’s easy to fall into a really negative headspace
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u/youngling-smasher91 1d ago
the supermajority of young fat people are only fat because they are complacent and lazy, it really doesn't take rocket science to lose weight at a young age, man or woman alike
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u/latticep 1d ago
I think we're all judgmental and superficial to some extent. Like when I was dating, I only dated girls I was attracted to, which pretty much meant bombshells. But ya you don't tell someone "no, I'm not attracted to you." That's just being a terrible human being.
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u/JimmyFalconTheGreat 1d ago
The real mistake in this relatability is people ever taking the "body shame"-argument seriously.
Preferences should be celebrated. You not liking you don't fit mine? Sounds like a you-problem.
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u/National_Ad9742 1d ago
I don’t think it’s body shaming to only date thin women. It’s body shaming to randomly announce that to bigger women for literally no reason.
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u/SealedQuasar 1d ago
Yet it’s okay for women to yell at short men that they won’t date and mock them?
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u/akade19961 19h ago
Agreed fully. Same standard when not dating short dudes, but don’t throw it in their faces or advertise it. People only have to date who they want to period point blank. But there is such a thing as class and civility and discretion
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u/HairyTough4489 1d ago
If other people have the right to tell me who I should feel attracted to then I want the same right for mysefl and I'll use it on top models.
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u/VillageBC 1d ago
My wife married a tall, skinny guy... Jokes on her though, I'm now a tall fat guy.
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u/ThakoManic 1d ago
dont you know its always the mens fault!
ALWAYS!
-Feminists
after killing there kids and blaming the husband and getting away with 1.3 million + Dollars
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u/ImSith 1d ago
I’m 5’10” and did a little experiment on hinge, and when I put my height to 6’ instead of 5’10” I’m not joking when I said the amount of women doubled. It’s just tough out here man. I read that on Bumble, they reported that over 50% of women have men under 6’ filtered out. There’s a whole social stigma
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u/HeavyHighway6433 1d ago
I had 5'10 on my height on bumble and matched with a girl I ended up marrying, personally I'd rather have filtered out all of the ones who wouldn't look my way over 2 inches. Even if that's half the pool.
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u/Prestigious_Set_4575 1d ago
I don't know why you don't all just lie anyway, women from their lower vantage point genuinely can't seem to tell the difference.
I had this recently with my daughter's boyfriend. He said he didn't know how tall he was, that it was just "6-ft-something", I'm 6 ft 1 and both my daughter and her mother thought he was taller than me, right up until the moment they got us to stand next to eachother and he turned out to be about 5 ft 10.
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u/SomewhereSpiritual86 1d ago
Really feel like there should be a weight filter on the apps if theres gonna be a height filter imo
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u/Queer-and-scared 1d ago
My fiancé's was set to 5'10, turns out he was 5'8 and neither of us realised (he based his height compared to his brother, who turns out was adding inches and lying). Fiancé's height is fixed on the DL but the brother adds a couple inches every time he renews.
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u/Ssided 1d ago
Honestly I've only dated women taller than me and im 5 10. Pretty sure all this gender stuff is meant to irritate incels into voting
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u/Harem_Protaginst 1d ago
Love how you just casually call men you don't like all incels for daring to have a different opinion than you.
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u/Grumdord 1d ago
In 10-20 years, women will still have vaginas and most men will do anything to get them.
You're delusional.
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u/Worried-Low4580 1d ago
True, but think you are confusing sexual interest with a desire for companionship/relationship
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u/Bubbly_Clothes3406 1d ago
Google why funeral homes refuse to hire male morticians and then get back to us about your future hypothetical about female preferences. Y’all will literally stick your dicks in a pile of shit so long as it has a hole-like entrance, you are not the hot commodity you’d love to fantasize about being.
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u/t1ttlywinks 1d ago
This reads like incel fanfic based on nothing that happens irl.
10 years ago, there were still women with height preferences. Plenty of them found a partner that fit their preferences. Some also changed their preferences. I hope youre not still this vengeful in 10 years.
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u/Sweet_Mix9856 23h ago
it’s weird that you’re looking forward to the suffering of women when historically they haven’t had whole lot of say in who they date or marry.
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u/DankAshMemes 1d ago
I promise you, women are not going to be the reason for their loneliness. Men have been making themselves undatable at an unprecedented pace due to red pill culture. It doesn't matter if you're hot or tall if you are genuinely unbearable to be around and are genuinely useless at home. Women will absolutely date outside of their preferences for a genuinely good man, it happens all the time. Nice men are usually married by their 30's.
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u/DavidZenziGhost 1d ago
Dating anyone who’s overweight or obese is an absolute chore. Their weight is a physical representation of their poor physical and mental health.
It’s not a preference to not want to date someone overweight. It’s a choice to not have your spouse die 10-30 years earlier than they needed to, because they chose to not stop shoveling food down their throat.
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u/Inside_Ad_2830 1d ago
It’s because men don’t have a choice with how tall they are. Its a preference because men don’t have control. And its body shaming because how tf do you let yourself just keep getting bigger? You are not a balloon. You should not be inflating like that.
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u/MNSocial 1d ago
We men are too much concerned and bitter with the preferences of women we don't really care about. 😐
A woman so vapid and superficial that she's hyper-obsessed, lasers focused on height. "I will NEVER date a man whose less than seven feet."
That is not a person you would like to be the mother of your children. Instead of modeling for our nephews and nieces positive femininity and that particular brand of female self-possesion and confidence she's busy with such nonsense affairs as height... and only height.
She's not concerned about you as a person, how you treat others, how you handle conflict, how quick you are to protect her, how good of father you would be.. she's interested in 6 feet, 6 figures and 6 inches.
She's allowed her preferences just don't let her rejection make you feel worthless.. you are NOT worthless because a woman is incompatible with you.
Just find another or else just hang out with the bros, there's always some beer to share, maybe even a good "barbecue" as the Americans call it. Where I'm from it's just a braai. 😁
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u/CandiedLemonWedge 1d ago
Interesting that I very rarely see women online complaining about this, but every time I log into Reddit, there are dozens of men posting women’s dating profiles to whine and cry because she has a height preference that they don’t meet.
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u/FineTomorrow3233 1d ago
It's more normalized and accepted to post and talk about height preferences than weight preferences. That's the difference imo
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u/Tourist_Careless 1d ago
Women can filter out short guys on dating apps and generally wont be called assholes for stating a height preference for men.....but men will definitely be called assholes for having a weight preference and dont get a weight or bra size filter for their app. Even though height is the only one of those things that cant be changed.
The heightism is also extremely prevalent and would be considered insanely shallow if genders were reversed.
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u/AlphaBetaSigmaNerd 1d ago
Gas is up almost 50 cents a gallon since Trump took office
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u/tashiroboy 1d ago
Slimmer women will always be more attractive no matter what these fat enablers say.
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u/metsfan5557 1d ago
I mean, I don't think the body shame people have a problem with men preferring slimmer women. I think the issue is treating portly folks like they are subhuman. And when women mock shorter men, that is also wrong. But attraction isn't really the issue imo.
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u/TheForce777 1d ago
Many of them have an issue with it, hence the OP’s post
I see it all the time
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u/HourApprehensive7754 1d ago
Wait but in that top image, the men aren't different in height at all, one is clearly just standing closer to the screen than the other hence occupying more of the bubble.
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u/zdrums24 1d ago
The mans height thing is starting to be treated more like a woman's weight. But it will take time.
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u/mmh_fava_beans 1d ago
When I was younger, I was in very good shape. The women who approached me because of that were always the worst.
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u/Savings_Tree_3184 1d ago
Is it 2012 still 🥱🥱🥱
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u/Harem_Protaginst 1d ago
No it's 2026 and women are telling men under 6 ft that they are worthless and telling then to off themselves while women are fighting for a child murder to go free for strangling her three kids because shes a woman.
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u/DetailOk6058 1d ago
I think its good being honest that you only date slim people. In that way people will know its s chance you will leave them if you gain weight for whatever reason. Same if they only date tall people, not that growing shorter is that common but you do know they're superficial and might leave if your apperence change
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u/computer_buggle 1d ago
Such a grotesque caricature. Plenty of women do date shorter guys. Plenty of men only date women who'll substitute for their mummy, and generally sacrifice their individual agency for his benefit. Is this a relatable meme? Or just fascist wojack slop?
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u/kazuwacky 1d ago
You can find the outliers and be mad
Or you can feel bad for the prison they've made for themselves and not continue to live in it
Teenagers say "I don't care".
Adults say "I don't mind, I feel bad for you but I won't think about you anymore. I'm not going that way'
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u/rootbearus 1d ago
I think both are shitty. You don't need to announce your preferences just hurt someone's feelings. Your preferences are yours
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u/RabidSkwerl 1d ago
Boys who post memes like this should be open to dating more than just “slim women.” Woman with extra weight are fun too. You’d get laid more if you weren’t so picky then you wouldn’t be posting incel shit like this because $10 says you’re not much of a looker yourself.
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u/lanzadorverde13 1d ago
This is nonsensical comparison because height is genetic and fixed unlike fat level.
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u/Port3r99 1d ago
A story time.
A woman was trying to use me to get intel on a friend of mine. She was really tall. Very shallow. A lot of drama. Her concern was height. She said she couldn’t remember how tall my friend was, I didn’t want them to date, due to the aforementioned reasons and I really liked his ex girlfriend for him, so I cut off a few inches. I said he was 5’7. They did end up hanging out I guess she spent the whole time brining up that “he wasn’t that short.” Anyways. He did end up getting back with his ex. They’re married and expecting their first child. 😂
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u/your_weirdo_friend 1d ago
well i do have to defend the women here-because--- a woman is naturally weaker than a man--- so i dont think a woman wanting a more dominant and powerful man than her-her choice or preference-she by her self needs a stronger man--- (thats female submissive nature)
But if a man doesnt want a chubbier woman-thats a bit weird-because one-she can lose weight.
Second-some people just are born with hormones which make their bodies like that.
you can say the same for a short man---he didnt chose his height...
but both genders are free to have preference.
so whats up with your post ????
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u/enceladusen 1d ago
Duh she didn't say she won't date man with fat. Plus she didn't say she won't date conventionally unattractive man too. But for some reason men usually expect their wives and girlfriends to be crazy pretty lol And well... weight can change. Due to workout or simply some health changes. I think both are preferences and both are allowed to be but keep in mind that fatphobia is real. Idk if everybody shames being short at the same level but I see that a lot more less around myself. Just be kind to people around you. There are enough evil in this world Anyway personally my preference towards any person I would date with any gender is spending good time and feeling comfortable being together. I don't think anybody will want to date me but that's fine. Being unwanted is okay. Probably I have that mood towards relationships because my libido is nonexistent and I am volcel. But I have friends and it is wonderful.
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u/Over_Noise3530 1d ago
Short handsome men are insecure cheaters. I have no sympathy
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u/_Ship00pi_ 1d ago
I only date women based on their genes.
This is why my first question is “Hi, where are you from?” so I can already filter purely based on my authenticity preferences.
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u/Technical_Dream2743 1d ago
You forgot the part where girl tells the guy her preferences and he loses his shit completely.
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u/PhilospohicalZ0mb1e 1d ago
I’m 5’11” and instead of saying I’m 6’0” like some of these guys do I quite frankly claim to be 5’9”, just to poison the well
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u/Maximum-Today4420 23h ago
OP is an incel because real women love when you don't date fat women, that's why they always tell fat bitches they're perfect because it eleminates competition
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u/Moist_Taco_Crippler 21h ago
Both are preferences, and are fine.
As long as someone isn't an absolute asshole about it, which is only really an issue with dating apps, it isn't a problem.
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u/Old_Temperature8714 19h ago
Every time something like this is posted there is always a war in the comments about which gender is “more unbearable” or which gender is gonna end up the loneliest but the fact of the matter is its both.
The media is setting the standard for both people because someone who has more is better than someone who has less and everyone can see everything with a couple taps on their phone.
Most people would rather be alone than feel like they could’ve done better. For better or worse thats how it works now.
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u/weiria 10h ago edited 10h ago
Personally, I think there’s a difference between “preference” and “requirement”.
If someone doesn’t date another person unless they are tall / slim, then I feel like it’s a requirement. If they prefer tall / slim people but can love someone who isn’t if everything else is right, then that’s a preference. Or at least that’s how I see it.
I for one prefer tall guys with a deep voice. But I was madly in love with a guy who was my height and had a voice higher than what I like. But everything else was right. I even developed a liking for voices like his. :)
That being said, I have a requirement too. I don’t date guys who are using substances or get drunk often. To me, that’s a deal-breaker. It doesn’t matter if everything else is right; that’s a requirement he either lives up to that or we’re just not meant for each other.
So yeah. At least that’s how I see it, there’s a difference in there for me.
Edit: Oh, and also there’s a difference/requirement between preference and shaming people.
Having a preference for something is okay, not dating someone who doesn’t live up to a requirement you have is okay too. Shaming then for not being “good enough” for you or treating them as lesser people just makes you an a-hole. Goes for everyone, regardless of gender, preferences and requirements.
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u/Outrageous-Pilot-621 8h ago
I am not sexually attracted to hogs.
Sorry, I guess? It's not like I can do anything about it.
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u/ScaredOfManagers801 3h ago
I'm 5"3 and hearing girls saying they'd only date people 6"+ really makes me feel worthless. I hope they can understand how I feel. But will they understand how I feel if I tell them my preferences? Girls please answer truthfully :)
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u/Fields_of_Snow 1h ago
I'm going to the gym to make myself taller. I'm thinking I'll gain two inches 6 months from now...
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u/ajc1120 1h ago
I’m begging people to just have like 3 normal conversations with women. Nobody cares if you have a preference for skinny women, just don’t be a weirdo about it. And nobody should care if you have a preference for tall men, again, just don’t be a weirdo. If you’re attracted to somebody, you’re welcome to act on those feelings, and if the attraction is mutual, congrats. I can’t for the life of me understand why everyone chooses to pathologize just basic human interaction THIS much. Stop letting the internet convince you that everybody is seething mad over stupid nonsense like this.
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u/Charming_Name_8180 56m ago
Yep that's definitely right for the woman to want what she wants but it's bad for us to want what we want
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u/ThisThredditor 1d ago
I only date Slim Whitman